Try the bleedin' Personals forums, not one intended for discussion of topics, dipwad. Oh, wait, you've already done that. Okay, drop down a line or two in the list of forums from Lit Personals, where you've already been, and try the BDSM Personals if you're really interested in BDSM and not just hoping for wankfodder.
Legal Notice and Attorney's CYA Requirements: The author of this post is not an attorney, physician, or marital or sexual therapist or counselor (nor does he play any or all of the above on television). All opinions are offered only as the viewpoint(s) of an individual with a certain amount of life experience, and should not be considered to be legal, medical, or therapeutic/counseling advice.
Grammar: The difference between knowing your shit and knowing you're shit.
[Jacked from Wenchie's friend's Facebook page. Thanks!]