Originally Posted by Stella_Omega
Are you asking as a writer?
Because you certainly can write a guy that way if you want to. makes for a fun character.
I like that kind too.
In real life though?
There was the really average middle of the road guy who just had this thing about wanting to get tied up and tortured by women that seemed unconnected to anything else.
There was the easygoing guy who would rather let somebody else run the show, in the bedroom or anywhere else.
There was the obsessive one who was very specific about what he wanted to be 'forced' to do.
There was the guy who was always dominant until one day he got curious about the other side, and decided he liked that too.