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Old 03-18-2015, 04:47 PM   #1
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Does size of penises REALLY matter to us women?

Am I in minority in that I PREFER avg sized penises? I read about how men worry about their size, do they not realize not all woman, in fact many don't want big ones (at least not on a regular basis)? Or am I wrong in that thinking? I've had big ones, and while they are good for once in a long while, I really do prefer the average sized ones. What about the other ladies here?

Thoughts or opinions? Am I truly in minority in my preference or no?
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Old 03-18-2015, 04:51 PM   #2
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I prefer the penis that's attached to someone I care about.
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Old 03-18-2015, 04:54 PM   #3
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I prefer the penis that's attached to someone I care about.
Even better answer! I'd go with that too!
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Old 03-18-2015, 05:52 PM   #4
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Am I in minority in that I PREFER avg sized penises? I read about how men worry about their size, do they not realize not all woman, in fact many don't want big ones (at least not on a regular basis)? Or am I wrong in that thinking? I've had big ones, and while they are good for once in a long while, I really do prefer the average sized ones. What about the other ladies here?

Thoughts or opinions? Am I truly in minority in my preference or no?
In my experience it is typically guys that are more focused on the size itself.

Something that gets kind of lost is that while big dicks can be very impressive to look at, they are also more difficult to work with. I can deep throat pretty much anything, but it is definitely way easier with an average sized guy. Ive got to really stretch my lips to fit it all in sometimes, and afterwards my jaw can get a bit achey. Same thing with fucking--big dicks can get uncomfortable in a way that average sized dicks don't.

Most of my girlfriends don't have a very specific preference. The old adage "it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean" comes to mind.
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Old 03-18-2015, 06:38 PM   #5
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I prefer the penis that's attached to someone I care about.
Definitely this.
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Old 03-18-2015, 06:57 PM   #6
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Well, to answer the initial question - of course size matters! Whether the preference is for long/thick/short/thin/average/monster/tiny usually differs from woman to woman, but that doesn't mean it doesn't matter

As to what I prefer - anything between 6 and 8 inches (haven't tried more... yet) and thick enough for me to wrap my hand around it without my fingers overlapping
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Old 03-18-2015, 10:44 PM   #7
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I prefer the penis that's attached to someone I care about.
This. I couldn't have said it more succinctly myself.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:57 AM   #8
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I prefer the penis that's attached to someone I care about.
^^Absolutely the truth ^^
Thank you for the perfect wording.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:03 AM   #9
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Old 03-21-2015, 12:47 PM   #10
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I like these because it emphasizes would you be with someone solely based penis size. I think a different way to ask it is if you could scuplt the penis on the person you love, lol, what size would you make them. It's a bit different but still interesting. And yes I'd probably make my husband, the man I love, a bit larger.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:35 PM   #11
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Length doesn't matter much to me, but width can.
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Old 03-21-2015, 01:41 PM   #12
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Between 5" to 8" is fine by me. Anything over that is not going in me. Been there..done that...OWWW! Preferably thick BUT I think this issue is far more of a hang up with men than most women, at least the ones I know. The technique and skill a man uses is far more important. Not to mention a man who knows how to please a woman orally is of great value.
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Old 03-21-2015, 02:50 PM   #13
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I think just like men and boobs, it matters to some, others it doesn't. I've been with 6", 4" and 9" and the 4"was definitely the best... not to say the others weren't good... but 4" was more open, a little kinky and gave more into it with technique and I felt like cared about my pleasure in different ways. Plus it's fun to hold and play with, fun and easy to give blowjobs and get face fucked and we've even done anal. My current partner is the 9"... and he's such a sweetheart, but I think he thinks is dick does a lot of the job itself, and he's smart, but doesn't really think about things, and I don't think he really thinks about my pleasure... which I'm used to. I just feel like 4" is only one who has. He's the only man I've cuddled with. There are advantages and disadvantages to all, but I've learned first hand that at least to me, what matters is their intent.
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