Aaaaannnnnddd I'm back!
Been away for awhile dealing with relationship issues, blah blah blah.
All kinds of things leading to the end of the commitment, so now I'm all single and such, and I've been thinking...
It felt safe to try exploring BDSM within a partnership because I felt comfortable with him, but the idea of trying to explore with people I'm not AS familiar with (casual dating) seems ...less safe.
I know that there are all kinds of preference differences around here so if the wonderful people of Lit that are more experienced with the casual side of BDSM could throw some words of wisdom my way that would be fantastic.