I think we want women to tease as much as we do. I've sent some failry detailed messages to users to tantalize their brain (maybe I'm not good at that) as an intro and suggestion.. often I get back a two line reply... I will pursue a while.. but if there's no play back and forth it's alot like pulling my meat...

which I don't mind.. just more fun with someone else who might be more verbose in their feedback.. my two cents