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Old 04-11-2013, 04:10 PM   #1
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Want to try a dildo

So first off I'm a long time lurker but first time poster. I'm a man in a committed relationship with a woman.

But sometimes I fantasize about being with a man, or perhaps more accurately about being a woman or hot sissy/ladyboy. I don't really want to meet someone in person and bring along the risks associated with that.

So I finally got up the nerve to buy a realistic dildo to see what it would feel like. I've used anal heads before and liked them.

When the dildo arrived I was shocked at how big it looks for being 6" and a reasonable diameter. So now I'm wimping out but still want to try it.

I'm not 100% sure what I'm looking for with this post. Maybe someone to tell e to quit being a baby or that it will be great or whatever. But I just wanted to get it all out of my brain.
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Old 04-11-2013, 04:20 PM   #2
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So first off I'm a long time lurker but first time poster. I'm a man in a committed relationship with a woman.

But sometimes I fantasize about being with a man, or perhaps more accurately about being a woman or hot sissy/ladyboy. I don't really want to meet someone in person and bring along the risks associated with that.

So I finally got up the nerve to buy a realistic dildo to see what it would feel like. I've used anal heads before and liked them.

When the dildo arrived I was shocked at how big it looks for being 6" and a reasonable diameter. So now I'm wimping out but still want to try it.

I'm not 100% sure what I'm looking for with this post. Maybe someone to tell e to quit being a baby or that it will be great or whatever. But I just wanted to get it all out of my brain.
Quit being a baby )

Just joking. Why not use it to tease yourself first. Get it out and maybe lube it up and just tease your ass. Do that a few times and you may find yourself balls deep before you know it
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Old 04-11-2013, 10:20 PM   #3
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And don't skimp on the lube. Trust me, it helps. When I first started using a dildo I didn't use enough and never enjoyed it. Things are different now
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Old 04-12-2013, 01:18 AM   #4
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So first off I'm a long time lurker but first time poster. I'm a man in a committed relationship with a woman.

But sometimes I fantasize about being with a man, or perhaps more accurately about being a woman or hot sissy/ladyboy. I don't really want to meet someone in person and bring along the risks associated with that.

So I finally got up the nerve to buy a realistic dildo to see what it would feel like. I've used anal heads before and liked them.

When the dildo arrived I was shocked at how big it looks for being 6" and a reasonable diameter. So now I'm wimping out but still want to try it.

I'm not 100% sure what I'm looking for with this post. Maybe someone to tell e to quit being a baby or that it will be great or whatever. But I just wanted to get it all out of my brain.
honey just take it slow and easy , dont do anything you arent comfortable with,if you really want to try it you will but in your own good time and believe me it is rather enjoyable once you get used to it and who knows maybe one day you will want to meet someone and try the real thing just dont force the pace, i hope that helps honey,x
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Old 04-12-2013, 06:05 PM   #5
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Thanks for the encouragement.

Still feeling a little nervous. Any other thoughts on what to do?
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Old 04-12-2013, 07:51 PM   #6
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Start out with a smaller one; maybe a plug type if still nervous. Use a desensitizing lube.
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Old 04-12-2013, 08:38 PM   #7
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Desensitizing lube is a big no-no. If it hurts going in, something isn't right, it's a warning sign to slow down or stop.

You need to warm up correctly. Use a lubed finger, possibly a smaller dildo and work your way up to the larger one.
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