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Old 11-14-2012, 11:29 PM   #1
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Advice for how to find a BDSM partner?

I'm from the SoCal area, and lately ive been noticing most of my urges and fantasies lean towards the BDSM lifestyle, and while rp'ing scratches the itch for a while, I was wondering if anybody had advice as to how to find someone with similar interests.
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Old 11-15-2012, 12:34 AM   #2
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I'm from the SoCal area, and lately ive been noticing most of my urges and fantasies lean towards the BDSM lifestyle, and while rp'ing scratches the itch for a while, I was wondering if anybody had advice as to how to find someone with similar interests.
SoCal? Munches, parties, fetlife....you should be fine.
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Old 11-15-2012, 05:22 AM   #3
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Join fetlife.com, which is like facebook for pervs

look for the group "Los Angeles I'm Yours"

After a few weeks of browsing the posts and announcments on it, you will come across more specialised groups focussing on the LA area, and perhaps meet people who want to do similar things to you. LA has a pretty widespread kink community!
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Old 11-15-2012, 09:55 PM   #4
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Join fetlife.com, which is like facebook for pervs

look for the group "Los Angeles I'm Yours"

After a few weeks of browsing the posts and announcments on it, you will come across more specialised groups focussing on the LA area, and perhaps meet people who want to do similar things to you. LA has a pretty widespread kink community!
Stella is right here. As much as I hate social networking websites if you are looking for something real life, then fetlife.com is the place to go. Munches are good. From what I've heard, they tend to be fun, and no one is pushy about new people.
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Old 11-15-2012, 10:21 PM   #5
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Stella is right here. As much as I hate social networking websites if you are looking for something real life, then fetlife.com is the place to go. Munches are good. From what I've heard, they tend to be fun, and no one is pushy about new people.
You should try a few munches yourself.
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Old 11-15-2012, 11:55 PM   #6
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Lol Munches are a good idea for some people and I fully support people going to them. I just hate social networking websites...
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