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11-08-2012, 10:16 AM
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Experienced
KWAL is offline
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: S.E. michigan
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Originally Posted by ~hellbaby~
Its about trust, respect and acceptance IMO. You need a high level of trust to submit to someone, a lot more than you need to marry someone.
Someone once defined a BDSM relationship as Two consenting adults seeking a (not necessarily sexual) relationship in order to satisfy non traditional needs that their partners cannot understand or find unacceptable.
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Very well said and I love the defination fits nicely
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11-08-2012, 11:54 PM
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It's not a demon thing
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Location: in a house on a street near a bigger street
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KWAL
Very well said and I love the defination fits nicely
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Thank you. I cannot take credit for the definition we used in order to justify our relationship;that was his writing. I will say that there is no greater bond that that of those who are in a D/S relationship. A lot of people don't understand it but to those who do, it is a joy.
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01-03-2013, 11:28 PM
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Really Experienced
Sweetzera is offline
Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: West coast
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An umbrella that makes me feel at home; a place that not only does not judge my needs, but involves people that look for someone like me .
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01-04-2013, 09:01 AM
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Experimental experimentor
Sweetdaisymae is offline
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: England
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It is trust, it is freedom, it is the key to my sexuality, it is the gift I choose to give and the rewards are tenfold.
I am a a pyl or submissive whether I like it or not, it is not by choice it is part of who I am and by allowing myself to recognise it and occasionally live it, I can be myself.
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01-04-2013, 03:39 PM
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Virgin
Anne1105 is offline
Join Date: Oct 2012
Location: Netherlands
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Anywhere from roleplay to a lifestyle to be honest. We managed to blend it in with our daily life in a way that suits our needs.
Personally speaking, for me it is something I could not do without. It is an outlet, a way to forget and relief the stress. It feels like magic!
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01-06-2013, 07:22 PM
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Sir's wonder woman
Bandit58 is offline
Join Date: Sep 2002
Location: in Gil_T2's heart
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For me it seems to be about service. Sexual, health care, and just making sure He has what He wants when He wants it.  |
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