Old 05-06-2016, 07:59 PM   #1
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I love anal sex. It's actually my preferred method of sex. It feels amazing to me. I know many other women don't enjoy it. I was wondering if any could explain why. Seriously, I don't do emotional relationships, with anyone, so I don't have friends to have this kind of a discussion with. I just wondered if any of you could tell me why you don't enjoy it. I can say that it does usually, hurt (especially at first each time as I have to stretch to handle girth), but it also feels so pleasurably amazing deep inside me that the pleasure overwhelms the pain in waves of ecstasy for me.
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Old 05-07-2016, 10:24 AM   #2
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I love anal sex. It's actually my preferred method of sex. It feels amazing to me. I know many other women don't enjoy it. I was wondering if any could explain why. Seriously, I don't do emotional relationships, with anyone, so I don't have friends to have this kind of a discussion with. I just wondered if any of you could tell me why you don't enjoy it. I can say that it does usually, hurt (especially at first each time as I have to stretch to handle girth), but it also feels so pleasurably amazing deep inside me that the pleasure overwhelms the pain in waves of ecstasy for me.
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Old 05-07-2016, 10:32 AM   #3
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As a guy, who enjoys a sweet tight ass, I've had this discussion with more than a few partners. What the common thing has been is as you said. The initial discomfort, that is a turn off for a lot of ladies. Has helped me to really learn to be extra patient. And by simply going slower, more slow fingering and licking her ass. Anal became much more enjoyable for both of us.
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Old 05-07-2016, 12:35 PM   #5
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I don't think I could be in a relationship without any kind of anal play. Like others have said,especially for the first time,patience,patience,patience.Take it as slow as possible. Follow her lead. And if you think she's still a little hesitant just stop and try some other time. And a little red wine beforehand can't hurt.
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Old 05-07-2016, 12:53 PM   #6
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I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions :-)
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I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions :-)
You make it sound so damn sexy.
Do you come, just from the cock in your ass? Or are you rubbing your clit at the same time?
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You make it sound so damn sexy.
Do you come, just from the cock in your ass? Or are you rubbing your clit at the same time?
Once was friction from the position and the second time was from playing with myself
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Old 05-07-2016, 01:11 PM   #9
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Nice to finally hear the female perspective as per the op's request.

I think anal is definitely more of a learned experience for both parties and requires patience and practice to get it right. Unlike vaginal sex I don't think it really comes naturally to most people, and its not as easy as the porn industry would have us believe.
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Nice to finally hear the female perspective as per the op's request.

I think anal is definitely more of a learned experience for both parties and requires patience and practice to get it right. Unlike vaginal sex I don't think it really comes naturally to most people, and its not as easy as the porn industry would have us believe.
Neither is it as boring as porn portrays it to be!
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I love fucking ass. It's my second favorite thing after getting head if I'm being honest. That's not to say I don't love fucking pussy too but there's something about the tightness of the ass and seeing my cock slide in and out.
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Old 05-07-2016, 01:18 PM   #12
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Neither is it as boring as porn portrays it to be!
So true! I actually almost added that to my post. I find it sensual and exciting. The porn industry manages to make it look ordinary and boring. What's with that?
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So true! I actually almost added that to my post. I find it sensual and exciting. The porn industry manages to make it look ordinary and boring. What's with that?
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Old 05-07-2016, 01:36 PM   #14
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I enjoy it. Especially when it is a bit more painful. I'm weird like that.
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I enjoy it. Especially when it is a bit more painful. I'm weird like that.
That's not weird at all. The right kind of pain releases all sorts of interesting pleasure chemicals into the body which can make the pleasurable even more pleasurable.

Is the whole experience painful for you, or just the initial entry?
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Old 05-07-2016, 01:47 PM   #16
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That's not weird at all. The right kind of pain releases all sorts of interesting pleasure chemicals into the body which can make the pleasurable even more pleasurable.

Is the whole experience painful for you, or just the initial entry?
The whole thing. I usually ask people to go easy on the lube; they're always sceptical about it at first, but I really do enjoy the sensations.
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I enjoy it. Especially when it is a bit more painful. I'm weird like that.
Well, for me there is erotic pain, and there is simple physical pain. Probably different draw the lines in different places.
There is a real danger of actually causing injury when you fuck a woman in the ass, and that is a turn off for me.
Having said that, there have been times when, as I entered her, slowly going deeper and deeper inside, I would watch her closely, listening carefully to make sure I wasn't hurting her. All the while warning her that there comes a point at which I am so aroused, especially once I am buried so deep inside her that my groin is pressed up against her cheeks, her ass gripping my cock so tight, that I lose control and can't stop even if I wanted to.
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The whole thing. I usually ask people to go easy on the lube; they're always sceptical about it at first, but I really do enjoy the sensations.
Well that part probably makes you a bit unique. For most people when it comes to lube, more is better, but as long as the guy can get it in and you're not being damaged inside, there's probably no reason not to enjoy it that way. I can imagine most partners are a bit skeptical at first though. I'm sure they don't want to hurt you.
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Once was friction from the position and the second time was from playing with myself
I think the anal/clitoral thing does it for a lot of women. The first time I ever tried anal (which SHE talked ME into, believe it or not) I rubbed her clit and she literally came within ten seconds. Probably within five seconds. It was the fastest I've ever seen anyone cum in my life. She'd never tried it before so maybe that's part of why it happened so fast but whatever the reason it drove her fucking crazy. Since then I've tried it a few more times and yeah, it works. It works very well.

So from having been with someone who was really into anal, I think if you try more lube you might have an easier time cumming. I mean like excessive lube. Like more than you'd ever need. Don't use the "warming" shit though. I've been told that can burn from time to time. But you might also want to try having him pinch your nipples when he's inside you. I've noticed that really works too most of the time. Or neck kissing. Essentially the idea is to stimulate you as much as possible and that enhances the main sensation. Masturbating anally, I've been told, also helps because you can kind of find your rhythm and the exact pleasure spots at your own speed.

So anyway I hope that helps a bit.
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I was against it in the beginning put off by the taboo and the initial discomfort but after some negotiation now I take it in the ass fairly regularly like a good girl and have even cum on a few occasions :-)
Thank you for responding. I appreciate it.
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The whole thing. I usually ask people to go easy on the lube; they're always sceptical about it at first, but I really do enjoy the sensations.
That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.
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That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.
That's what I've done the past times. Spit on the asshole, spit on my dick and then go for it
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That's interesting. It hurts me every time too, but only my anus. Deep inside it feels amazingly wonderful. The best feeling ever. But the stretching of my anus is painful each and every time. For me, that's just always been part of it and I don't mind it at all. In fact, I don't know what I'd do if it didn't feel that way. The only lube I typically use is spit. Some guys prefer to use some. But I prefer just spit.
I prefer to lick it and stick my tongue as deeply inside as possible before I slide my throbbing cock in... No lube is needed with assholes taste so good and make your mouth water so badly
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