Would you sleep with a married person?

[Lost_Yonder]

why not? monogamy isn't natural/human... the idea that we somehow "own" the sexuality of our partners seems disturbing to me.

[kinktars_slut]

If the partner was aware and agreeable to the situation, sure. I would not do it on the sly. I imagine the heartbreak that my own husband would feel if he found out that unbeknownst to him, I'd been out screwing around. I have 0 desire to play any part in fracturing anybody else.

I remember being in the 10th grade and writing a 7 page paper for my lit teach, who we all called Dr. Sexton, about why it was morally ok for me to sleep with married men. "I have no moral obligation to protect their feelings." "I did not vow to honor her." "I have no interest in connecting with her husband on anything but a sexual level." or the ever famous, "I am not the one cheating."

Dr. Sexton wrote me a 7 page paper in response. Whenever I did or said something the he didn't like, he would simply look at me, "your emotional depth is showing."

[BJlovers]

There are some posts on this thread that hit the nail right on the head. There is no black and white scenario. There's always a reason and it's always different for every person.

Shit...As a 30yr old freshly married man (2weeks after my honeymoon) I was hit on by two very attractive ladies over the course of a few days. One married, one in a long term relationship. I had known both these women for a reasonable period of time but they both said that now I was married I had a lot to lose and was a "safe" prospect for them as it was unlikely I would spill the beans about any illicit activity for fear of ruining my own marriage.

I wish I could say I did the right thing, but that's a whole other story. The point is, that no-one knows what or who is in their future and what feelings they will have for others throughout their lives.

[rexhame317]

I have always said I never would, as my own marriage broke because of my ex's infidelity.

That being said, I have had amazing sex with a married man. And am being pursued by another. I think that knowing the repercussion and having an attraction, you go for it

[Beck31]

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[Emerson40]

The above nonsense is SPAM (WEB HOSTING), presented to you in Polish, by an ass-hat.

[jmarx20102012]

Originally Posted by RedHotMamaTN

I believe in this day and age it is so much easier to cheat. We have cell phones, Facebook, internet made it so much easier for people to hook up than it use to when you could go to a bar. We know its not right, but some reason, we still do it.

Also much easier to get caught. I am married myself and I have had opportunities to cheat but thus far have not. Very very tempting though.

[DarkPleasures]

Originally Posted by Beck31

WTF? English please.

It's just spam. It'll be gone as soon as Laurel is online.

[Beck31]

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[dawncwu97]

Currently there is only one man who is married whom I would sleep with. There has been unbelievable chemistry for years, but we are very good friends and have never wanted to fuck that up by going all the way (we have gone part way and it was great!).
That is speaking as a single girl. In relationships, I don't have any more to give anyone else besides my boyfriend. If I find myself wanting someone else, I'm not happy in the current situation.
I don't hold it against anyone who does - whatever makes you happy as long as you aren't hurting anyone else.

[RedHotMamaTN]

Originally Posted by jmarx20102012

Also much easier to get caught. I am married myself and I have had opportunities to cheat but thus far have not. Very very tempting though.

I agree, VERY easy to get caught! You have to double check to make sure your logged out, hide your phone or at least lock it. It doe become very stressful at times.

[brocklanders21]

Originally Posted by RedHotMamaTN

I agree, VERY easy to get caught! You have to double check to make sure your logged out, hide your phone or at least lock it. It doe become very stressful at times.

Speaking from experience?

[RedHotMamaTN]

Originally Posted by brocklanders21

Speaking from experience?

Yeppers. My phone never goes anywhere without me unless I lock it. My phone has more evidence than anything else. hehe

[brocklanders21]

Originally Posted by RedHotMamaTN

Yeppers. My phone never goes anywhere without me unless I lock it. My phone has more evidence than anything else. hehe

Dirty! Although I probably can't speak, as I'm on lit...and she doesn't know.

[goesallnight]

Originally Posted by Lost_Yonder

why not? monogamy isn't natural/human... the idea that we somehow "own" the sexuality of our partners seems disturbing to me.

Completely agree.

[MidnightToker]

Originally Posted by Lost_Yonder

why not? monogamy isn't natural/human... the idea that we somehow "own" the sexuality of our partners seems disturbing to me.

If you say you won't, and you do, that is cheating. You expect faithfulness from the other, but it's okay for you? That mentality doesn't disturb you?

If you "get away with it" but bring something home to the other person, is that not disturbing?

When it's agreed upon, and there's sharing or swinging or jumping or trampolining or whatever you kids call it these days, then sure, let's have a go!

But don't go making another family. Don't tell your spouse you're not in the mood when all the while you're fucking everyone else in the book. Don't dare bring home a VD then act like it's no big deal because you just *had* to get yours.

What you do, comes back to you. It always does. Making others miserable won't get you anything but a dick like John Bobbet or a pussy that uncontrollably leaks green goo.

[chellbarr]

Did this once - without knowing he was married - and when the wife found out...not pretty. Never again.

[blkjames]

Originally Posted by Beck31

I have and I would again given an attraction towards that particular person.

i am as of now seeing 2 mariied women now and 1 that her hubby knows about it

[sammy121]

I have slept with a married couple as part of a threesome we were and continue to be good friends it was both of our first time and some of the best sex I have experienced full penetration was fantastic and I will always remember the look on her face as he entered me

[Beck31]

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[HotHelen]

i did once when i was younger. thrilling but felt very guilty after.

[Beck31]

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[Quantified]

Once without my wife's permission. Twice with her permission.

The taboo aspect of it all makes it more exciting and enjoyable for me. The sex itself was great at times and ordinary at times. It's always exciting. I'd never fuck without consent now, though.

I can get permission. So I get permission.

[blkjames]

Originally Posted by chellbarr

Did this once - without knowing he was married - and when the wife found out...not pretty. Never again.

sound like a bad deal,but lots of time we cant pick who were are drawn to,married or single