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Originally Posted by hollibibi
Eating his own cum out of me..
.. It has been a fantasy of mine for while.
Trying to convince him to do it is another thing...
Have any ladies ever experienced this? Is it as good as I hope?
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Here's a repost of my response to a similar discussion in another thread:
I'm on the other side of where you are, the idea of cleaning up my wife after I cum inside of her is a massive turn on for me! So is having her feed my cum back to me after she has brought me off into her mouth. I guess I'm just fortunate that my wife is almost as into it as I am.
I have a couple of questions for you which you don't have to answer if you don't want to:
Has your husband ever kissed you after going down on you or wanted you to lick/suck him after being inside of you? If so, I would also ask if you have ever kissed him after giving him a blowjob to completion?
Was he willing to kiss you? If you haven't done this already, I think it's a great place to start. I think for many guys, there is this "stigma" about tasting or even getting their mouth near where their cum is/was and if they do that, their sexuality can be called into question.
I'm sure it's partly the macho aspect of being a male, "guys just don't do that" and/or fear that their wife/girlfriend will think less of them for doing so. That's a hard thing to get past, but doing so a little at a time, like giving him a deep tongue kiss after swallowing his fresh load after a blowjob can be a really hot way to begin. After a couple of times doing that, maybe don't quite swallow all of it, etc.
I think that many guys see nothing wrong with and/or even expect women to taste their own juices but those same men don't even consider doing the same with their own cum. Expressing your interest in him returning that favor, in the right way can also be a great motivator.
Also, talking about each other's fantasies, maybe starting with the tame ones, can be a great way to get to the fantasies you really want to try as you can sometimes "work your way up" to those that one or the other of you is not as interested in.
Of course, if he is truly and completely repulsed by the idea, it may just not be in the cards, but I really hope that maybe some of my suggestions might be able to help and that one day you do get to experience as a couple, the exquisite pleasure of creampie eating, as my wife and I have and will continue to enjoy!