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Old 08-27-2012, 08:54 AM   #326
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Obviously my answers to your scale won't be objective. I don't think she's pretty (she looks quite mousy, to tell the truth) and of course you already know what I think of her personality. But apparently there are plenty of men out there who think she's wonderful (or, more likely, just easy).

My friend hasn't said much about their encounter, beyond the fact that he was "disappointed" by her; he said he "expected more" after she hyped herself up so much.
This is interesting to hear. Mousy huh? Does she look like the stereotypical librarian? I mean, I have such a hard time believing all this trouble is happening over some random girl who is bad in bed and mousy.

Would you have slept with her?
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Old 08-27-2012, 08:55 AM   #327
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I completely understand that, and I respect your opinion. I hope you can appreciate that I see the love and happiness in my friends, and that because of that, I believe quite differently. We will have to agree to disagree on this one.
Look, I hope you're right that they can go the distance in a manner that's good for them both.
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Old 08-27-2012, 09:26 AM   #328
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This is interesting to hear. Mousy huh? Does she look like the stereotypical librarian? I mean, I have such a hard time believing all this trouble is happening over some random girl who is bad in bed and mousy.

Would you have slept with her?
Her online persona is much better than what you get in real life.

Would I have slept with her? Hmmm...good question.

If I didn't know the truth about her, I would likely have been curious, as so many other men have apparently been. But I wouldn't have slept with her because I knew she had a boyfriend, and I don't do that kind of thing since my one really terrible encounter with it.

Now, if she did NOT have a boyfriend, would I have slept with her? Maybe, but only to see what all the fuss is about.

Now that I know what she's really like? There aren't enough condoms in the world to provide adequate protection from that.
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Old 08-27-2012, 09:47 AM   #329
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Thanks for the answer. She must be pretty clever online.
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Old 08-27-2012, 09:50 AM   #330
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Look... I'm just putting this out there. I'm willing to receive pictures of all players in this saga to enable me to make a COMPLETE and informed judgement on them all.
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Old 08-27-2012, 09:56 AM   #331
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This must be her.
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Old 08-27-2012, 10:10 AM   #332
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This must be her.
The librarian on planet BOOB?
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Old 08-27-2012, 10:13 AM   #333
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Old 08-27-2012, 10:50 AM   #334
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The librarian on planet BOOB?
It's that I refuse to believe I've been following this thread with such intensity to hear that this was tepid, mousy sex. I will not accept that. In my mind, she will always have the ass of Rainshine.
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:06 AM   #335
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It's that I refuse to believe I've been following this thread with such intensity to hear that this was tepid, mousy sex. I will not accept that. In my mind, she will always have the ass of Rainshine.
There should be a thread dedicated to the ass of Rainshine.
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:21 AM   #336
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There should be a thread dedicated to the ass of Rainshine.
Tsk tsk HH! I'm a married woman... have we learned nothing from this thread?!
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I can't stop looking at that 3 boob picture. I wish she'd take that top off...
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:29 AM   #338
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Tsk tsk HH! I'm a married woman... have we learned nothing from this thread?!
That's why I'm not propositioning you. Just admiring a fine avatar.

Besides, pmann started it.
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:35 AM   #339
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I can't stop looking at that 3 boob picture. I wish she'd take that top off...
It is as close as I can get.



And maybe I started it, but Rainshine and I are both married. So it doesn't count.
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:42 AM   #340
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It is as close as I can get.



And maybe I started it, but Rainshine and I are both married. So it doesn't count.

Thank god we only have two. That is hilarious.
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And maybe I started it, but Rainshine and I are both married. So it doesn't count.
It does if your spouses don't know you're flirting.
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Old 08-27-2012, 11:49 AM   #342
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I've been married going on 10 years, I think he knows I'm a flirt by now.

Don't start your little crusade on me mister. I won't fade away like our mousy librarian. :P
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Old 08-27-2012, 12:10 PM   #343
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I've been married going on 10 years, I think he knows I'm a flirt by now.

Don't start your little crusade on me mister. I won't fade away like our mousy librarian. :P
No crusade here! As long as your choices don't affect my friends (and they obviously do not), then you get no worries from me.
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Old 08-27-2012, 12:11 PM   #344
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No crusade here! As long as your choices don't affect my friends (and they obviously do not), then you get no worries from me.
Are you saying we aren't friends?
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Are you saying we aren't friends?
I assume you wouldn't want to be friends with someone you consider an asshole.
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I assume you wouldn't want to be friends with someone you consider an asshole.
This news hurts.

And for the record, every one of my friends is an asshole. That's why I like them.
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Old 08-27-2012, 12:30 PM   #347
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Can you pop by my place next time they let you out?
Lol! Next time they have me go get groceries.

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I see. Well, at my house, laundry mountain is waiting for you to reach her summit.
And just how tall is this lecherous load?
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And just how tall is this lecherous load?
It's a massive load. (heeeheeeeheeee)
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HH, are you mainly out for revenge, or is your primary motive/hope to see TL change her ways?

I ask because it seems like the logical thing to do would be using the situation and your ammo to force her to seek help and ideally change her ways. If I were you, I wouldn't out her completely, I'd save telling her boss and RL circle as a consequence for not getting some serious therapy and changing. Something along the lines of, 'if you fix yourself by doing A and B, and your actions show real change, I'll keep the rest of what I know to myself.' Put what happens next in her hands. The worst that can happen is you end up right where you are now, and if she does choose change, far more people will be helped. If you have the ammo and you're set on using it, you might as well try to be as effective as possible, right?
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HH, are you mainly out for revenge, or is your primary motive/hope to see TL change her ways?

I ask because it seems like the logical thing to do would be using the situation and your ammo to force her to seek help and ideally change her ways. If I were you, I wouldn't out her completely, I'd save telling her boss and RL circle as a consequence for not getting some serious therapy and changing. Something along the lines of, 'if you fix yourself by doing A and B, and your actions show real change, I'll keep the rest of what I know to myself.' Put what happens next in her hands. The worst that can happen is you end up right where you are now, and if she does choose change, far more people will be helped. If you have the ammo and you're set on using it, you might as well try to be as effective as possible, right?
As always, you make excellent points.

My goal is twofold: First, I want to see her change her ways, or at the very least, to stop contacting my friend. If that means she also stops contacting other married/attached men, all the better.

Second, I want her to understand the harm she has done. She has done this to more than just my friend and his wife -- this is a common pattern for her. The fact that she continues to live a double life without a care in the world is flat-out disturbing. I want her to wake up and realize that you can't just play these kind of games with people and expect to walk away clean.

Your suggestion of what I should do is actually very similar to what I'm doing now. When it comes to outing her, believe me, I am holding a LOT of things back. She was told to leave him alone and her response was to post her coy little scavenger hunts, send emails, etc. She has had more than one chance to back off -- she hasn't given ANY indication that she would.

I firmly believe that's because she never thought there would be real consequences. Now that she realizes there are, I'm finally seeing some changes. Of course, those changes are still very self-serving and done simply in the hopes that she doesn't get outed any further. But at least it's a start, which is better than what was happening a month ago.

So I'm not going nuclear, though I have enough ammo that I certainly could. IF she contacts him again, after being "outed" to the limited extent I have done it so far, I'm more than happy to drop the real bombs on her.
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