My s.o. and I have good sex. Sometimes it's mind-blowing, sometimes it's just great; it's never "bad" by any stretch of the imagination.
Since he's out of town on business more often and I'm in class, we'll see one another once every couple weeks or so. Over the day or two that we get, we obviously have sex a few times. The "welcome back sex" as I call it is "issue free" but usually the second time has a "what next?" dilemma. I guess you could say we get bored of the usual positions.
I'll do anything BUT road head (live in rural areas, too much risk for hitting wild animals if your focus is split). I believe it's safe to say he believes in bringing his "A game" and nothing more. I do have a chain maille flogger my brother made and gave to me for my use, along with some stuff for foreplay, cuffs, ben wah balls, and whatever else I use to masturbate with.
Do any of you have advice on any books/unobtrusive things to buy to help spice things up? I've been contemplating buying a book by Midori, since he seems highly reputable; does anyone have any experience with his work? Any help is appreciated. Thanks!