I do have an anecdote regarding this issue. While feeding my addiction for virtual farming (yes, I'm one of those), my game offered swag if I downloaded a certain social networking app. So, since I can't live without the cute little flower box on my farm, I downloaded what I later discovered to be a dating app.
I had filled in my age of 43 as well as I am married, but that didnt stop the men, or the boys. At least 4 times a week a boy 19-24 would try chatting me up. The majority not only knew my age, but it seems were on the prowl for cougars. It struck me as odd so I did a bit of asking around as well as looking on the net. The Internet stories always seemed to be some "over the hill" hag pouring booze down the young guys throat to get him drunk and horny enough to fuck her rusty vag. The asking: it was a sex thing. The boys wanted no strings good sex without drama. Their first time with a cougar might be where she initiated, but after, they were usually the ones initiating.
Well, since it had been over a year since the husband performed his marital duty, I finally responded to one of the boys. He is 20 and going through fireman school, and I do have a weakness for firemen. We did have an encounter that was some fun. Guess none of the little girls he was used to knew how to have real fun because it took forever to get a real bite out of him. I had told him to bite me a couple times before, and he barely nipped me. Finally when he was on and behind me, I grabbed his hair and told him "bite me like you mean it!" He got the hint, and I came. He starts to let up and I scratched his neck "harder!" Mmmmm, good boy. He grabbed my hair and really sank his teeth in. I came harder then. It was fun once, and he was cute, but I just prefer older men, say 30+. But he did give me a nice bruise on my shoulder for a week
Smart is sexy!!!