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Old 05-04-2016, 03:50 PM   #1
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Lesbian but lately I've been....curious

Hey everyone,

I'm new here, so take it easy on me.

I'm 23, and have identified as a lesbian my entire life, and have never had any interest or attraction the men, but lately my body has really been craving to sleep with a man, and even my dreams are about being sexual with a man.

Do any of you have any thoughts or comments about it?


To be honest, it's kind of scary to have such a large part of yourself change entirely.
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Old 05-04-2016, 03:54 PM   #2
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It is scary whe you try something new, just go ahead and try it you might find out that you are bi.
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Old 05-04-2016, 04:47 PM   #3
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I'm in the same boat been over 25 years since I went anywhere sexually with a man but I'm feeling the need badly at the moment
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Old 05-04-2016, 06:04 PM   #4
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Personally, I think it's wonderful to be sexually attracted to both men and women. I don't regret that orientation at all.
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Old 05-04-2016, 06:55 PM   #5
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Old 05-05-2016, 01:05 AM   #6
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Old 05-05-2016, 10:55 AM   #7
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I think the thing that's holding me back most is that I have no idea how to be with a man or how to even initiate that sort of connection. I'm really great in the bedroom with a woman, and am very confident, but I think I would just be very nervous and awkward around a man. What was it like for you guys?
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Old 05-05-2016, 02:14 PM   #8
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I'll let you know when I find one!
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Old 05-05-2016, 07:34 PM   #9
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I think the thing that's holding me back most is that I have no idea how to be with a man or how to even initiate that sort of connection. I'm really great in the bedroom with a woman, and am very confident, but I think I would just be very nervous and awkward around a man. What was it like for you guys?
I'm a man. At about your age, I had my first experience with a man, and I was indeed nervous and awkward. But he was a nice man. I was honest with him about being nervous and awkward. He took very good care of me.

My advice, start with a considerate man, and be honest with him.
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Old 05-05-2016, 09:08 PM   #10
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Wow, thanks Coati, I really enjoy hearing about different people's experiences! I'm definitely holding out for someone who's considerate and honest and that will enjoy teaching me different things about being with a man.
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Old 05-06-2016, 09:24 AM   #11
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i list myself as bi but truth be known i am closer to les. but i admit there are times when only a good stiff man will satisfy my needs. on average men are more animalistic than women and sometimes i need that. let yourself go and try it. being bi should be celebrated. its not like you are cheating on the gay community.
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Old 05-06-2016, 06:57 PM   #12
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I'm in the same boat been over 25 years since I went anywhere sexually with a man but I'm feeling the need badly at the moment
I would love the pleasure of giving you what you need at the moment
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Old 05-06-2016, 07:37 PM   #13
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Unfortunately you're too far away!
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Old 05-06-2016, 07:59 PM   #14
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I think the thing that's holding me back most is that I have no idea how to be with a man or how to even initiate that sort of connection. I'm really great in the bedroom with a woman, and am very confident, but I think I would just be very nervous and awkward around a man. What was it like for you guys?
There is a charm in a certain awkwardness. Long term couples find great humor in the unexpected awkward moments. Too polished can be too rehearsed.

Further, much as many women find it gratifying when they make a man they like nervous, we men are not that different there, at least the ones that are paying attention. It's nice to know that we can have that affect on a person.

However, I am working on the assumption that, since posting this thread, you have gotten more than enough desperate PMs from horny, textually challenged men to turn you fully lesbian again. I hope you enjoyed your brief foray into straight life.
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Old 05-07-2016, 01:51 PM   #15
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There is a charm in a certain awkwardness. Long term couples find great humor in the unexpected awkward moments. Too polished can be too rehearsed.

Further, much as many women find it gratifying when they make a man they like nervous, we men are not that different there, at least the ones that are paying attention. It's nice to know that we can have that affect on a person.

However, I am working on the assumption that, since posting this thread, you have gotten more than enough desperate PMs from horny, textually challenged men to turn you fully lesbian again. I hope you enjoyed your brief foray into straight life.
Excellent lol
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Unfortunately you're too far away!
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Old 05-07-2016, 05:15 PM   #17
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Bit extreme for a shag don't ya think?
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Old 05-07-2016, 05:21 PM   #18
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Old 05-09-2016, 03:00 PM   #19
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Hey everyone,

I'm new here, so take it easy on me.

I'm 23, and have identified as a lesbian my entire life, and have never had any interest or attraction the men, but lately my body has really been craving to sleep with a man, and even my dreams are about being sexual with a man.

Do any of you have any thoughts or comments about it?


To be honest, it's kind of scary to have such a large part of yourself change entirely.
Sooo I'm a wee bit older but I have sort of been in your shoes. I started my sexual exploration with guys (I'm a woman). I realized around age 18 that I was a lesbian, but I really really liked sex with guys. I felt weird about it, because you know, the whole lesbian thing. One thing I used to battle with is my believe that sexuality is fluid. The problems come when we try to pigeon hole where we stand (screw) along those lines. Even knowing that I had trouble just enjoying what I wante.

Recently though I learned of this sociological concept where romantic identification and sexual identification are separate. Basically it's the belief that you can be bisexual but homo romantic (or any combination). That helped me because I LOVE sex with men. I believe sex is pretty much sex and the right people together can make it a blast. But I only get emotionally attached or attracted to women.

So all that is to say. Don't pigeonhole yourself... Allow for the fluidity and if the romantic identification if the part that gives you pause know that the two lanes do not necessarily need to cross!
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Old 05-10-2016, 01:42 AM   #20
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Think that's an excellent way of describing how I'm feeling Winterscumming
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Old 05-10-2016, 02:34 AM   #21
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It's actually an excellent way to describe how many people, not only lesbians, may experience such things. Really good post.
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Old 05-13-2016, 02:12 PM   #22
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Wow, thanks Coati, I really enjoy hearing about different people's experiences! I'm definitely holding out for someone who's considerate and honest and that will enjoy teaching me different things about being with a man.

I volunteer to teach you how to be with a man, from a man's perspective. I can show you what a man expects from you and what you should expect from a man. Pleasure goes both ways and the Big O should always be part of the plan.

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