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Old 03-16-2015, 08:49 PM   #1
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Question for trans woman admirers

So I enjoy receiving oral, but I've got kind of a hangup about not liking to actually penetrate people with my original factory equipment. But I'm kind of curious about maybe using a strap-on -- I don't think it would bother me in the same way, and it actually sounds kinda fun.

Is that something hot? Or if I'm not going to break out some kind of huge trans-porn-style erection (which I don't have anyway) does it kind of defeat the purpose?

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Old 03-16-2015, 09:57 PM   #2
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I wish you had PMs but respect your choice.

I had written a great long wind bag answer the lost it to cyber space.

I will attempt again and not so long.

I will say Honey (I am an old man and claim the privilege that brings) You do what makes you happy and comfortable. Never ever try to live up to porn images and or someone else's demands. You are a special and brave person and deserve the best.

In my opinion it would be unrealistic for any man or woman to expect you to penetrate them with anything other than a strap on and then only if you wish and really desire to do that.

I know nothing about you other than you had the spirit to post your question which goes a long distance in my book.

Good luck on your journey. May you have much happiness and little strife in your life.
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Old 03-17-2015, 01:39 AM   #3
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I think it sounds pretty hot. Many trans girls don't do the turbo erection thing, so if someone is put off by it its down to their own unrealistic expectations.
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Old 03-17-2015, 01:50 AM   #4
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So I enjoy receiving oral, but I've got kind of a hangup about not liking to actually penetrate people with my original factory equipment. But I'm kind of curious about maybe using a strap-on -- I don't think it would bother me in the same way, and it actually sounds kinda fun.

Is that something hot? Or if I'm not going to break out some kind of huge trans-porn-style erection (which I don't have anyway) does it kind of defeat the purpose?

Thanks!
i feel the same as you honey ,i dont want to penetrate anyone with my "original equipment" but i have found most of my lovers dont mind that anyway .
i do have a strap-on but it doesnt get much use ,it never seems to be needed .x
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Old 03-17-2015, 04:42 AM   #5
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Old 03-17-2015, 10:13 AM   #6
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So I enjoy receiving oral, but I've got kind of a hangup about not liking to actually penetrate people with my original factory equipment. But I'm kind of curious about maybe using a strap-on -- I don't think it would bother me in the same way, and it actually sounds kinda fun.

Is that something hot? Or if I'm not going to break out some kind of huge trans-porn-style erection (which I don't have anyway) does it kind of defeat the purpose?

Thanks!
Do what you're comfortable with. Your partner should also understand and respect your feelings.
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Old 03-20-2015, 09:24 AM   #7
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So I enjoy receiving oral, but I've got kind of a hangup about not liking to actually penetrate people with my original factory equipment. But I'm kind of curious about maybe using a strap-on -- I don't think it would bother me in the same way, and it actually sounds kinda fun.

Is that something hot? Or if I'm not going to break out some kind of huge trans-porn-style erection (which I don't have anyway) does it kind of defeat the purpose?

Thanks!
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Old 03-20-2015, 10:18 AM   #8
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I'm with everyone who has replied so far. what happens in porno-land isn't what happens in everyone else's bedroom, on the whole. partners should respect each other's wishes as much as possible I think. besides, if you don't think your equipment will do the job then why not use something else. to use a landscaping analogy; "why use a spade when there's a digger over there...?" unless you're planting bulbs or something when a digger is a bit overkill. but you get what I'm saying right?!
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Old 03-21-2015, 05:23 AM   #9
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Ok, thanks, everyone! I was just kind of curious, I appreciate the feedback.
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Old 03-24-2015, 08:38 PM   #10
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So I enjoy receiving oral, but I've got kind of a hangup about not liking to actually penetrate people with my original factory equipment. But I'm kind of curious about maybe using a strap-on -- I don't think it would bother me in the same way, and it actually sounds kinda fun.

Is that something hot? Or if I'm not going to break out some kind of huge trans-porn-style erection (which I don't have anyway) does it kind of defeat the purpose?

Thanks!
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Old 03-25-2015, 01:55 AM   #11
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Thank you for asking this question first of all. Sometimes we think we're strange until we get the sort of feed back I've read here. I will only add that some of us are no where near capible of the things that we see in the extremely unrealistic porn industry. That is pure fantasy, which isn't bad as long as we keep that in mind.

I've come to a place in my life where I realize that everyone is different sexually and that as long as we don't force our beliefs on others we should be happy. So my advise to you sister... Be happy, you will find others that find your happiness attractive.
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Old 03-25-2015, 05:59 AM   #12
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Thank you for asking this question first of all. Sometimes we think we're strange until we get the sort of feed back I've read here. I will only add that some of us are no where near capible of the things that we see in the extremely unrealistic porn industry. That is pure fantasy, which isn't bad as long as we keep that in mind.

I've come to a place in my life where I realize that everyone is different sexually and that as long as we don't force our beliefs on others we should be happy. So my advise to you sister... Be happy, you will find others that find your happiness attractive.

especially on here! I've not ever felt so sexy as when I get private messages from admirers on here. it sort of justifies what I do and want to be. makes it acceptable in my mind, if you know what I mean.

so a big thank you to anyone who has messaged me in the past, or does so in the future
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Old 03-25-2015, 09:57 AM   #14
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