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Old 06-08-2015, 10:39 AM   #1
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Question about sissy boys

Hi everyone i have a question for you.

Im into a lot of stuff... Including sissy boy. I dont understand why like 99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect... That turn me off i loke kinky sex but always have respect for my partner. I wish i could here from you ... Tell me why you cannot just act line a normal girl who like sex but who dont want to be just abuse and use,,,

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Old 06-08-2015, 11:25 AM   #2
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Agree

I agree with you. I have always thought it would be hot to be a sissy boi and love sucking cock. I can not understand why anyone would want to disrespect and degrade someone else or why anyone would want to be disrespected or degraded.
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Old 06-08-2015, 11:33 AM   #3
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I agree with you. I have always thought it would be hot to be a sissy boi and love sucking cock. I can not understand why anyone would want to disrespect and degrade someone else or why anyone would want to be disrespected or degraded.
Exact just enjoying great sex with mutual respect...
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Old 06-08-2015, 11:59 AM   #4
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Good question: something I've often wondered myself
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Old 06-08-2015, 06:33 PM   #5
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As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
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Old 06-08-2015, 07:21 PM   #6
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Abuse and Disrespect…? Yes please…!

Last time I was vigorously throat-fucked for an extended session my well-endowed gentleman friend left me hoarse, and with a sore and swollen lower lip. When a guy is well-into fucking a juicy and receptive mouth he tends to forget there's also a person down there - naturally we'd want it no other way! but I spent all day gargling herbal tea and smoothing soothing balm gingerly onto my bruised lip. Spunk-breath is another thing. Actually, I like to wake the following morning and taste the bouquet of jism on my tongue left by the cock my mouth was entertaining the previous evening. I've even had a secret knowing smile from the supermarket checkout girl when she detected the odor of spunk on my breath, presumably she recognized the scent because she'd been doing the same thing, sucking-off her boyfriend…? But sometimes its unfortunately necessary to mouthwash that spunk-breath away...
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Old 06-08-2015, 11:38 PM   #7
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Hi everyone i have a question for you.

Im into a lot of stuff... Including sissy boy. I dont understand why like 99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect... That turn me off i loke kinky sex but always have respect for my partner. I wish i could here from you ... Tell me why you cannot just act line a normal girl who like sex but who dont want to be just abuse and use,,,

Thank you for your answer
I think perhaps it may be a learned or conditioned trait. We al want to have a nice mutual relationship but often what starts out nice turns abusive and in the need to be what we are we eventually are willing to put up with whatever it takes . Finally it just becomes normal and looked forward to. Gay men in New Orleans in the 50s and 60s were often beaten by the men they had just brought pleasure to. I never quite understood that
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Old 06-09-2015, 01:48 AM   #8
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For me my sissy self was born out of submission. I was born a sub but the sissy was brought out by Mistress. For me they are inseperable and that's how I want it. I think the word sissy though implies humiliation. I'm not a transgender or transexual or even a crossdresser I am a sissy slut. To Me that means being a sub.
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Old 06-09-2015, 02:28 AM   #9
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Hi everyone i have a question for you.

Im into a lot of stuff... Including sissy boy. I dont understand why like 99% of them want to be abuse and disrespect... That turn me off i loke kinky sex but always have respect for my partner. I wish i could here from you ... Tell me why you cannot just act line a normal girl who like sex but who dont want to be just abuse and use,,,

Thank you for your answer
speaking for myself , i love to be humiliated , it is such a huge turn on for me .
i realise that some of my lovers do not enjoy that side of me and i do not insist on it but there are some who really enjoy verbally abusing me while taking their pleasure and really go to town and that is what i love , it is all part of being a submissive for me but each to their own.
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Old 06-13-2015, 11:54 AM   #10
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As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
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Old 06-13-2015, 01:44 PM   #11
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As a crossdresser, I know I dislike the humiliation aspect that is prevalent in the porn of the genre. Sex, no matter your gender identity or sexual preference, is supposed to be fun & joyous. Even with my more kinkier interests (Dom-sub play, spanking, lite bondage) I am still interested in a mutual respect leading to an enjoyable experience for both. I am not saying others can't enjoy humiliation, but it seems to dominate the conversation far too much.
Exactly - Well said thank you
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Old 06-13-2015, 03:22 PM   #12
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Hi, new around here I may act and look the part of my other half, which is a crossdresser/sissy. But once the male clothes fall off and piece by piece Erica comes together I turn into a major cock whore, pardon my language,but she's still a human being with feelings and emotions, and honestly she needs to feel safe and loved with the man/men she's bedding. I don't see how one can enjoy being humiliated and abused by there lover. But to each their own, I'm not here to judge anyone, I'm know I'm not perfect
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Old 06-13-2015, 06:23 PM   #13
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Well, fellow sissy bois, I beg to differ. Nothing gets me hotter than being humiliated or exposed or treated like the slut I believe I really am. It just makes me squirm with anticipation, and in my mind I love every moment that someone (or more than someone) tells me what a weak, trembling little sissy whore I am. I don't want respect when it comes to my sucking cock or taking it up the ass, I want to be treated like a sexual object--like the abject faggy little pig that I am.
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Old 06-13-2015, 08:50 PM   #14
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Well, fellow sissy bois, I beg to differ. Nothing gets me hotter than being humiliated or exposed or treated like the slut I believe I really am. It just makes me squirm with anticipation, and in my mind I love every moment that someone (or more than someone) tells me what a weak, trembling little sissy whore I am. I don't want respect when it comes to my sucking cock or taking it up the ass, I want to be treated like a sexual object--like the abject faggy little pig that I am.
And that my friend is why we have chocolate and vanilla.
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Old 06-13-2015, 11:05 PM   #15
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Well, fellow sissy bois, I beg to differ. Nothing gets me hotter than being humiliated or exposed or treated like the slut I believe I really am. It just makes me squirm with anticipation, and in my mind I love every moment that someone (or more than someone) tells me what a weak, trembling little sissy whore I am. I don't want respect when it comes to my sucking cock or taking it up the ass, I want to be treated like a sexual object--like the abject faggy little pig that I am.
You sound so hot I think spending time with you giving ourselves to pleasure a group would be fun
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Old 06-14-2015, 10:14 AM   #16
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I am something of a contradiction, even to myself. I have a dirty insatiable appetite to be humiliatingly used for submissive gay sex, but I'm also shy and completely lacking self-assertiveness. In social situations I'm an embarrassed tongue-tied mess. I am therefore fortunate to have a controlling mature gay friend to help me. We have frequent sex together, oral and anal, which I very much enjoy - he's vigorously well-hung, but on a number of occasions he's also brought anonymous guys around to fuck me. I feel safe and secure knowing he's there watching me crouching naked to suck-off the guest's cock, or down on all fours while the stranger fucks my bottom. It satisfies my need for rough-sex, while relieving me of the awkward necessity to even speak to them. I have a 'safe word' but I've never used it, it would seem so ungrateful somehow. Our most extreme adventure happened during a holiday in Crete where my Boyfriend lined up three guys to use me beside the pool in the villa we were sharing. It was so scary, but so exciting to be presented naked to those guys, and knowing that I was soon going to have sex with each of them, I could taste spunk for days after, and my bum was sore, but I've never felt so blissfully used, or so grateful to my friend for setting it up… I've frequently showed my appreciation since by slavishly sucking him off..
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Old 06-15-2015, 01:50 PM   #17
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Well, fellow sissy bois, I beg to differ. Nothing gets me hotter than being humiliated or exposed or treated like the slut I believe I really am. It just makes me squirm with anticipation, and in my mind I love every moment that someone (or more than someone) tells me what a weak, trembling little sissy whore I am. I don't want respect when it comes to my sucking cock or taking it up the ass, I want to be treated like a sexual object--like the abject faggy little pig that I am.
I totally agree. If you want the time of your life, treat me like a cheap cock loving whore.
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Old 06-15-2015, 02:22 PM   #18
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treat me like a beautiful woman!
I want mutual respect, out of that respect I will give a man my body
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Old 06-15-2015, 04:25 PM   #19
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Old 06-15-2015, 09:05 PM   #20
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humiliation is a personal thing. if he doesnt know me personally humiliating me is just a douchebag move to get his cock wet. if he does know me personally it can be very intimate.

for those of us born with male bodies who know we're innately feminine even female we get the message loud and clear from society that we're fucked up and dont deserve to be treated like normal hetero cis people. not from everyone but at least a few times that are impossible to forget. often these are some of the first experiences we remember. and then again during puberty realizing how different we are. meanwhile a lot of us are attracted to the strength and aggression men have.

basically if a man humiliates me it emphasizes that status gap that ive been reminded of so many times. the more he can humiliate me the more male, more powerful, more desirable he must be. and if thats who and what he is then i must be a fucking hot girly girl piece of ass if he wants me. if he gets to know me he could use that to his advantage and make me feel sexy.
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I totally agree. If you want the time of your life, treat me like a cheap cock loving whore.
If you don't get off on being used as a cheap cock-sucking slut by two - or more, well-hung guys who fuck you all around the room in every position possible, and then take turns cumming all over your face and into your open mouth - hell, girl, you just don't understand what partying is all about…
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A offer you cant refuse. I cant
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Old 06-16-2015, 10:19 AM   #23
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Old 06-16-2015, 10:45 AM   #24
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Old 06-16-2015, 11:25 AM   #25
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