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Old 04-02-2012, 11:16 PM   #1
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Lightbulb BDSM games/obstacle courses? + restriction ideas!!?

I am not creative. So, I ask you, people of bdsm literotica, to brainstorm

I have always had a thing for sexual games and obstacle courses. Call me crazy, I am. Also, negotiations and hmm how do I put this, merit-won punishments? Hence the games, it's like, if you lose this is what you get, and you get it just because you lost, you know? If you win, you get out of it.

So if you have ideas, post.

Also, as a specific help question: Currently I am playing with an online friend. I sub and he doms. We don't cam, and I rarely send any pictures. So what games can we come up with for me to play and him to direct long distance? What obstacle courses can he instruct me to set up in my home?
Also, what restrictions can he set?
It's not the same, like no eye contact/eyes on the floor, can't do that since he's not with me. What he has set so far is mouth and legs open at all time when I'm chatting with him, of course that's a trust thing. But those lists of restrictions turn me on, like no speaking until spoken to, can't do that either -.- since well the situation can't call for it. ........ ahem, ideas ideas ideas! please and thank you!

No I don't and won't bring others into play. And I don't have many toys, just a vibe, clamps, and a snake bite.

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Old 04-03-2012, 02:14 AM   #2
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I don't know enough about online play, but as far as limited toys go, there are so many things in your home you can turn into smexy fun times. try this google search;

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+pervertables
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Old 04-03-2012, 10:46 AM   #3
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My first thought was to set up an actual obstacle course in your room. Use chairs and tables and make a little area with stuff to climb over, wriggle through and so on. You have to do it under whatever time your friend decides to set, whilst distracted with some toy or other.

Of course, I may be thinking too literally here... I just like obstacle courses
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Old 04-03-2012, 03:58 PM   #4
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I don't know enough about online play, but as far as limited toys go, there are so many things in your home you can turn into smexy fun times. try this google search;

https://www.google.com/search?q=bdsm+pervertables
Thank you. I have looked through every drawer. You do not want to know what things I've had to deal with until i get my vibe. (arriving in the mail soon!! so excited!)

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My first thought was to set up an actual obstacle course in your room. Use chairs and tables and make a little area with stuff to climb over, wriggle through and so on. You have to do it under whatever time your friend decides to set, whilst distracted with some toy or other.

Of course, I may be thinking too literally here... I just like obstacle courses
Yeah, that's kind of the idea, an obstacle course, but with sexual components. Of course going through what you described while plugged (vaginally for me) is quite fun indeed, quite uncomfortable .

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Come on people I need ideas for restrictions as well I know you kinksters have creative minds!
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Old 04-03-2012, 04:09 PM   #5
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Clothing restrictions are a classic. No clothes worn to bed, for example. That way, pretty much the first thing you'd realize upon waking every morning was that you were naked because he wanted you that way.

Another possibility, if your situation allows it, is no clothes allowed when talking to him. Imagine that, every time he suddenly pops up on IM, you're obliged to immediately stand and strip, dropping your clothes on the floor and leaving them unregarded until he's done with you.
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Clothing restrictions are a classic. No clothes worn to bed, for example. That way, pretty much the first thing you'd realize upon waking every morning was that you were naked because he wanted you that way.
even better, nude with your ankles hobbled at night. Or one ankle tied to one wrist. keep it kinda comfortable, so you can get your zees, and keep it something you can get out of in a hurry, since you're alone!

You can make yourself a modified "horse" rig as a part of one of your courses. Tie a rope from something to something else-- like a pair of doorknobs maybe-- straddle it, and try to walk along its length with it pressing up in your pussy... You could tie a vibrator to it somewhere along the way for more fun, stand at that point for a timed period.
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Old 04-03-2012, 05:13 PM   #7
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What he has set so far is mouth and legs open at all time when I'm chatting with him, of course that's a trust thing.
How about you do naughty things like that yourself with you're on the phone with other people. The longer the chat goes, the more you have to do. Then you have to report back to him with all the naughty details about how dirty you felt doing it with other people. He would set the guidelines
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Old 04-03-2012, 05:23 PM   #8
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even better, nude with your ankles hobbled at night. Or one ankle tied to one wrist. keep it kinda comfortable, so you can get your zees, and keep it something you can get out of in a hurry, since you're alone!

You can make yourself a modified "horse" rig as a part of one of your courses. Tie a rope from something to something else-- like a pair of doorknobs maybe-- straddle it, and try to walk along its length with it pressing up in your pussy... You could tie a vibrator to it somewhere along the way for more fun, stand at that point for a timed period.

Very interesting. I once did that, I saw it in a porn flick. I grabbed top and made several small knots and walked up and down the rope as it was tied for a couple of meters at tip toe height Quite fun, haven't done that in forever! Will try to come up with it again! Thanks!

As for the sleeping naked, I'd love nothing more, seriously, always wanted to and the thought turns me on. But my baby boy (a schnauzer) sleeps in my bed with me so it's kind of unhygienic and creepy lol. But geeses do I want to.

You know what I've thought of and drives me crazy? Sleeping with a dildo in, just for uncomfortable's sake, and to leave me open and all that. Geeses I so want to try that but I'm afraid it might be harmful.. bacteria for 10 hours sleep and all that.. But I figure now that my actual vibe is coming I'll try it every now and then right? Can't do much harm if you don't do it that often? What do you guys think?
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Old 04-03-2012, 07:11 PM   #9
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Very interesting. I once did that, I saw it in a porn flick. I grabbed top and made several small knots and walked up and down the rope as it was tied for a couple of meters at tip toe height Quite fun, haven't done that in forever! Will try to come up with it again! Thanks!

As for the sleeping naked, I'd love nothing more, seriously, always wanted to and the thought turns me on. But my baby boy (a schnauzer) sleeps in my bed with me so it's kind of unhygienic and creepy lol. But geeses do I want to.

You know what I've thought of and drives me crazy? Sleeping with a dildo in, just for uncomfortable's sake, and to leave me open and all that. Geeses I so want to try that but I'm afraid it might be harmful.. bacteria for 10 hours sleep and all that.. But I figure now that my actual vibe is coming I'll try it every now and then right? Can't do much harm if you don't do it that often? What do you guys think?
The bolded part of your post is exactly what I was going to suggest. Maybe you could have one of those with other obstacles around it, to make the walk more difficult. Adding a time limit would make it interesting, too.

As another option...but this might be too difficult if you don't have the necessary stuff. I'm into electroplay. You could set up a PVC pipe with some exposed copper wire taped to the top of it. String a rope through the pipe to hold it up. OR, you could just tape some copper wire on a rope and it would do the same thing. Just make sure the two wires don't touch each other for the whole length.

You could even use the knotted rope, if you want. In that case, you could use wire with insulation on it, and just remove the insulation around the knots. Just make sure the wires don't touch each other anywhere the insulation is removed. Make the wires close enough together that your body could touch both wires, when you go over the knots. Basic #12 house wire, #14 or even #16, either solid core or stranded would work just fine.

You'd need a power source like a violet wand or a TENS unit to run some current through the copper wire. The simplest way would be to have two wires separated by a 1/2 inch or so at the top of the pipe or rope, and when your body touches both wires, you'd complete the circuit and get a shock. Make the height just high enough that you'd have to straddle it and walk on tip toes for the length of it. Your pussy and inner thighs would get a shock if you didn't keep on your tip toes. The longer you make it, the more difficult it would be to complete.

There are so many things that can be done very simply, if someone only has the equipment to do it. I understand if you don't have the violet wand or TENS unit, or are sure enough of yourself to make the contraption. As long as you used one of those devices for the current, you wouldn't have to worry about hurting yourself...just the shock it would give you between the legs. There's never enough people who like electroplay. I'm just trying to add members to the club.
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Old 04-03-2012, 09:10 PM   #10
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Post Alright..

I've come up with this list so far.. Tell me what you think and add to it if you like I don't know why I've become such a restriction freak lately.

Restrictions:

1. It is not allowed to close its legs when talking to him.
2. It is to always have its mouth open when talking to him.
3. In the summer, (and available) when he comes on it is to strip and remain naked until he leaves or orders otherwise, even if itís not for use.
4. If possible, it is not allowed coverage/clothing unless he allows otherwise, when he is offline.
5. It is to be plugged when heís not on and it is horny.
6. It is to sleep naked when he commands it.
7. It is to sleep stuffed when he orders it.

Rules: (in play)
1. It has no name, it is an object. It is to be called whatever he sees fit.
2. It is always to call him Sir.
3. It is always to obey. If it does not, it risks punishment. Unless there is a reasonable objection, in which case a negotiation could be in order.

*by stuffed or plugged I mean with a dildo or some sort of plug. Just as a buttplug, but vaginally.
* #6 will be done when possible. What with James (don't know if I've mentioned him already, my schnauzer.) and all, but it'll be up there at least for fun.

I saw a term recently.. "restriction whore"... *giggles* more more more! >.<


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