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Old 02-25-2015, 08:30 PM   #1
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Do you wear a cock ring?

I started to quite by necessity. Im 54 y/o now and a little more slower to respond these days. And after a bit of stroking, my dick starts to get somewhat desensitized and I start to lose my erection which is where the cock ring comes in. Im 6 3/4 inches by a tad under 6 inches in girth. I can tell my wife likes the added girth that the cock ring causes. It's not a lot but there is some girth addition. She'd never admit to me that thickness matters but I know it does by her response when I put my dick in her while using it. I use one of the thick rubber rings and I almost have to pull out my pubic hair to get it off after I'm done with it. I've seen those solid metal rings in pictures but for the life of me, I can't figure out how those guys get in and out of it. How can one have a hard on and still get that thing over the dick and balls?
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Old 02-25-2015, 09:23 PM   #2
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I do

I wear one daily, from the time I get up until I go to bed. Mine is solid steel, fully polished. You put it on while soft and remove it the same way. Forget about removing it while hard.
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Old 02-25-2015, 09:47 PM   #3
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Never have, but I'm curious. I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and I enjoy hugging a woman and knowing she can feel me...
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Old 02-25-2015, 10:33 PM   #4
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I had a girlfriend who worked at an Adult Novelty shop. I knew exactly where I stood in that relationship: test subject.
Anyways... once, she had me try on a rubber cockring with a vibrator that makes clit contact.
We both thought that thing was awesome! Thank you, Product Testing
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Old 02-25-2015, 10:42 PM   #5
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I slip a silicone one on right before sex. She loves the extra stimulation.
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Old 02-25-2015, 10:43 PM   #6
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Just had one on this morning, for the morning commute.
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Old 02-26-2015, 12:24 AM   #7
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Look at this thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=844305 If you have any other questions ask the original guy that started that thread Simon. He's a super nice guy and will give you great advice not that I am into guys.
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Old 02-26-2015, 01:21 AM   #8
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I would like to, a silicone one probably. Unsure as to what to buy, but I'd like it to go behind my balls. I have a pump and I think I need a ring to see the full benefit.
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Old 02-26-2015, 01:26 AM   #9
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Never tried that....must be stimulating
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Old 02-26-2015, 01:39 AM   #10
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Look at this thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=844305 If you have any other questions ask the original guy that started that thread Simon. He's a super nice guy and will give you great advice not that I am into guys.
I don't think you have to be into guys to think Simon is a super super nice guy.
He is really nice and supportive (and not sleezy at all) and thinks it's great if everyone is having fun and having good sex. He's an older guy and believes that guys should make every effort to keep everything working and enjoy sex to the fullest.
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Old 02-26-2015, 01:51 AM   #11
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Look at this thread. http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=844305 If you have any other questions ask the original guy that started that thread Simon.
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... He ... believes that guys should make every effort to keep everything working and enjoy sex to the fullest.
mnbreastluver, Erochic, thanks both! And I really appreciate you linking my thread onto this one!
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Old 02-26-2015, 02:09 AM   #12
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... I use one of the thick rubber rings and I almost have to pull out my pubic hair to get it off after I'm done with it. I've seen those solid metal rings in pictures but for the life of me, I can't figure out how those guys get in and out of it. How can one have a hard on and still get that thing over the dick and balls?
Rustable, great that you and your woman are enjoying this!

Has to be said, one of the advantages of steel is that hair doesn't tangle on it. Another as regards comfort is that, given exactly the right internal diameter size [crucial with steel], a guy has the grip without the squeeze. Being held firmly without being squashed by the elastic element of rubber means that longer periods of wear - for me and others pretty well all the time - brings no discomfort.

That said, scrotum skin may take a while to adjust the the proximity of steel; I did feel an itchiness when I took mine off, in the early days, but that doesn't seem to bother me now.

Getting a good fit steel ring on and off is a bit of an art but it's worth learning. Absolute rule: Never try when you are erect! - not on, not off either!
General rule: pop one ball through first, pull a little of the sack skin for the other ball through and then pop that one through too, then fold your flaccid dick through. For taking it off, flaccid dick pushed out of it first.

I know what you are saying about girth, and seeing the difference in your woman's response. That is so delicious, eh? A related enhancement which a well-sized steel ring gives me: the solidity of my helmet and helmet ridge. It does mean I need to be gentle with first penetration. But the pleasure of her initial response, and then the much greater ease of taking her to orgasm through vaginal stimulation - wow.

Simon

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Old 02-26-2015, 07:29 AM   #13
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Old 02-26-2015, 07:35 AM   #14
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I want to get one. I'd love a steel one but not sure whether to start with that or silicone
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Old 02-26-2015, 07:41 AM   #15
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Once in a while. Have three: rubber fits around cock and balls, steel fits around cock and balls, and steel fits around cock only. The rubber is most comfortable, but the steel looks and feels naughtier.
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Old 02-26-2015, 07:50 AM   #16
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I want to get one. I'd love a steel one but not sure whether to start with that or silicone
silicone or steel... make certain you measure.
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Old 02-26-2015, 08:00 AM   #17
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Yes!

I wear one sometimes. I love the way it makes me look and feel, larger & more sensitive).

It also causes me to shoot even bigger loads than usual very far. Nice
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Old 02-26-2015, 08:25 AM   #18
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I thought a pic of one on would suit the thread?
This one's polished steel, 47.5mm inner diameter, nearly square in 'section' through the ring but with rounded edges for comfort. It's the one I have on most for day-wear, and the one my woman loves me to have on when we get busy.



There are European and American outfits which offer ones like this:
the 'Mr B' range which Esmale stocks in the UK,
the 'Master' from Gearessentials in the US, and others.
Note the very particular size. Anyone who makes steel rings without a whole range of internal diameters in close gradation, move on to another supplier.
A little too loose and it works no magic for you.
A little too tight and you have real pain when you're at full boner.
Just right size and it's a delight to wear, a real enhancement to your bulge, and a whole new heft, girth and hardness when you're doing the deed.
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Old 02-26-2015, 09:58 AM   #19
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I have a couple of them. Been trying to wear them more frequently, a few of them start to get uncomfortable after an hour or so. I like how they make me harder, and make your package more prominant under clothing.

The ladies tend to like it as well, for different reasons.
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Old 02-26-2015, 02:18 PM   #20
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Rustable, great that you and your woman are enjoying this!

Has to be said, one of the advantages of steel is that hair doesn't tangle on it. Another as regards comfort is that, given exactly the right internal diameter size [crucial with steel], a guy has the grip without the squeeze. Being held firmly without being squashed by the elastic element of rubber means that longer periods of wear - for me and others pretty well all the time - brings no discomfort.

That said, scrotum skin may take a while to adjust the the proximity of steel; I did feel an itchiness when I took mine off, in the early days, but that doesn't seem to bother me now.

Getting a good fit steel ring on and off is a bit of an art but it's worth learning. Absolute rule: Never try when you are erect! - not on, not off either!
General rule: pop one ball through first, pull a little of the sack skin for the other ball through and then pop that one through too, then fold your flaccid dick through. For taking it off, flaccid dick pushed out of it first.

I know what you are saying about girth, and seeing the difference in your woman's response. That is so delicious, eh? A related enhancement which a well-sized steel ring gives me: the solidity of my helmet and helmet ridge. It does mean I need to be gentle with first penetration. But the pleasure of her initial response, and then the much greater ease of taking her to orgasm through vaginal stimulation - wow.

Simon
So, it sounds as if a ring feels and looks nice while wearing pants. I have seen pics of guys with raging hard on's so I always wondered how they got them on.

So, they also enhance sex? I'd like to try it. How would I go about getting the right size? Would I simply use a tape measurer and measure the circumference around behind my balls? Thanks!!!
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Old 02-26-2015, 03:30 PM   #21
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So, it sounds as if a ring feels and looks nice while wearing pants. I have seen pics of guys with raging hard on's so I always wondered how they got them on.

So, they also enhance sex? I'd like to try it. How would I go about getting the right size? Would I simply use a tape measurer and measure the circumference around behind my balls? Thanks!!!
Best with a soft string like a shoelace. Then put that to your measure. Thencalculate the diameter from that circumference. Gearessentials has a how to size page on their website. Enjoy the exploration!
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Old 02-26-2015, 04:45 PM   #22
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i started with a steel one and love it. if you don't want to throw that much money down for a Gear Essential cock ring (which are pretty cool) then you can always go to amazon and look for a cheaper one to start with.

just make sure you warm that thing up before you try to go sliding it on. cold steel on a cock is an eye opener for sure
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Old 02-26-2015, 05:37 PM   #23
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No. No disrespect to those who do but not my cup of tea. The only thing I want to feel on my cock is a warm mouth or a soft hand.
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I do too..stainless steel, love how hard it makes my cock when fully aroused.. so does she!!
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Old 02-27-2015, 01:53 AM   #25
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Rings are the best. I have a vibrating double ring that goes around the shaft and balls. It definitely keeps me hard. And her happy. It's also why I try to stay shaved. I have yanked out a few pubes root and all. Not pleasant.
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