I was talking to a female friend of mine and we were talking about masturbation habits, you know, your standard daily conversation, and I mentioned the fact that I either masturbate spontaneously or sometimes it's pre-meditated. And after clarifying what I meant, she said she very rarely ever pre-meditates masturbation. So I was curious from both men and women what their habits were.
For the sake of this conversation, "spontaneous" is when you masturbate because you're physically (or psychologically/emotionally, whatever) aroused. For instance, in my case, if I wake up in the middle of the night with an erection and I know my wife has to be up early/busy day, i.e. I'm not waking her up... I'll knock it out because I'm aroused and ready.
"Pre-meditated" is when you plan to masturbate and "start from scratch." For example, if you're driving home from work and thinking "I'm going to throw on some porn and touch myself..."
So... breakdown? I thought about it a bit and I would say it's probably something like 75/25 in favor of "spontaneous" for me (I hope that when I'm "premeditated" my wife will be available! But obviously we can't always be so lucky...)
For the sake of this conversation, "spontaneous" is when you masturbate because you're physically (or psychologically/emotionally, whatever) aroused. For instance, in my case, if I wake up in the middle of the night with an erection and I know my wife has to be up early/busy day, i.e. I'm not waking her up... I'll knock it out because I'm aroused and ready.
"Pre-meditated" is when you plan to masturbate and "start from scratch." For example, if you're driving home from work and thinking "I'm going to throw on some porn and touch myself..."
So... breakdown? I thought about it a bit and I would say it's probably something like 75/25 in favor of "spontaneous" for me (I hope that when I'm "premeditated" my wife will be available! But obviously we can't always be so lucky...)
