rape fantasy

[dicky911]

Originally Posted by jennifer036

these sorts of scenes totally get me and I love recreating them:

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I don't really recreate rape scenes for real. For me, I recreate bondage and vulnerability. But I have a friend, she'll act out rape with her husband, will go so far as to put lube in her bum in advance.

But ever since I was younger, I'd fantasize about non-consent, and even now I fantasize I'm that age again, with nonconsent.

Not the first woman who is honest enough to say this - it's VERY hot, forget the hangups and act it out...

[NikiCole]

What a lot, not all, of women and men have fantasies of consensual reluctance. A stranger or someone you know, screws you, making you enjoy it. Sometimes they leave you, bruised but satisfied, other times they leave you wanting more. Its common, but it is not considered a "rape fantasy", it is consensual reluctance. Huge difference in the two.

[notalwaysweak]

Originally Posted by Netzach

It doesn't bother me that the fantasy exists, but it DOES bother me that the new assumption is that every girl has a rape fantasy because the sociology is in, and what do you know, a lot or even most do.

So I don't care what people get off to, but when someone informs me that "every woman has this fantasy" I want to inform them that every man secretly fantasizes about plunger ass rape, don't you know?

I love you, Netz.

I do not have rape fantasies. Whether it's because I've been raped or not I couldn't say, but I am definitely a woman who has never had a rape fantasy and finds the idea personally abhorrent.

[WildWaterNymph]

Originally Posted by NikiCole

What a lot, not all, of women and men have fantasies of consensual reluctance. A stranger or someone you know, screws you, making you enjoy it. Sometimes they leave you, bruised but satisfied, other times they leave you wanting more. Its common, but it is not considered a "rape fantasy", it is consensual reluctance. Huge difference in the two.

I think it's important to stress just that "many" women have the fantasy. I'm not even sure most have it. But probably a lot more than what one might expect.

I'm not sure I see the reluctance vs. rape distinction so much. Sounds a little too much like what got a certain politician in trouble recently.

If I'm saying no, begging no (per my particular rape fantasy) but the man continues despite my pleas, isn't that the definition of rape? is there something more that is required for it to be a "legitimate rape"...

[Stella_Omega]

A woman I know is in this exact situation. She thought he was a friend.

She begged him not to, all the way through. When he was standing up and getting zipped, HE said something about "what, that I raped you?" and she said "Oh my god you're right, you raped me."

Next day she discovered that she'd lost a tooth.

[WildWaterNymph]

Originally Posted by Stella_Omega

A woman I know is in this exact situation. She thought he was a friend.

She begged him not to, all the way through. When he was standing up and getting zipped, HE said something about "what, that I raped you?" and she said "Oh my god you're right, you raped me."

Next day she discovered that she'd lost a tooth.

I actually had a shiver run up my spine reading your message. Despite my personal fantasy, that would be a nightmare. I hope she is okay and that bastard got what he deserves.

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

Originally Posted by sexykitty13

curious if other women have that fantasy of a guy coming out of a dark alley or pulling up next to u in a car and takes control of u in that not so special way

Yes, or coming to the door and forcing his way in, bending me over furniture....Making me suck his hard cock and whipping my face with it...Calling me a slut, a whore, spanking me hard, then fucking me wildly, mercilessly with his hard cock.....

Yeah, it's a stimulating fantasy....

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

Originally Posted by dicky911

Not the first woman who is honest enough to say this - it's VERY hot, forget the hangups and act it out...

Lol My rape fantasy fulfilled is how I first became hooked on anal sex....I had no choice. He fucked me in my tight little hole. At first I resisted, then I let go and gave into the pure pleasure. Soon anal sex was exactly what I craved and needed.

[dicky911]

Originally Posted by sexykitty13

curious if other women have that fantasy of a guy coming out of a dark alley or pulling up next to u in a car and takes control of u in that not so special way

lots of women have it - part of being a woman LOL

[LibraStud]

Originally Posted by sweet_lusciousdesire

Yes, or coming to the door and forcing his way in, bending me over furniture....Making me suck his hard cock and whipping my face with it...Calling me a slut, a whore, spanking me hard, then fucking me wildly, mercilessly with his hard cock.....

Yeah, it's a stimulating fantasy....

If I knew where you lived I would find a dark alley nearby

[Helen1954]

A variation I enjoy is being taken by someone who would be inappropriate as a consensual lover.

I have one where I'm my present age (58) and I'm visited by a favorite nephew, a handsome and muscular teenager (and no, he doesn't actually exist).

I don't know that he's been desperately in love with me since he was a boy and has decided that he must have me.

I protest to him that this cannot be, and that we cannot have such a relationship, but to no avail. I find myself bound naked and spreadeagled on my bed, my panties stuffed in my mouth, as he roughly takes me. The panties are removed, but only so that he can rape my mouth.

[Salenku]

Originally Posted by Curious_in_Cali

Yup, they do. Men do too.

Fantasy is the stage on which we can tell our souls darkest stories. In fact, for the darkest of aches, it may be the only place. For whatever reason, these stories want to be told, and I believe every story that wants to be told, should be.

And yes, it is true that reality can be limiting, but the imagination at times can make for an intriguing editor. I think it is the weaving of fantasy and reality that make dreams seem possible and reality much more palatable.

Yes, this fantasy does exist. Just as any other fantasy you can think of. Perhaps it's not common, but somebody will crave this.