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Old Yesterday, 02:01 PM   #1
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A little help maybe?

I'm strictly looking for advice/suggestions either here or privately. Thanks.

I'm a 24 year old male that is married to a straight female who is very monogamous. I've always considered myself straight, but lately I've been enjoying MMF porn and having some fantasies of threesomes with another man. I'm not considering any one on one sex with another man.

I tried once to discuss opening up our marriage to my wife with other females and it went poorly. I am considering trying to broach this subject with her and I'm not quite sure how to do it.

We have fooled around with a strap on once, but she didn't seem to be that excited about the whole thing.

Thanks.
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Old Yesterday, 04:12 PM   #2
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I know this isn't very helpful, but the sense I get from your description of your wife, she's not into this sort of thing, and my sense is that, if a woman is not into it now, she's never going to be. I'd think long and hard about broaching the subject of threesomes with her. I get the impression she wouldn't deal with it well.


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I'm strictly looking for advice/suggestions either here or privately. Thanks.

I'm a 24 year old male that is married to a straight female who is very monogamous. I've always considered myself straight, but lately I've been enjoying MMF porn and having some fantasies of threesomes with another man. I'm not considering any one on one sex with another man.

I tried once to discuss opening up our marriage to my wife with other females and it went poorly. I am considering trying to broach this subject with her and I'm not quite sure how to do it.

We have fooled around with a strap on once, but she didn't seem to be that excited about the whole thing.

Thanks.
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Old Yesterday, 05:43 PM   #3
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I'm strictly looking for advice/suggestions either here or privately. Thanks.

I'm a 24 year old male that is married to a straight female who is very monogamous. I've always considered myself straight, but lately I've been enjoying MMF porn and having some fantasies of threesomes with another man. I'm not considering any one on one sex with another man.

I tried once to discuss opening up our marriage to my wife with other females and it went poorly. I am considering trying to broach this subject with her and I'm not quite sure how to do it.

We have fooled around with a strap on once, but she didn't seem to be that excited about the whole thing.

Thanks.
You prob should have talked to her about this before getting married or found someone with the same interest. I think i may ruin your marriage if you keep pursing it and if shes not interested. Dont beat a dead horse.
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Old Yesterday, 05:54 PM   #4
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This is a common feeling amoung men, You probably aren't gay, but the thought of sucking a cock turns you on. Somehow in our minds, we detatch the cock form the man and just see the cock. Strange but true. Your wife will never understand.
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Old Yesterday, 05:56 PM   #5
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Don't push her too hard, she might come round to it but not everyone thinks the same.
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Old Today, 05:20 AM   #6
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You don't say your wifes age, but I'm assuming she is the same age as you. You also don't say how long you have been married but I'm guessing just a couple of years or so.

You need to give this time. She is newly married, and you're talking about opening up your sex life to bring others into it. Wake up man! give her time to feel secure in her life with you, without the background fear that you are looking to replace her. She's young yet, she may have a different view in 5 years time.

Also, if you do persist in pursuing this idea then focus on bringing another man into your lives, put off bringing in women, who she will see as competition, until you have her hooked on having an extra man on call.

You need to decide just how selfish you want to be and whether you are in this for the long term, because buddy, it's going to take a long time and lots of patience on your part.
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