Advice: Orgasm Denial - Teasing Her Until She Can't Take It....

[dreamykitten2]

The one teasing. As well as the one being teased! It's my ultimate pleasure. And as one already said you should watch the person to se if he or she is enjoying it . And it would be wise to know their buttons as this makes it even more pleasurable! I just love it!!!!

[Jade_Riley]

I both hate and love being denied orgasm. Firstly I hate it because I'm so turned on and want to come NOW! But I love the feeling that I'm being told not to come and denying my urges and need for release and instead giving in to an order and that gets me even more turned on so that when I'm finally allowed to come it makes it that much more intense.

[Hopeorless1]

My Sir and I do this all the time. He edges me and edges me until I finally get a huge release. I don't quite think it would work well with anoyone else, but when he pushes me sooooo far that I feel I can't control myself and he tells me, "No." Just ever so sternly, it sends me right out into space. Then, when I cum, it is super hard. As I said, I don't think I could do it quite as good with anyone else, but somehow he knows exactly how to control my body.

[DanielaRo]

Umm I have to say
I love it...especially after aloot tease and denial
Exactly when I begin to beg for that.
That s because I love the feeling of not having control of it
And the feeling of beeing used
So yeah. Love denial

[DeepGreenEyes]

Originally Posted by night&day

Never knew a woman that wanted to be brought close to an orgasm and then denied it! I found that women love to be brought to orgasm as many times as I can help them reach it. Usually after a number, they might ask me to stop and let them catch their breath, but I never met one that wanted to be denied one!

Maybe that's why it's so very delicious.

[JoyceMarieL]

Originally Posted by VulnerableSubmissive

Yes! Denial is wonderful since I'm more driven by anticipation. As long as the focus is still on my body, clit, nipples, etc.

No spanking (or any pain)needed as that sends focus off the build up.

The tease and then denial is heavenly; the constant sexual tension and prolonged period of horniness that follows makes the eventual orgasm truly special. I require a generous amount of clitoral stimulation to trigger my orgasms, which makes the teasing and denial easy to accomplish. It permits nipple play, penetration and other methods of foreplay; all very pleasurable without triggering the "Big O".

I even find a reasonable amount of pain intensifies the arousal and creates the false impression that this time I am going to be permitted to experience orgasm.

[FrozenRose]

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[nayia]

I love being teased too. Maybe I just like getting the extra attention and being able to just experience it without worrying about doing anything else. I like him taking that control over me. Plus, it just feels so good when it finally happens.

[Micklesko]

Originally Posted by abella117

I personally think that orgasm denial should be outlawed. Its cruel and inhumane.
What sadistic bastard thought up this?? And besides I would constantly fail, over and over and over again, and I would forever be punished for my constant failures

Yes, well that IS the whole point of it now, isn't it.
You love it though, don't you?!
Yessssss, you do.

[ejredlady]

I would love to find a partner who would do exactly this nto me!

[RedHotMamaTN]

My love does this to me ALL the time to the point i leave him so hot and horny I cant think straight. I enjoy it and hate it too. The last time I was with him he got a taste of it. hehe Ive asked him why do you torture me so? He saif to make u want me more. Seriously????? LOL I havent had the feather teasing session yet. But I know its coming. I dont get mad at him for driving me insane but Im glad he got a taste of the torture last week. hehe

[BiTodd]

I absolutely love edging. I edge myself during masturbation quite.regularly. I also have enjoyed it with partners. It enhances the whole experience.

[RedHotMamaTN]

Today I was with my love and we kinda talked about this today. I told him this is a control thing isnt it? He said yeah it is. Its a guy thing too I think. Well, if this a control thing, he can control me anytime he wants too. He is the first and only man I enjoy being controlled by. I dont know if its love or I completely, 100% trust him or both but Im enjoying this new side of me.

[ejredlady]

Originally Posted by tease2pleaseu

Hi there people....

I wanted to post here to get some opinions.... I should probably first explain that I'm a guy and love the idea of orgasm denial, (both having it done to me and the idea of getting a woman stupidly horny with plenty of foreplay - followed by slowly licking her clit & pussy to edge of orgasm, only to pull away before she can cum) - it never fails to get me extremely turned-on!

I've never actually had it done to me, but have done it to a lady on a few occassions. I usually like to have her tied to the bed, and sometime for her to be blindfolded.

Both the women I've tried this on really did seem to love it, although they hadn't really tried any BDSM previously.

My first question therefore is: Obviously all women (and indeed people) are different, but is this something that you feel that most women would enjoy? Or would this just plain annoy some/a-lot of women?

Another question I have is; Is there such a thing as too much denial? I just adore doing it over & over - and to be perfectly honest also enjoy a laughing a little when she's in a state where she begins to beg me etc.

I also enjoy (after having teased her for ages taking her close over & over), followed by telling her that I'll let her 'come this time babes', only this is often a lie, as I like her to think she's going to orgasm 'this time', only for me to deny her again.

I always let her cum - eventually, but love taking hours end before making her cum for me.

I'd love to hear from any ladies here that love having this done to them, even if it drives them mad. It'd also be great to hear what drives them particularly wild, in terms of what there partner does to them. Indeed, any guys who enjoy doing this - I'd also love to find out what you do that drives her crazy.


For instance, I often enjoy licking and sucking her clit until she gets real real close, only to change to tongue-fucking her pussy - or perhaps licking across her ass, as this seems to particularly maker her really really desperate to cum... Although, doing this (or playing with her nipples) can cause her to orgasm - so tend to do this very gently, then stopping for a minute or two - until she settles down so I can begin again - very slowly.

Any tips or advice would be much appreciated - thanks...

someone told me he could/would do this....he lied. I am looking forward to a man who can edge me over and over to the point of no control.

[Chelbel0733]

I thought denial was much more popular. Hmmm well I guess I've always been different than most... I can literally cum every thirty seconds if someone knows what they are doing. So with that said, I like to be told no. My partner makes me ask him everytime I wish to orgasm and 9 times out of 10 I hear no. He tortures meto no avail every time we do anything sexual. I get in a frenzy screaming and literally crying but when I'm finally allowed to I pass out nearly every time. No questions asked I love it. Having a glass dildo inserted at my entrance leaves me trying to pull it further in and intensifies the feeling of not being able to. Literally so close but not enough to push me over that ever evasive edge. I know I'm different than most but hopefully this is somewhat helpful.

[DVS]

While someone might say they have only met those who wouldn't enjoy this sort of thing, I've met several who do. In fact, I've met some who didn't think they enjoyed it until they experienced it. Sure, you need to treat people differently, and those who are new to this kind of fun should be treated like the newbies they are.

I find that bondage is almost necessary in this type of play, for me to enjoy it. But, to anybody who finds someone who is timid about this, if they are bound and physically unable to stop you, forcing them into something they have never experienced can seem OK, if you think they would love it. But, just because you think they would love it (and they very well might), that doesn't mean they will.

Like with any newbie situation, go slow and take care to watch for reactions, both good and bad. Everybody is an individual. Just because you've met three women who love this, that doesn't mean the fourth will love it, too.

[BondageSubGirl]

I know this is a month late but as someone new to these boards and someone in a long term relationship with a dom who has me in long term orgasm denial i feel like i should give some input

It's been over a month since I have last cum and he generally does not go over 2 months before allowing me. Ever since we decided to start living together, our d/s relationship obviously changed my life but more so what changed me as a person has been orgasm denial. It's affected every area of my life, my schooling, my social interactions, my visiting with my family, my sleep and eating patterns...

All of this can be seen as a negative thing. Prior to orgasm denial, i was a lot more active as a person, a lot more outgoing, and a lot more attentive to my friends, family and schoolwork. However, I wouldn't give up my submission for anything. as much as I hate it sometimes, I need it too

Despite all of that I have no desire to end the relationship or his control over my orgasms. Everything is up to him and I wouldn't have it any other way

It all depends on the person obv :P

thanks for reading