Originally Posted by Alovedwidow
I will remove it. Did not mean to impose on you. Have a good night.
You got him so wrong, he was just having your best interest in mind. Posting in Personal Adds can only get you private messages from men who dont care how you feel and would take advantage of your state of mind.
There is a LOT of "wannabe doms" who only think with their dick and havent got a single clue about "domness" they are so vocal about.
They would promise anything, lie and play nasty little games just to get whatever they need from you to get off. You would get hurt.
On the other hand, the BDSM part of the forum is surprisingly full of genuine, helpful, sympathetic people who could understand you and offer advice and comfort.
You didnt impose on anyone. Please understand that your initial post made some people with good intentions worried about you and they gave you a very good advice.