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Old 08-07-2015, 12:39 PM   #1
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Guys, How did you know you were into guys?

When did you realize you were into guys and what happened to seal the deal?
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Old 08-07-2015, 12:41 PM   #2
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When did you realize you were into guys and what happened to seal the deal?
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Old 08-07-2015, 12:47 PM   #3
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When I first reached puberty and I wanted to explore my sexuality. It was easier exploring with other horny guys than trying to find a girl. And ever since then I don't really care. I enjoy giving sexual pleasure to another human being ... man or woman ... and I enjoy receiving sexual pleasure from anybody too. It was a healthy beginning to an open look at sexuality.
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Old 08-07-2015, 03:17 PM   #4
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Taking a shower with my uncle.
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Old 08-07-2015, 04:06 PM   #5
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Sounds like good clean fun
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Old 08-07-2015, 04:31 PM   #6
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Sounds like good clean fun
We helped each other soap areas we couldn't reach on our own.
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Old 08-07-2015, 04:44 PM   #7
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Had sex with my bi friend and that is when i knew i was bi
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:16 PM   #8
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Old 08-07-2015, 07:08 PM   #9
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it was more of a process for me, starting with seeing ads in a Hustler magazine for gay porn. It was something new i had never considered and i was intrigued... then one day i got the nerve up to go into an Adult Bookstore... the front door opened into a dark hallway with an opening to the left where the magazines and toys were sold. There was an old man sitting at a counter looking at a magazine and he barely acknowledged me but i was scared to go into that area so i wandered down the hall which was lined with viewers to watch movies instead of booths. i walked up to the first one and dropped some coins in the slot. It was a movie of a chubby girl masturbating.. then another girl joined her and they started eating each other. When the movie stopped i went down a few more and watched a guy fucking a girl... then came to one of two guys in a field next to fallen dead tree. They were both naked and one was on the tree bent over with a leg up on a branch and the other guy was licking his balls. Then they got on a blanket and sucked each others cock before one fucked the other in the ass.. i was mesmerized by the looks on their faces, especially the guy getting fucked... i wrote some gay stories and shot a huge wad... after that i decided i was more turned on by guys than girls and was going to be gay
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Old 08-07-2015, 08:28 PM   #10
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Gee, I'm still not sure.
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Old 08-07-2015, 08:37 PM   #11
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Old 08-08-2015, 07:32 AM   #12
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I think it was around 18-19... I was living alone right out of high school and dating a girl but she lived an hour away and I was horny as hell. I was on yahoo chat a lot back then and a guy convinced me to let him suck my cock. I was nervous as hell, but it turned out to be one of the best BJ's I've ever had. Later I got more and more into seeing other guys cum, but I've only sucked off a few guys. I was just going through the guys that have sucked me off and although I consider myself mostly straight, I've had 16 guys get a load out of me. Guess I still love getting head from a guy.
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Old 08-08-2015, 10:25 AM   #13
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How i knew

After being used bt brother at a young age, i was curious my whole life after that didnt start playing again until i was 40 still play from time to time when horny just prefer pussy
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Old 08-08-2015, 10:28 AM   #14
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Think is was probably around 14 or 15 in the changing rooms at school. Looking round and seeing all those other naked guys. Then later masturbating at home over the guys I liked seeing. Then later when I first wrapped my hand round another guys cock and he did the same with me. Still remember that feeling
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Old 08-08-2015, 12:02 PM   #15
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I've been trying to come up with an answer for this for a couple of days now. I'm not sure, I don't know if it was. My first sexual experience was with another boy when I was like 10 years old. Through adolescents I never really had the hots for any girl that I knew, but I did for my friend Tommy. Or when I played football in high school, in the shower room checking out cocks on the other guys. A couple of those black guys were hung pretty good. Then when I started reading Playboy and Penthouse, I think it was The Forum in Penthouse where people use to write in about their sexual experiences. I would get really turned on when a guy would write about sucking off his best friend. Or it could have been when I sucked my first real cock when I was like 26 years old, and knew that I would want to do it again. I've always been attracted to cock, but just in the last few years that I've gotten in to watching gay porn and spending so much time on sites like Lit. Reading what people like myself have to say, and looking at pics of beautiful cocks and guys sucking beautiful cocks, that I've come to think maybe I am in to guys.
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Old 08-08-2015, 02:58 PM   #16
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18yo in Navy boot camp. That's when I realized that men turned me on as much as women. There was one specific guy that I found sexually attractive in my company. Never got to know him or saw him after graduating boot. But I can still picture his slim sexy body and cute face in my mind even now, 30+ years later.
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Old 08-09-2015, 03:59 AM   #17
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Never been "into guys" but found out when I was about 13 that I was very much into cock and I continue to feel the same way to this day.
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Old 08-09-2015, 06:44 AM   #18
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It was a process. I began to realize gay porn turned me on when I turned about thirteen and thought it was all a phase, but I realized I was in to men and women.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:05 PM   #19
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Forum rules prohibit me from mentioning any specific incidents, but it was a gradual process starting around 8-9 and continuing into my late teens, by which time I was identifying as at least partially bisexual.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:47 PM   #20
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My first sexual experience was with a guy. I've been Straight since but now have been fantasizing about doing it again.....esp now that i'm divorced.
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Old 08-10-2015, 03:10 AM   #21
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I was 17 and one of my buddies would occasionally pull his dick out for laughs or probably because he was an exhibitionist. Well, I thought it was incredibly good-looking, and it made me secretly very aroused. I did not know that a penis could be so pleasing and attractive. I used to think about it often when I masturbated, and I would imagine myself telling him how much I liked it.

I wish this story had more to it, but I'm afraid that's it.
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Old 08-11-2015, 09:20 AM   #22
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It was a process, see-sawing between denial and realization. I suppose you could say it began with me checking out cocks in the showers, and then a friend with his shirt off, but I was too young to really understand what I was doing. Then one day, a little older, I caught myself staring at another boy's legs but I dismissed it as a one-off. It wasn't long after that I had my first explicit gay fantasy - there was this boy I noticed, then I pictured him barechested, then naked with an erection, then me kneeling sucking him off. This began a cycle of "OMG, I'm gay" followed by dismissing it as a one-off, with fantasies of sucking off someone, being fucked, etc. One day, a stranger fondled me and I instantly fantasized with getting on all fours for him, of sucking him off on my knees. That was when I knew that I'd have gay sex eventually, that it wouldn't take much for a man to seduce me or something to happen and it was a matter of time. Eventually I met up with a guy, and what "sealed the deal" was when he grabbed my ankles and put them on his shoulders, I knew it was the moment of no return, and I wanted to be fucked.
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Old 08-13-2015, 05:54 AM   #23
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When I was a kid, a schoolfriend and I started out playing with each others cocks, as young eager curious guys tend to do. We were both highly-sexed and naturally drawn to playing sex-games, which inevitably escalated to daring you-suck-me and I'll suck you cock-sucking. We were clumsy and excited, more energy that expertise, but when he ejaculated I was never concerned by the taste of his spunk, and happily swallowed it. The more we did it the more it soon became obvious that I enjoyed sucking his cock far more than he enjoyed sucking mine, so it got to be that I was doing him on a fairly regular basis. It wound up that we were meeting in the nearby woods or sometimes in his house when his parents were out, just so I got the chance of sucking him off. We both accepted the situation as nothing strange or unnatural. That's probably when I subconsciously accepted that I was a 'cock-sucker'? Whether other kids got to know, or if my friend bragged? - I don't know, because I had another couple of guys come around. I was always fascinated by cock, so I was as curious as they were, kinda nervous and uncertain, but I sucked off at least two of them, a third got scared and chickened out before I got it in my mouth, which was frustrating for me, because by then I'd seen his cock and was quite eager to get up close and personal with it. The situation with my friend continued almost on a daily basis until we graduated and went our separate ways. I look back on it all with amused affection… of course, sucking mature cock is another story, and probably another post...
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Old 08-13-2015, 04:46 PM   #24
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From a young age I identified as a girl. When I played online games (this is like 15 years ago) I would always play a female character. I guess you could say I was a pioneer "catfish" in those days. I never was looking for anything sexual. I was only 13/14 years old. Well, anyways guys would naturally flirt with me as a "girl"

One thing lead to another, without me even realize it was going dow that path I ended up helping a guy get off. I was pretty naive to know it was even happening. Since then, I never even considered myself gay or bi. I more so got off the fact it made me feel like a girl.

From there, I never really did much with it my teenage years. Dated girls, didnt crossdress.. None of that. Fast forward to when I was about 22. A friend of mine (female friend) convinced me to dress up in some girls clothes. I basically told her that it interested me, but i was to shy to do it. She encouraged me and helped me a little. For about 4-5 years it was just about dressing up and feeling girly.

I realized anytime i dressed up, i fantasized about guys... that slowly evolved from only fantasizing about guys when i was dressed up to just in general.

Before you assume i'm an expert crossdresser... im not. I never really got to the passing point.. and I hardly do it anymore. Its still a fetish, but not as much as it used to be.

Still havent hooked up with a guy. Just mostly flirting and chatting right now!
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Old 08-13-2015, 04:58 PM   #25
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As a freshman in high school, when no one was home, sneaking the penthouses out of my fathers room and the playgirls from my sisters, and knowing which women, which cocks, always got me hard.

At a sleepover the same year, three friends talk about one guy I didn't know, they said he had another guy over for a sleepover and tried to stroke him under the covers. When we all went to bed, it was two per bed, and I was so hard, wishing .

At sixteen and seventeen, stroking myself while sliding homemade toys in and out of my ass.

At seventeen, riding a long smooth cock, letting it cum inside me, the same night bending over, moaning as he fucked me again.
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