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How To: Pulling Hair During Sex

I admit I came here to this thread with a serious WTF? expression, and thinking, seriously? Somebody needs a how to guide on hair pulling? Isn't that like...intuitive?

But then the first video actually made me WTF? even worse and suddenly it made sense...that's totally not how to do it. What is he, a jockey? Those others ones aren't as bad, probably more personal preference but the blowjob one, for me personally, that one would be a dealbreaker...or at least a serious mood ruiner.

I like hair - got a little hair fetish (on guys) so his long hair brushing over me just gets me all kinds of jacked up, very sensual. I have long hair and it tends to get in the way in certain positions awesome for head but if he pulls my hair into a ponytail or worse, a frigging bun on the top, it's so disconcerting and distracting I've halted the whole thing - it's like ice water. I'm like wtf are you, my hairdresser, fucking bun! Just no. :D

What I've noticed about hair *pulling* is that it seems the guys generally can horse around about doing it, making jokes, but in the act, it's like they get all skittish and hardly do anything with it. A couple had it down, brushing fingers through my hair and then making a fist, tightening it, pulling or pushing, and it's sensual and in synch.

So, in the end, kudos for the how to guide...now...how to get it into the hands of guys everywhere!:D
 
I am so crazy wet now....I LOVE havng my hair pulled, especially when I least expect it. flips my sub switch on like a lightbulb!!!! ;)
 
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That's quite a good read, I'd check on adding the links to the story though, I believe there may be issues with links in stories, where the link takes you outside of Lit.

But PLEASE don't take my words to heart I could be and quite possibly may be wrong. I know I've linked things in my stories, but my links go back into Lit. so those were approved.

Good luck and I'm impressed that you pulled this off, because I saw the poll and thought, WTF? lol :D
 
I have one thing to add about the size issue. My wife is about 5'8 and I am 5'11, but she has a long torso. She likes to lay down on her stomach with me on top. She likes this because I can really work her G-spot and reaching her hair is no problem. Being on top like that really adds to the control factor as well. Unfortunately, the view is not as nice as doggy style.
 
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NikkiBastion said:
What I've noticed about hair *pulling* is that it seems the guys generally can horse around about doing it, making jokes, but in the act, it's like they get all skittish and hardly do anything with it. A couple had it down, brushing fingers through my hair and then making a fist, tightening it, pulling or pushing, and it's sensual and in synch.
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I definitely know what you mean. A lot of guys just don't know how to even start getting into the rougher aspects of sex play.

So, in the end, kudos for the how to guide...now...how to get it into the hands of guys everywhere!:D
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Thank you, ma'am.
 
CinT said:
I am so crazy wet now....I LOVE havng my hair pulled, especially when I least expect it. flips my sub switch on like a lightbulb!!!! ;)
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I believe the first time I truly realized I had a submissive side is when a guy I was with grabbed my hair lightly (like above, he didn't know how to go any further with it). But it definitely raised a curiosity in me that led me to where I am today.
 
RedHairedandFriendly said:
That's quite a good read, I'd check on adding the links to the story though, I believe there may be issues with links in stories, where the link takes you outside of Lit.

But PLEASE don't take my words to heart I could be and quite possibly may be wrong. I know I've linked things in my stories, but my links go back into Lit. so those were approved.

Good luck and I'm impressed that you pulled this off, because I saw the poll and thought, WTF? lol :D
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I believe you're right about the links, if the way I read the guidelines is correct. I may have to modify it slightly to get it approved. I'll ask, though. Maybe I could have it link back to this post? I don't know. *shrug*

And thanks, btw. ;)
 
Joe6pack said:
I have one thing to add about the size issue. My wife is about 5'8 and I am 5'11, but she has a long torso. She likes to lay down on her stomach with me on top. She likes this because I can really work her G-spot and reaching her hair is no problem. Being on top like that really adds to the control factor as well. Unfortunately, the view is not as nice as doggy style.
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Alright. Noted. And thanks for the post. ;)
 
HeyItsDani said:
I believe you're right about the links, if the way I read the guidelines is correct. I may have to modify it slightly to get it approved. I'll ask, though. Maybe I could have it link back to this post? I don't know. *shrug*

And thanks, btw. ;)
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It's certainly worth a try! To get the best response (but not guaranteed) PM Laurel and ask her, she's one of the admin. and owners of the site. Like I said, I can't guarantee she will answer your PM, I know they have lives outside of this place too, but you'll have better luck with her, than with a "contact" email link.

I hope it all works out and you're quite welcome. :)
 
LMFAO. Excellent guide, Dani !!!

I've only started to pull hair during sex in the last few years - a friend mentionned how much she loved it, so I tried in out on my subsequent girlfriends. They all loved it, to my surprise. Especially when fucking them from behind and using it to bend their heads back and sideways for a kiss.

But I guess I already had a knack for the correct technique - must have been all that physics I took in school. lol.

thanks for posting ! :)
 
This is one of my primary kinks, and this is a *great* how to, well researched (with illustrations via porn) and basically right in the awesome zone.

It is absolutely true about experimentation. A gentle pushing of the envelope to introduce this into play serves both parties well. There's an element of surprise, but then the onus is on the hair puller to read signs carefully!

Great post.
 
I never really saw my wife as much of a submissive women in bed, until the first time I grabbed her hair like this. Not just while fucking though. If I want to really get her wet, I'll stand behind her, lock my fingers in her hair and pull her head back exposing her throat and gently nibble on her neck. A few caresses later and she's dripping like a waterfall. ;)
 
I love havng my hair pulled, especially when I least expect it. flips my sub switch on like a lightbulb!!!! :D
 
Thank you first and formost. I have wanted to be on eather end of hair pulling ( as a man haveing long hair you get assholes that use that firsts hold in fights to contol my head. But realy its not a good hold and leavs you open.) But i have never had a woman take charge and take control with a handfull of hair. Nor have i ever realy tried it, but now thanks to your post I belive it time to try ;)
 
Very informative Dani!! Thanks. BTW, do you have any advice on choking during sex? Just curious if you find that a turn-on as well.
 
I love this so much! My guy did the same thing once years ago as a joke, kinda the you see here bitch kinda thing...it made me crazy wet. Your absolutely right on, it's a good way to make a girl melt !


TBKahuna123 said:
I never really saw my wife as much of a submissive women in bed, until the first time I grabbed her hair like this. Not just while fucking though. If I want to really get her wet, I'll stand behind her, lock my fingers in her hair and pull her head back exposing her throat and gently nibble on her neck. A few caresses later and she's dripping like a waterfall. ;)
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HeyItsDani said:
I believe the first time I truly realized I had a submissive side is when a guy I was with grabbed my hair lightly (like above, he didn't know how to go any further with it). But it definitely raised a curiosity in me that led me to where I am today.
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Yup. exactly. it was a situation where he just grabbed a fistful at the roots and basically pushed me to my knees...was like a light switch!!!
 
FSUBasketball said:
Very informative Dani!! Thanks. BTW, do you have any advice on choking during sex? Just curious if you find that a turn-on as well.
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I am working on a how-to about choking during sex. That subject is a bit more difficult to deal with, though. With pulling hair or face slapping, what's the worst that could happen? Pulled hair or a bloody lip, maybe. You can kill someone if you choke them the wrong way, though.

And yes, I very much love to be choked.
 
I think what most supposed doms fail to realize that hair pulling isn't about pain, it's more about control. My favorite way is to reach up from the neck, if I don't stop at grabbing the back of her neck for control, and lacing my fingers through her hair and getting a good grip near the scalp.. hardly any pain, but oh so much control.
 
Aggressive One said:
I think what most supposed doms fail to realize that hair pulling isn't about pain, it's more about control. My favorite way is to reach up from the neck, if I don't stop at grabbing the back of her neck for control, and lacing my fingers through her hair and getting a good grip near the scalp.. hardly any pain, but oh so much control.
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THAT!!!!!!!
 
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