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Old 02-24-2017, 07:34 PM   #1
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Kissing after oral sex

I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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Old 02-24-2017, 07:42 PM   #2
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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I expect to be kissed. Pity the poor man who refuses to kiss me after I blew him. That would be the last blowjob he ever received from me.

Moreover, not that I've ever done this but some men are into snowballing, when a woman shares the semen he ejaculated in her mouth with him. Too late (lol), I've already swallowed (lol).

I suspect, just my personal opinion, those men who enjoy snowballing are closet, latent homosexuals.

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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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Hmm. Give her a chance to swallow first -- unless you're into swapping your own cum. That could be a thing, right? Otherwise, she's probably earned the kiss.
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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This is fiction. Do it any way you want in your stories whether or not someone might have a problem in real life with it. It's not your job to cater to those who can't understand that this is arousal fiction.
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Chalk it up to one thing:

Cold male insecurity. "Real men" wouldn't do that it may trigger thoughts of latent homosexuality

I'm not saying I'd snow ball, but I have no issue kissing after that, hell I even kiss with tongue... what do I care? Its mine.
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Old 02-24-2017, 08:02 PM   #6
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I certainly have no problem kissing someone after they've gone down on me, but I'm bi. I like both cock and pussy.
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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It's a story, whatever you want to write, go for it. It won't work for everyone but hardly anything ever does. Just know your audience and their expectations. My experience is most guys don't like that, but hey... who are you writing for?
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Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.
What's the big deal about this?

Sounds like homophobic bullshit from novices who only get their sex by reading about it.... " ooh, I'm tasting my own cum, does that mean I'm gay?" No, but it might mean you don't know what intimacy means.

Hands up all those here who can honestly say they've never tasted their own cum. Gee, not many hands...thought so.
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Some people find it a specific source of sexual arousal; I've had at least two partners who were evidently turned on by my lack of aversion to the taste. So that's a possibility you could play up in a story if you liked.
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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Girl cum tastes better than boy cum. I've never heard, in person, a guy say that he likes his own taste; I've heard several women say they like their taste. It's awesome when the lady I'm with swallows, but that doesn't mean I *want* to share the experience, no matter how thankful I am.

Yeah, I get it. She took my load like a champ, and that's great. I would be insulted if she refused to ever blow me again because I didn't lick semen from her tongue. I do plenty of things for the ladies that they never want to do for me, but I won't stop doing it because she won't play the same game.

Like others have said, it's your story, so write it the way you want. You can't please everyone all the time, so do what you like. Or, if you're writing for a specific audience, absolutely tailor it to what you think most of them want to read. There's a reason statistics and stereotypes exist, and that's because many things follow a common trend, so you should be fairly safe making assumptions about what specific audiences will like based on previous study.
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You don't know where her mouth was b efore you arrived. Nor soes she know where you were before you arrived.

You don't know where the cook was nefore he fried your burger.

My hands stay in cow shit a lot.
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Kiss a dick. Kiss a pussy. Kiss a frog (but only if it talks). Then kiss a human face. Swap fluids. Now write it up and make it interesting. It's your story, your job. Get to it.
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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Personally, I enjoy playing with this idea from several angles. I've written where they do it without a second thought. I've also played it up as a way to emphasize the experience. I believe I've also mentioned a man (or two) who refused to kiss his woman after she has gone on him. My point? Sell your protagonist's POV to the reader. If your protagonist is the sort of fellow to reject such a thing - then let him reject it. If your protagonist likes something like, then maybe the girl thinks it's strange. It's more a character trait than a story element. Use it as such and let the reader see the reactions of the one party or the other.
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Old 02-25-2017, 03:18 AM   #15
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I've mentioned this in comments on stories where it was brought up, and just wanted to toss it out here.

Often a big deal is made out a guy being willing to kiss a woman after he cums in her mouth or his refusal to do so.

To me (a man) I expect her to kiss me when I go down on her, so why should I object to returning the favor?

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It doesn't bother me in the least.
I never got such comments, too. I just think it's natural to finish a good sex with some kissing and hugging and other cool stuff that makes the connection complete. Use that dopamine.
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Girl cum tastes better than boy cum. I've never heard, in person, a guy say that he likes his own taste; I've heard several women say they like their taste. It's awesome when the lady I'm with swallows, but that doesn't mean I *want* to share the experience, no matter how thankful I am.
You are wrong though.

Men are just prejudiced about getting any cum in their mouth, even if it's theirs. Like as if it almost makes them gay, less manly and masculine.

The truth is, male cum tastes different, just like female cum. It depends a lot on what you eat. If you eat fruit, it will be fruity, believe it or not. If you eat fish, well...

But what you really should listen to here is women. Most women LOVE the taste of cum. So I guess your point about taste is quite moot.
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Every time I read thd title of this thread I just lick my lips and think about blowjobs. And its Saturday morning and guess whose fast asleep. Guess whose about to get woken up. Now is that something guys fantasize over? I'll check back later coz big boy here is about to demand my full attention. Someone else can make the coffee for Tex.
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Men are just prejudiced about getting any cum in their mouth, even if it's theirs. Like as if it almost makes them gay, less manly and masculine.

The truth is, male cum tastes different, just like female cum. It depends a lot on what you eat. If you eat fruit, it will be fruity, believe it or not. If you eat fish, well...

But what you really should listen to here is women. Most women LOVE the taste of cum. So I guess your point about taste is quite moot.
Never had a problem tasting my own cum, it tastes OK, some times it's a little sweeter than others. Except after asparagus. Never tasted another bloke's cum though, so I'm a connoisseur of myself only.

Knew a girl once, she'd say, "here, drink this coffee with a bit of nutmeg. I'll be back in half an hour." The nutmeg did the trick for her, it seems. Apricot juice too, apparently. It's all a matter of taste, I guess.
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Old 02-25-2017, 07:50 AM   #19
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It's a story, whatever you want to write, go for it. It won't work for everyone but hardly anything ever does. Just know your audience and their expectations. My experience is most guys don't like that, but hey... who are you writing for?
I think I may have been misunderstood. I thought that I made my position clear, that I have no problems with it, just that I see it mentioned in so many stories that I was curious about what others thought
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Swallowing

Many of the replies have mentioned taste, which made me think of another topic that never made sense to me: the woman (or man, I suppose!) who doesn't want to swallow because of the taste.

Once the man has cum in the mouth, the recipient has presumably already tasted the cum, so isn't swallowing moot at that point?

I could understand if they didn't want to swallow because of the texture or something. People have similar issues with oysters on the half shell!
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It's a story, whatever you want to write, go for it. It won't work for everyone but hardly anything ever does. Just know your audience and their expectations. My experience is most guys don't like that, but hey... who are you writing for?

I think I may have been misunderstood. I thought that I made my position clear, that I have no problems with it, just that I see it mentioned in so many stories that I was curious about what others thought

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My the boards are full of romantics today. I with James on this...Just give them a Rebel Yell instead.
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My the boards are full of romantics today. I with James on this...Just give them a Rebel Yell instead.
Yum. Rebel yell. Okay, recent empirical experiment says one guy is fine with kissing afterwards.

Now he's asleep again and Chloe is purring.
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Chalk it up to one thing:

Cold male insecurity. "Real men" wouldn't do that it may trigger thoughts of latent homosexuality

I'm not saying I'd snow ball, but I have no issue kissing after that, hell I even kiss with tongue... what do I care? Its mine.
What do you know about real men? You seem clueless to me.
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Yum. Rebel yell. Okay, recent empirical experiment says one guy is fine with kissing afterwards.

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