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25yoDom

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Looking if other share my kink, is this rare? Ive only experienced one person who was very into it but it was hottt.

My ex-gf sub used to love to be forced to cry. We would start off with a lot of nipple pinching, slapping and verbal abuse. I would sit her facing me on her knees, tie her hands up in front of her and just push her further and further. Pull her nipples hard while I tell what a terrible girlfriend she is, ask her why anyone would want a slut like her then slap her any time she protested. This all would get her pretty mad, pouty and she would be acting bratty and glaring at me until a point would come and something would just *snap* in her head and she would start sobbing. At this point she would be submissive putty, the bratty anger would seemingly disappear in an instant. A favorite after this point would be me sitting in a chair with her on her knees in front of me head resting on the top of one of my legs crying into it. I would cane her back and ass while she cried and verbally abuse her some more:

Me: "Why were you being such bratty slut before?"
Her: "Im soooo sorry sir, *sniff* please forgive me." Looking right at me with pleading genuine eyes.
*smack* followed by lots of tears. I would pause while she cried and enjoy her tears.
Her: "Please sir."
Me: "What slut?"
Her: "More pain sir."
*smack*
 
You are not alone. Master only makes me cry when I've been very bad, but each time I feel like I've given myself to him even more.
 
Being a sadist, my PYL enjoys my tears in response to pain. He also appreciates my crying after a rather intense sesssion be it from pain or ecstacy. Having said that, there is no "you're.a dirty slut" stuff. It just isn't our thing.
 
Hey if it works for you that's great. Everyone has their own kinks and gets off to different things.

However since I was in a verbally abusive relationship many years ago such a thing would not be a turn on for me, and if my Master (Who knows about my past) ever did something like that to me, he knows there would be trouble. Then again I don't act bratty and have no need to be in a situation where I would be disciplined as such.
 
I don't cry.. I don't think I'm masochistic enough to actually cry, and I tend to just get angry if it hurts too much. As for verbal abuse it's a fine line between turning me on or saying something I know isn't true and so I can't take it seriously.

It's not that I don't want to. There are times when a good release through tears that he could bring out, and then his comforting me that I crave. Somehow I just can't cross that line though & I only ever cried when hurt emotionally which actually made me withdraw rather than feel closer.
 
Interesting thread!

I love being made to cry. But not from a "I feel like a horrible girlfriend/pyl" place. The strength of emotions, my lack of control, Mistress's power over me, and sometimes pain can bring me to tears .... and I love it.

Mistress often reminds me of my "status" as slave and what that means .... and it gets me so aroused when she does. She can remind me that i am her toy, her slut, her whore and i drift to such wonderful depths of the submissive mindset. But telling me I am a horrible pyl or asking why anyone would want me would probably break my heart and wound me (and not in the fun "I am a total masochist and love to suffer" kinda hurting).
(Not saying it is wrong to play that way, just that Mistress and I don't.)
 
I'll be back to spill more of my mind on this when I clarify for myself a bit more. But yes, a great topic.
 
masha223 said:
You are not alone. Master only makes me cry when I've been very bad, but each time I feel like I've given myself to him even more.
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Yes exactly how I feel. The deep connection is quite an amazing feeling. I wont lie my favorite part was bringing her back from "that place" where she just needed a man on an instinctual level and I could be her white knight, hold her and take care of her. A beautiful thing.
 
25yoDom said:
Looking if other share my kink, is this rare? Ive only experienced one person who was very into it but it was hottt.

My ex-gf sub used to love to be forced to cry. We would start off with a lot of nipple pinching, slapping and verbal abuse. I would sit her facing me on her knees, tie her hands up in front of her and just push her further and further. Pull her nipples hard while I tell what a terrible girlfriend she is, ask her why anyone would want a slut like her then slap her any time she protested. This all would get her pretty mad, pouty and she would be acting bratty and glaring at me until a point would come and something would just *snap* in her head and she would start sobbing. At this point she would be submissive putty, the bratty anger would seemingly disappear in an instant. A favorite after this point would be me sitting in a chair with her on her knees in front of me head resting on the top of one of my legs crying into it. I would cane her back and ass while she cried and verbally abuse her some more:

Me: "Why were you being such bratty slut before?"
Her: "Im soooo sorry sir, *sniff* please forgive me." Looking right at me with pleading genuine eyes.
*smack* followed by lots of tears. I would pause while she cried and enjoy her tears.
Her: "Please sir."
Me: "What slut?"
Her: "More pain sir."
*smack*
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Hot. :devil:

To pull this kind of stuff off, at least for me, there needs to be a baseline of trust and caring. A clear understanding of the difference between playtime humiliation and real humiliation.
 
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There's only one rule when it comes to crying in our house that's not from pain. He has to know why I'm crying.

He likes the pain related crying. For the rest, he just holds me. :)
 
I love it when Master drives me to tears, whether they be generated physically from pain, mentally when he forces me to conform to his wishes even when it's not something I want to do and emotionally when he twists his agile fingers in my brain and makes me confront my dark twisty side. The release of tears is all for him. And I know I am safe for him to see them.
 
I have never cried from feeling anything remotely positive (or cried from pain since I was a kid)... I can't even comprehend how the two could get mixed up! If I'm crying, it's because I feel like shit, end of~
 
Crying is not looked on favorably in our household.

It doesn't stop us from crying, though.
 
Hmmm, interesting thread! I've not been brought to tears by play as of yet, but I think they would certainly be in order if I were to boldly disobey. I can be a bit of a handful sometimes [in more way than one ; ) ] and the best way to bring me down from my pig headed throne is to break me and if that involves crying....so be it, that release and that vulnerability would be such a turn on after the punishment!
 
Does anyone have the trick to crying "prettily". I seriously don't think anyone would get turned on at the sight of my swollen red eyes and dripping nose after I have cried.
 
I have a love/hate relationship with crying during a scene or after. It's not something that is common for me. In fact, I can count on one hand the number of times it has happened. The last time I played with my now ex-girlfriend I began sobbing about 20 minutes into the scene. It was not expected and not a response to the pain in and of itself. It was a mental "break"...release...whatever you want to call it. As much as I HATE being that emotionally vulnerable, when it was over I felt very calm, centered, and at peace. That said, my ex did NOT handle it well IMO, and it was looked at as a sign of my weakness/unworthiness/incapacity to "handle" things. I got told how it was unacceptable and not normal to cry...blah blah...blah. I was made to feel ashamed of a physical response that I could NOT have controlled in that moment if I tried.

It has been nice to read this thread and see that it is "normal." Well, as "normal" as anything can be in this life...
 
callinectes2 said:
Being a sadist, my PYL enjoys my tears in response to pain. He also appreciates my crying after a rather intense sesssion be it from pain or ecstacy. Having said that, there is no "you're.a dirty slut" stuff. It just isn't our thing.
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Same. I might have my usual pet names thrown at me, but usually that's when I'm not paying attention for some reason (spacing out or sobbing too hard to think), but no real humiliation play. No "how could anyone want you" stuff. But then I usually am the one asking for tears to begin with. I have a hard time letting go and letting myself cry sometimes, fairly often actually. I push and push and push until I break. Sometimes I need the break to come sooner, so I ask for tears.

kiwi_submissive said:
Does anyone have the trick to crying "prettily". I seriously don't think anyone would get turned on at the sight of my swollen red eyes and dripping nose after I have cried.
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I tend to carey the same impish look no mater what. Don't ask me how, but I'm sure the fact that I don't tend to wear make up helps.
 
NiggerSayWhat said:
So dis thread braggn about being a cry baby?

Gotchya
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No...it's about bringing a sub to tears either from humiliation or pain. It is about the submission that comes with the tears. I think you should actually read the thread first before posting.
 
kiwi_submissive said:
Does anyone have the trick to crying "prettily". I seriously don't think anyone would get turned on at the sight of my swollen red eyes and dripping nose after I have cried.
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The red swollen eyes and dripping nose can't really be stopped, but you can cry more prettily by making sure you're concious of not "twisting" your face in any ugly crying poses. Allow yourself to radiate your sadness from your eyes while making sure the rest of your face is as impassive as possible.

It's quite heartbreaking to look at and can still be very pretty.

I learned this trick years ago when I had to do a "crying" scene for a photoshoot. :D

social_morality said:
No...it's about bringing a sub to tears either from humiliation or pain. It is about the submission that comes with the tears. I think you should actually read the thread first before posting.
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Don't feed the trolls, dear. Just ignore him.
 
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