men, do you want to see your wife with another man?

question ive been wondering for a while, great if anyone can help me!

so guys, do you want to watch/hear of your wife having sex with another man? has it been done before? what was your experience?

Yeah, sure do. It's the ultimate turn on.

My ultimate fantasy

Yep, I think about it often. Has not happened yet, and might not ever. We have discussed it and she is not that into it yet. However, she seems to be growing more comfortable with it.

Definitely! It won't happen, but that's what dreams and Lit are for.

I really wonder why men are like this. Don't you feel jealous to see your 'faithful wife' enjoying with another man?

I feel bad to think that my husband cheats me.

nisha_in61 said:

I really wonder why men are like this. Don't you feel jealous to see your 'faithful wife' enjoying with another man?

I feel bad to think that my husband cheats me.

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thats what i thought but a lot of guys seem to be into it, why i started the thread

CutieTS said:

thats what i thought but a lot of guys seem to be into it, why i started the thread

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True. Seems like many men are into it.

nisha_in61 said:

True. Seems like many men are into it.

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is yours?

nisha_in61 said:

I really wonder why men are like this. Don't you feel jealous to see your 'faithful wife' enjoying with another man?

I feel bad to think that my husband cheats me.

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Men like watching porn (I don't think this is any news ) and watching your wife fuck another guy is like watching porn live!

I don't feel jealous at all, because I know it's only sex, nothing more. And it has certain benifits in itself ...

Anyway, that's how I feel.

not sure why i love it... but i do... she has never let me watch.. but has texted me a few pics
and i got to listen on the phone once... man that was a super turn on.. but a little freaky since she dropped me off at a mall while she went to play.. so i was walking around the mall getting pics of my wife with her lover texted to me and then listening to her on the phone as she was cumming with her lovers cock deep in her pussy...
i couldn't wait for her to pick me up so i could lick her clean....

kelli_qcd said:

not sure why i love it... but i do... she has never let me watch.. but has texted me a few pics
and i got to listen on the phone once... man that was a super turn on.. but a little freaky since she dropped me off at a mall while she went to play.. so i was walking around the mall getting pics of my wife with her lover texted to me and then listening to her on the phone as she was cumming with her lovers cock deep in her pussy...
i couldn't wait for her to pick me up so i could lick her clean....

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she does it while your not there? is it more fun?

Perhaps the true question should be one to break the guys into a couple of categories. (Or three if the illusive "other" is applied.)

Men, do you see yourself as a cuckold. Or are you one half of a swinging couple?

LindsayRae said:

Perhaps the true question should be one to break the guys into a couple of categories. (Or three if the illusive "other" is applied.)

Men, do you see yourself as a cuckold. Or are you one half of a swinging couple?

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good idea madame!

Now let's see if they bite.

LindsayRae said:

Now let's see if they bite.

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no bites yet lol

cuckold

I'm definitely the cuckold type. I would love to see my wife cum, and even all in love with another man. If she falls in love with him, then she would cum so much harder... and so would I! I don't know why this turns me on, it just does. And I would love to leave her with her lover in our marital bed while I sit outside and listen to the loud noises of their fucking, the cries of my wife as she cums. And I would love for her to do all the things with him that she has refused to do with me, like anal and swallowing his cum.

No cuckold here

I have no desire to be a cuckold. I do not want to be dominated or humilated by my wife. To me, the excitement comes from seeing her in a different way, as a third person. Also, I also would enjoy her releasing her inner slut and as she is taken by me and another man at the same time. A woman taking on 2 guys is very hot.

I think KrV is right on. Guys are very visual and into watching porn. Watching two people fucking live right before your eyes is about the greatest visual you can get, kind of like the Holy Grail. For most men the reality is that it isn't going to happen and if it does, odds are that it would probably be your wife or SO where you would have the greatest chance of making this fantasy into a reality. Hence, this fantasy comes into play but I think deep down it is really solely the fact of watching two people fucking live right in front of you that is the ultimate goal, not the fact that one just happens to be your wife or SO.

For me it's totally about the humiliation. I want my wife to stay with me, and to love me, but I want her to fall in love with another man who has a bigger cock than mine. I would even move out of the master bedroom. I want to hear her being possessed by another man, giving her most intimate self to him. I want her to say that she has never cum so hard or so often, and that she no longer wants to have sex with me. She would give me handjobs, or maybe even one day fuck me with a strapon. I hope she would let me give her oral sex.

I became a cuckold when my first wife had an affair with a co-worker. At first I was filled with jealousy and rage. Then one night we were talking in bed about it and I caught this incredible hardon just listening to her tell me the story. She started sucking my cock as she told me how they did it. WOW is all I can say.

We rarely roleplayed it and I continued to be a schmuck and then we separated for almost a year. Hoping to get together again (still loved her) she met a guy, fell in love and.....

I was heartbroke. But then I found myself jerking off uncontrollably for weeks. I mean 4-5 times a day. It was torture. The gal I loved and married to was getting fucked and sucking his cock and I totally got off on it sexually.

This eventually wore off. I got over it and later found the women I've been happily married to for 25 years (and four children).

CumInMeWife said:

For me it's totally about the humiliation. I want my wife to stay with me, and to love me, but I want her to fall in love with another man who has a bigger cock than mine. I would even move out of the master bedroom. I want to hear her being possessed by another man, giving her most intimate self to him. I want her to say that she has never cum so hard or so often, and that she no longer wants to have sex with me. She would give me handjobs, or maybe even one day fuck me with a strapon. I hope she would let me give her oral sex.

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Maybe I don't understand this whole scenario, but if your wife falls in love with another man, he can sexually satisfy her better than you can, gives herself totally over to him intimately and you move out of the bedroom where he replaces you...

... why would she stay married to you?

Sorry, but I just don't see it.

CumInMeWife said:

For me it's totally about the humiliation. I want my wife to stay with me, and to love me, but I want her to fall in love with another man who has a bigger cock than mine. I would even move out of the master bedroom. I want to hear her being possessed by another man, giving her most intimate self to him. I want her to say that she has never cum so hard or so often, and that she no longer wants to have sex with me. She would give me handjobs, or maybe even one day fuck me with a strapon. I hope she would let me give her oral sex.

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How is the sex with her?

No cuck

I would be interested in seeing my wife with another man as part of a threesome, but have no interest at all in cuckoldry. My wife gets very hot fantasizing about servicing 2 cocks, and as long as mine was one of those, I would be game.

Not a "cuckold" but...

It was one of my deepest fantasies to see my wife get fucked by another man. My fascination with the concept of wife-sharing began way back when I was a teenager (before I was even married!). I was curious about the psychological ramifications it entailed and how a couple could justify the breaking of a marital bond. More importantly, I was interested with the wife's participation because she was the core "component" of cuckolding and it was her feelings, emotions that orchestrated everything.

Culturally, I was raised and instilled with the belief that the role a woman played in a marriage was to be faithful and devoted to her husband; the idea of her straying or harbouring illicit thoughts was deemed to be bordering on blasphemy! So, it was strange that my contemplations about a wife (my future wife?) being naughty behind her husband's back actually turned me on!

Watching films like Unlawful Entry (where I wished the wife would fuck the demented cop) and select 'wife-themed' 70's porn added fuel to my curious fire and the fetish (if it can be called that) stayed in the back of my mind until I was married.

Of course, when you are madly in love with your wife, in the Honeymoon stage of the marriage, the thought of sharing is unthinkable. A few years later, I was still deeply in love with her, though the 'lust-filled possessive' phase had petered out into a mutual romantic understanding. Suffice to say, my feelings about wife-sharing had returned.

Sadly, and perhaps fortunately, there was the stark realization that my wife was not sympathetic to my fantasies. She drew a line and I toed it; any more broaching of the subject was strictly out of the question and futile. Frustrated, I had to make do with my fantasies.

There were countless times where I dreamed and fantasized about my wife fucking men that were interesting enough to be compatible mates for her. These hypothetical lovers included my brother, her brother-in-law, our neighbour, a couple of eccentrics in their 50s who were widowed themselves and were close friends of my father, the plumber, the electrician... etc. In a nutshell, anyone who I felt could be good enough to satisfy my wife and giver her multiple orgasms and for my own fantasy-fuelled orgasms.

A few more years later, something happened that I did not expect. Late one night, having found her mobile phone lying on the sofa in the living room while she slept upstairs, I decided to be nosy and check her text messages. The wind was sucked from my lungs when I discovered she was having a "long distance SMS affair" with a former boyfriend (he lived in another country) and it had be going on for a few weeks. The reality came crashing down around me and my feelings were torn to shreds when I learned that she had professed her love for him. If there was a cuckold in me, he was emphatically banished because the feelings of betrayal and jealousy were overwhelming; there was no way I was going to lose my wife and there was no way the coward in me would get the opportunity to rejoice.

Fast forward a few more years, after some soul-searching and re-bonding we have recovered from that ordeal and our marriage is stronger than ever. My fears and doubts have long since been dispelled and in their stead resides complete trust and contentment. I have learned a few things over the continuing course of our marriage and one of them is that my wife will always be beside me come what may. The one issue that previously fed my fears about her text affair was the possibility of her leaving me. Deep down we both knew this would never be the case, especially after I had learned from her that her affair was just harmless (yet foolish) fun that escalated beyond flirtation and the "love" she had for him was of fondness, not romantic. That love, she reserved for me and only me.

Despite all this, I sit here typing with a familiar feeling. Yes, my wife-sharing fantasies have returned, though they are remarkably distinct from my earlier cravings. I'd have thought that harbouring such thoughts would be detrimental, but I no longer feel jealousy, possessiveness and fear at the thought of my wife being with her lover or any other man for that matter; I state this with utmost sincerity and clarity. There is just no negative reaction any more, on the contrary, I feel deep satisfaction and at peace with the notion of my wife being pleasured by somebody other than me.

The feeling I would experience has a name and it's called compersion; without implicit trust it just wouldn't happen. I am no cuckold because I derive no pleasure from being humiliated. However, I can readily identify myself as being a Candaulist and a Troilist. It would be extremely pleasurable for me to expose my wife to another man or even watch this voyeuristic incident turn into a flirtatious or sexual one, with my wife's full consent of course.

Even though she has returned to being a faithful wife, and I have told her this, I would not stop her from seeing another man. The reasons for the change in my attitude has her intrigued, yet she is content with the relationship we have now, for the time being. There is hope yet so I can only be patient.

This is probably the best way to keep the sexual tension alive in a marriage.