Ladies need your DP experiences...

[Kimb69]

I have two close male partners and I am considering bringing them together. We do have experience with and enjoy anal sex.

Can you tell me your experiences..before, during and after? Anything that would be helpful would be appreciated.

Not leaving you guys out but if you have some real world experience, please feel free to share.

Thank you in advance.

[NightL]

Originally Posted by Kimb69

I have two close male partners and I am considering bringing them together.

Clapping?

Originally Posted by Kimb69

Anything that would be helpful would be appreciated.

Helpful for what? Clapping again?

[WhipMaster69]

Kimb69 despite the one post between us this place is a great place to come for info. Most of us dont have a crowd of people around us to answer our personal sexual questions. SO we come here. Hope you find what you are looking for!

@NightL =

clapping (verb) repeatedly high-fiving yourself for somebody elses achievements.

Why am I not surprised?

[NightL]

Oh look, we caught another one...


So whoever69 - did you think to offer whatevergender69 any advice? Any suggestions on how they may best utilise their left and right male partners to achieve their objective of getting people to tell of experiences..before, during and after?

For me - I'm just curious as to what they are actually requesting, advice or stories?

[WhipMaster69]

Kim, one other thought (to go with the PM from yesterday) is the Mental State of the parties involved. Its all too common for men to say "Sure, I can get into that! Sounds like fun!" only to find out the day after, that old green monster was hiding behind the bedpost and has now entered the picture to ruin a perfectly good relationship. Think carefully about your partners. Don't rush into it. One night of pleasure isn't worth ruining two good friendships. Mental and Emotional stability is very important.

GL Kim!

@NightL =

Clapping from the urban distionary -

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=clapping

Pay particular attention to 1, 2, and 4.

Never occurred to you to just type that last line in your 2nd post did it?

[Eilan]

I have experience, but I'm not sure what, specifically, would be helpful. *shrug*

[Kimb69]

Was the DP enjoyable for ALL parties? For the women..was it too much or GREAT? I don't want to bring them together if its going to cause problems for either men or if the experience might not be worth it for ME. If it is a so-so experience...it might not be worth it.

So I'm looking for experiences..stories AND advice.

[WhipMaster69]

Seems like you found someone with some answers Kim. Try asking Eilan some specific questions. Again, GL! Think twice then dive in!

[Kimb69]

Elian, sent you a PM.

Thank you in advance!

[NightL]

Originally Posted by WhipMaster69

SO we come here. Hope you find what you are looking for!

@NightL =

clapping (verb) repeatedly high-fiving yourself for somebody elses achievements.

Why am I not surprised?

I take it I have stepped on your toes in the past...

[NightL]

Originally Posted by Kimb69

Elian, sent you a PM.

Thank you in advance!

Oh this is going to be so good...

dude - just click on the link in her sig

[BuckyDuckman]

I realize you specifically mentioned wanting replies from the ladies, however, allow me to offer this from real life experience. It can get to be an absolute tangle of legs! My advice? Being comfortable accepting anal from multiple positions will help. Good luck!

[Kimb69]

Originally Posted by BuckyDuckman

I realize you specifically mentioned wanting replies from the ladies, however, allow me to offer this from real life experience. It can get to be an absolute tangle of legs! My advice? Being comfortable accepting anal from multiple positions will help. Good luck!

Thank you Bucky. I don't mind any real world experience from men's pov. What did you find to be the best position?

[BuckyDuckman]

Originally Posted by Kimb69

Thank you Bucky. I don't mind any real world experience from men's pov. What did you find to be the best position?

First of all, it can get to be a tight fit inside you, so that was a bit of a negotiation. If he gets inside your pussy first and I'm trying to get inside your backdoor, there's not much room. Better to go the other way, ass first, as it were.

The obvious way is for man #1 to lay on his back and for you to straddle him. Then man #2 straddles you and his legs. Not the most comfortable of positions. And if man #2 needs to get into position first, it's a tough reach to work man #1 into position.

Another important element, thrusting. The guy on the bottom isn't going to manage much. Depending on your leverage, you can and the guy on top can make things happen. Once that starts to happen, the guys will DEFINITELY feel each other. Each time I thrust, I'm raking the underside of my penis against the underside of the other man's penis with only a thin membrane between the two. For me, it was fun and sexy, but I can imagine that it would be rather jarring for someone who might be homophobic. Even if the guys never "cross swords," swords will touch man parts. Other man parts will touch, too.

Another position would be for you to mount man #1 in a reverse cowgirl style, giving him the backdoor. Understand, this is going to feel more as if you're doing a sort of crabwalk and you lay on top of Man #1 and accept him inside your butt. Depending on how nimble you are and the preferences of the guys... the guy on the bottom keeps his legs closed tightly and man #2 straddles man #1's legs and you stretch your legs around man #2.

Like I said, the men will touch in some way. If they both bury themselves inside of you, a ball sac is going to touch something. Just warning you.

Hope that helps!

[WhipMaster69]

@NightL -

Oh this is going to be so good...

dude - just click on the link in her sig

PM's turned off. There is another way to get messages to users

[Somehowyou]

Originally Posted by BuckyDuckman

First of all, it can get to be a tight fit inside you, so that was a bit of a negotiation. If he gets inside your pussy first and I'm trying to get inside your backdoor, there's not much room. Better to go the other way, ass first, as it were.

Like I said, the men will touch in some way. If they both bury themselves inside of you, a ball sac is going to touch something. Just warning you.

Hope that helps!

Bucky - this sounds great. We need to find some diagrams or pictures of position #1 and #2 and maybe a few videos. A friend of mine suggested we put the girl on her side. I Never tried a DP but this is on my sexual bucket list.

[Ray Roberts]

I lay on my back, she gradually lowered her asshole onto my cock while facing away from me (looking towards my feet) and when comfortable lay back on top of me. So we were both looking up to the ceiling. The other guy then climbed on top I suppose in what could be the missionary position and filled her fanny. There is a real thin membrane between a woman's ass and fanny and it was a sensational feeling for me with his cock slowly driving in and out with practically no movement from me. It must have been the same for both of us guys because we didn't last long before ejaculating. My wife's comment was "that it was different" and a huge sensation of being filled up.

Having the smaller cock in the rear is advisable especially with a first up go. Our stud packed a 9" cock and this DP gave me some indication of what females feel when being filled by a cock of that size. I will never forget the slow rhythmic long stokes he used to bring us both off. We rarely repeated DP's as the wife enjoyed other positions with our threesomes. Don't knock it until you've tried it!

[Kimb69]

Any jealousy issues come up with the girl's main b/f or hubby? I don't want to ruin a good solid relationship if that becomes an issue. He says its not NOW.....but what is the reality afterwards?

[Riles]

Originally Posted by Kimb69

Was the DP enjoyable for ALL parties? For the women..was it too much or GREAT? I don't want to bring them together if its going to cause problems for either men or if the experience might not be worth it for ME. If it is a so-so experience...it might not be worth it.

So I'm looking for experiences..stories AND advice.

I'm not going to provide stories, but as for advice, I would assume you are already comfortable receiving dick equivalent sized objects into your ass? If not, stick with the oral/vaj combo for now.

Beyond that I can't really say anything positive. I've never liked the MFM combination. I find it a sensory overload, and I worry over not dividing my attention evenly which then stresses me out to a point where the sexiness of the encounter is lost.

[SilvermistDusk]

Start with a well lubed baby finger in the ass when getting eaten and fingered. Once you are comfortable and cum easily graduate to an index finger in the ass. Lots of lube! Take at least a week or two on each finger slowly graduating up to three. When you can comfortably take 3 and cum you are well on your way! If anal is already a favorite of yours with your mens cocks then might I suggest a J and a Rum and Coke

Have Fun and Enjoy!

[Emerson40]

Originally Posted by Kimb69

Any jealousy issues come up with the girl's main b/f or hubby? I don't want to ruin a good solid relationship if that becomes an issue. He says its not NOW.....but what is the reality afterwards?

This is something that will be different in every situation and dynamic - what applies for some may not apply for others. With three people involved, expectations and comfort levels will vary from one to the other, as well as what each will be getting (or getting off to) from the experience.

Discuss the issue with everyone involved plenty and honestly beforehand. If everyone is not on board 100% with the idea, scrap it. The friendship will suffer otherwise.

It should also be understood by all involved, if you decide to proceed, that if any of the players are uncomfortable (not just physically) with what is happening, everyone dial things back a bit. If play is to resume, it should be at a level all are in accord with.

[SilvermistDusk]

Sage advice from emerson40. Keep checking in with each other throughout the experience. Make it fun and don't let anyone go silent.

[Andrew_Stone]

Kim i'm curious what made you want to bring your two gentleman friends together? Have they met before? If not will they still be game for the 3some once they find out they are both having sex with you? Guys can be a bit funny when it comes to things like this. Competitive also...

[Ray Roberts]

Jealousy was never a problem with us as we both viewed it as being a sexual experience. We have now been together for 36 years so it certainly didn't affect our relationship and we look back with many happy memories to our MFM meetings.

[Andrew_Stone]

I asked a couple of questions above and was hoping you could elaborate. The reasons for the questions are mostly just curiosity but also I believe a friend of mine may be in the same position and am wondering how you have handled all that. I'll check back. Thanks.