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11-14-2012, 07:23 PM
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Literotica Guru
gregy70 is offline
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Originally Posted by SurrealObsession
were I ever to find my older fantasy man and the circumstances were right, I do think I would go for it. I would feel guilty perhaps, but I wouldn't be able to help myself.
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Beautiful post & I can understand this. I too couldn't help myself if my fantasy woman presented herself. |
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11-14-2012, 07:32 PM
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Thanks to all for the birthday wishes. A few hours at 52 left to go. BABY, may I suggest you join a site like Empornium or Webop? You can find a lot of videos there for FREE and as long as you have a Torrent Download program, you're fine. I use Vuze (aka Azureus)
They do ask that you maintain a certain ratio (any lower than .6 and you are not allowed to DL until you get your ratio higher) and I find that contributing is important. I up to the site frequently and my ration is almost 5 (I've given 3 X more to the site than I've taken) You can also maintain a good ratio by "seeding" back the torrents.
Hope I helped
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11-14-2012, 07:40 PM
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Originally Posted by gregy70
Beautiful post & I can understand this. I too couldn't help myself if my fantasy woman presented herself.
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Thank you.
I think that life is too short to deny yourself pleasure based on rules. There is a difference between habitually violating your ethics and occasionally allowing yourself to give into temptation. But I suppose we all draw our own lines, don't we? |
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11-14-2012, 07:45 PM
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Witty-provocative-naughty
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My rule is open communication / no cheating. "Swinging" would be fine and if my GF wanted another girl, okay. Sneaking around is a relationship killer.
Surreal, your profile doesn't say if you are male or female, but good luck with writing. Just WRITE. I have done so for years and am extremely prolific, as well as published.
BrettJ in Canada
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11-14-2012, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by BrettJ
My rule is open communication / no cheating. "Swinging" would be fine and if my GF wanted another girl, okay. Sneaking around is a relationship killer.
Surreal, your profile doesn't say if you are male or female, but good luck with writing. Just WRITE. I have done so for years and am extremely prolific, as well as published.
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I am a female. Thank you for the encouragement. I am looking forward to posting my first story soon. Just deciding exactly how I want to end it. |
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11-14-2012, 07:47 PM
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Mind the Hat!
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Originally Posted by SurrealObsession
Thank you.
I think that life is too short to deny yourself pleasure based on rules. There is a difference between habitually violating your ethics and occasionally allowing yourself to give into temptation. But I suppose we all draw our own lines, don't we?
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no rules is ok as long as whoever your in a relationship with knows it also. |
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11-14-2012, 07:54 PM
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Witty-provocative-naughty
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Good luck SURREAL. Reason I asked gender is for ID purposes and girls get colored names. 
Scrutinize carefully your first story, be picky - but with the ending, go with your first instinct. I often jot down plots as they occur to me but sometimes the ends come as I script. I currently have no less than 9 stories plotted in advance.
If you are unsure, ask an advisor / editor.
BrettJ - prolic as sh*t in Canada
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11-14-2012, 08:10 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by SurrealObsession
Thank you.
I think that life is too short to deny yourself pleasure based on rules. There is a difference between habitually violating your ethics and occasionally allowing yourself to give into temptation. But I suppose we all draw our own lines, don't we?
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I'm with you on this one.
I feel like I'd be robbing myself if I didn't give into to temptation if my biggest fantasies presented themselves.
I don't want to regret not doing things one day when I'm too old,
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11-14-2012, 08:20 PM
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Quacked Up and Quazy
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hey PA hows it going tonight
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It is going alright.
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11-14-2012, 08:21 PM
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Quacked Up and Quazy
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Originally Posted by SurrealObsession
It is so funny that I came across this thread immediately. It is my first post, and I had been intending to speak about my deep attraction for older men. I am happy to see this is not a rare fantasy, given the activity in this thread.
I had crushes on men old enough to be my father or grandfather. But I have watched the age of men I am interested in get progressively older, and my desires now center almost entirely on men who are anywhere from mid-40's to mid-60's. Occasionally older, though I find the sexiest decade to be the 50's. I have no idea why.
But in my mind, the type of older man is very specific. Shy, maybe a little repressed and unlikely to come onto me. Someone I can feel safe with, who isn't likely to be very bold. It would probably be me making the moves, in other words.
For anyone curious, I am a 25-year-old woman, married to a man only five years my senior. While I am not the cheating type, were I ever to find my older fantasy man and the circumstances were right, I do think I would go for it. I would feel guilty perhaps, but I wouldn't be able to help myself.
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welcome to our humble place.
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Last edited by chargergirl : 11-14-2012 at 08:25 PM.
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11-15-2012, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted by SurrealObsession
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I had crushes on men old enough to be my father or grandfather. But I have watched the age of men I am interested in get progressively older, and my desires now center almost entirely on men who are anywhere from mid-40's to mid-60's. Occasionally older, though I find the sexiest decade to be the 50's. I have no idea why.
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Thanks ... it's nice to be appreciated! Someone said the other day that the mid-50's is a period of "sexy middle age". I guess that's reasonably accurate if you discount the first 20 years in terms of sexual experience 
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11-15-2012, 12:07 AM
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Witty-provocative-naughty
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I just turned older.
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11-15-2012, 10:57 AM
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Quacked Up and Quazy
Prince Albert is offline
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I just turned older.
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Brett; "Don't worry be happy!!!!"
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11-17-2012, 06:24 AM
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A Hedonistic Allurist
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Originally Posted by BrettJ
I just turned older.
BrettJ in Canada
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whats Older, bloody hell I must be ancient, but Im happy.  |
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11-20-2012, 09:54 AM
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Good morning, everyone! I'm 59
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11-20-2012, 10:09 AM
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Quacked Up and Quazy
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Ok we need to cheer up guys, this is turning into a "downer"!!!
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11-20-2012, 10:11 AM
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A young woman would certainly "raise" our spirits!
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11-20-2012, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Prince Albert
Ok we need to cheer up guys, this is turning into a "downer"!!!
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Originally Posted by restless_bob
A young woman would certainly "raise" our spirits!
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Ok, how about this...
This year, what I'm thankful for is older men!
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11-20-2012, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by Astaylith
Ok, how about this...
This year, what I'm thankful for is older men! |
And I'm thankful you came by! My spirits are rising already! |
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11-20-2012, 10:30 AM
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Really Experienced
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And I'm thankful you came by! My spirits are rising already!
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Yay! 
Lifting spirits...like a boss. 
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11-20-2012, 10:34 AM
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Yay!
Lifting spirits...like a boss. |
LOL yes like a boss... Do you take dictation? |
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11-20-2012, 10:39 AM
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LOL yes like a boss... Do you take dictation? |
Like a boss.
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11-20-2012, 10:41 AM
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Like a boss. |
Ah you want to be the boss... What would you have me do then? |
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11-20-2012, 02:10 PM
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Hello to all the dads . |
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11-20-2012, 02:49 PM
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Hello to all the dads . |
Hello, from this older man!
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