Old 11-15-2011, 10:23 AM   #276
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Older men

What I thought a woman needed when I was younger is so much different than what I feel they need now that I am older. As an older man, you realized sex isn't just an organ, or a technique. It's more than just making them feel like a treasure, but actually treating them like the treasure they are. I feel, when a woman senses that security, there isn't anything she would not do. One thing that has been an issue for me though, is connecting beyond the physical attraction. Has any men or women had this issue? It seems many (certainly not all) that I have met, struggle to find commonality with me beyond the bedroom.

would love to hear all of your thoughts.

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Old 11-15-2011, 12:57 PM   #277
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Old 11-15-2011, 01:46 PM   #278
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One thing that has been an issue for me though, is connecting beyond the physical attraction. Has any men or women had this issue? It seems many (certainly not all) that I have met, struggle to find commonality with me beyond the bedroom.

would love to hear all of your thoughts.

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Find the commonality first? if that's what you want
 

Old 11-15-2011, 01:48 PM   #279
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Find the commonality first? if that's what you want
All sounds rather clinically methodical .. maybe it's just a fancy way of saying see how it goes?
 

Old 11-15-2011, 01:58 PM   #280
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Find the commonality first? if that's what you want
Depends on the situation, I suppose! I agree with what you are saying Boundlife, that is, for me, just easier said than done. I suppose that's more of a "me" issue, but it has been difficult actually meeting someone I connect with from a different generation. How do I explain the influence of Muddy Waters or even the Sex Pistols with someone who grew up on The Backstreet Boys?? (that's a joke).
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Old 11-27-2011, 11:52 PM   #281
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love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
 

Old 11-27-2011, 11:53 PM   #282
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love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
Gee...........does he need to be dressed.......or would a nice robe do.......
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Old 11-28-2011, 12:37 AM   #283
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40s 50s maybe older. Anyone else

Yes! I love the experience and self-confidence of older men....so, so, so sexy.
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Old 11-28-2011, 02:12 AM   #284
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I love the way your mind works........
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Old 11-28-2011, 02:41 AM   #285
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Old 11-28-2011, 06:42 AM   #286
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Why is "the girl next door" never living next door to me. you're right gracefully...we older men have plenty of experience and self-confidence. Have you been, or are you currently with an older man in your life?
And A Little Tease, I'll get right back to you after I put on my suit and tie.
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I love the way your mind works........
I love how all parts - especially the minds - of mature guys work
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See...... I was right about you........
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Why is "the girl next door" never living next door to me. you're right gracefully...we older men have plenty of experience and self-confidence. Have you been, or are you currently with an older man in your life?
I'm not currently attached. I was involved with a wonderful, sexy man in his late 40's, and there's someone a good deal older than me who I'd love to be closer to now
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See...... I was right about you........
I'm glad you're right...it will offset my deliciously wrong fantasies
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61 here. If you like older men I am here to please you.

I love younger women and do what I can to satisfy.
 

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Hmmmmmm.............deliciously wrong fantasies........great minds think alike.....
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I'm not currently attached. I was involved with a wonderful, sexy man in his late 40's, and there's someone a good deal older than me who I'd love to be closer to now
He is one lucky man...does he know of your affections?
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love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
Those of us fitting the description thank you!
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older guys seem to know how to take their time and enjoy the situation
 

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He is one lucky man...does he know of your affections?
He knows. We talk some...and he occupies my fantasies
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Agreed. The majority of "more experienced" guys have learned.....that shaking the bottle for a while first makes it that much better when you pop the cap later....
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