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11-15-2011, 10:23 AM
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Literotica Guru
winepleasures is offline
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Older men
What I thought a woman needed when I was younger is so much different than what I feel they need now that I am older. As an older man, you realized sex isn't just an organ, or a technique. It's more than just making them feel like a treasure, but actually treating them like the treasure they are. I feel, when a woman senses that security, there isn't anything she would not do. One thing that has been an issue for me though, is connecting beyond the physical attraction. Has any men or women had this issue? It seems many (certainly not all) that I have met, struggle to find commonality with me beyond the bedroom.
would love to hear all of your thoughts.
~WP
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11-15-2011, 12:57 PM
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How could
anyone argue with that! 
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Originally Posted by pj19
older men are cleverer funnier and more powerful. basically sexier!
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11-15-2011, 01:46 PM
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More than Dreamt of
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Quote:
Originally Posted by winepleasures
One thing that has been an issue for me though, is connecting beyond the physical attraction. Has any men or women had this issue? It seems many (certainly not all) that I have met, struggle to find commonality with me beyond the bedroom.
would love to hear all of your thoughts.
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Find the commonality first? if that's what you want  |
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11-15-2011, 01:48 PM
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Really Experienced
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Originally Posted by Boundlife
Find the commonality first? if that's what you want |
All sounds rather clinically methodical .. maybe it's just a fancy way of saying see how it goes? |
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11-15-2011, 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Boundlife
Find the commonality first? if that's what you want |
Depends on the situation, I suppose! I agree with what you are saying Boundlife, that is, for me, just easier said than done. I suppose that's more of a "me" issue, but it has been difficult actually meeting someone I connect with from a different generation. How do I explain the influence of Muddy Waters or even the Sex Pistols with someone who grew up on The Backstreet Boys?? (that's a joke). |
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11-27-2011, 11:52 PM
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Virgin
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yummy
love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
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11-27-2011, 11:53 PM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Quote:
Originally Posted by A_Little_Tease
love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
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Gee...........does he need to be dressed.......or would a nice robe do.......
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11-28-2011, 12:37 AM
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Originally Posted by AprilMorning
40s 50s maybe older . Anyone else |
Yes! I love the experience and self-confidence of older men....so, so, so sexy.
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11-28-2011, 02:12 AM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GracefullyYours
Yes! I love the experience and self-confidence of older men....so, so, so sexy.
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I love the way your mind works........
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From my Little One......Cuz she loves me and she knows I love this song.......
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11-28-2011, 02:41 AM
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hey...thanks for saving my thread...lol.......... |
Mmmm Oh an Ohio girl 
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11-28-2011, 06:42 AM
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Why is "the girl next door" never living next door to me. you're right gracefully...we older men have plenty of experience and self-confidence. Have you been, or are you currently with an older man in your life?
And A Little Tease, I'll get right back to you after I put on my suit and tie. |
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11-28-2011, 09:00 AM
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Illuminaughty
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I love the way your mind works........
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I love how all parts - especially the minds - of mature guys work 
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11-28-2011, 09:03 AM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Originally Posted by GracefullyYours
I love how all parts - especially the minds - of mature guys work |
See...... I was right about you........ 
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I linger in the silent spaces.....Between history and myth.....Science and magic......Poetry and prose....
From my Little One......Cuz she loves me and she knows I love this song.......
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11-28-2011, 09:04 AM
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Illuminaughty
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Originally Posted by winepleasures
Why is "the girl next door" never living next door to me. you're right gracefully...we older men have plenty of experience and self-confidence. Have you been, or are you currently with an older man in your life? |
I'm not currently attached. I was involved with a wonderful, sexy man in his late 40's, and there's someone a good deal older than me who I'd love to be closer to now 
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11-28-2011, 09:09 AM
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Illuminaughty
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Originally Posted by goodsonformom
See...... I was right about you........ |
I'm glad you're right...it will offset my deliciously wrong fantasies
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11-28-2011, 09:19 AM
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61 here. If you like older men I am here to please you.
I love younger women and do what I can to satisfy.
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11-28-2011, 09:41 AM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GracefullyYours
I'm glad you're right...it will offset my deliciously wrong fantasies |
Hmmmmmm.............deliciously wrong fantasies........great minds think alike.....
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I linger in the silent spaces.....Between history and myth.....Science and magic......Poetry and prose....
From my Little One......Cuz she loves me and she knows I love this song.......
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11-28-2011, 09:48 AM
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I'm not currently attached. I was involved with a wonderful, sexy man in his late 40's, and there's someone a good deal older than me who I'd love to be closer to now |
He is one lucky man...does he know of your affections? |
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11-28-2011, 04:52 PM
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Originally Posted by A_Little_Tease
love the older men.. Nothing turns me on more than an older, smart, well dressed man... mmm...getting heated up thinking about it..
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Those of us fitting the description thank you!
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According to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful.
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Short shorts - take a look or post!
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11-28-2011, 04:53 PM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Quote:
Originally Posted by winepleasures
He is one lucky man...does he know of your affections?
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Ditto.........
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I linger in the silent spaces.....Between history and myth.....Science and magic......Poetry and prose....
From my Little One......Cuz she loves me and she knows I love this song.......
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11-28-2011, 05:31 PM
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Really Really Experienced
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older guys seem to know how to take their time and enjoy the situation  |
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11-28-2011, 05:43 PM
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Jack
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Originally Posted by sosu_durant
older guys seem to know how to take their time and enjoy the situation |
Yea, very enjoyable |
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11-28-2011, 05:56 PM
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Little One's Daddy......
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Yea, very enjoyable |
Yes we do.......
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I linger in the silent spaces.....Between history and myth.....Science and magic......Poetry and prose....
From my Little One......Cuz she loves me and she knows I love this song.......
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11-28-2011, 07:18 PM
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Illuminaughty
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He is one lucky man...does he know of your affections?
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He knows. We talk some...and he occupies my fantasies
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11-28-2011, 07:20 PM
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Illuminaughty
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Originally Posted by sosu_durant
older guys seem to know how to take their time and enjoy the situation |
Agreed. The majority of "more experienced" guys have learned.....that shaking the bottle for a while first makes it that much better when you pop the cap later....
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