need a woman for a kinky, ongoing email affair
I really prefer the process of getting to know someone intimately and sexually over emails. Chat and cybering (and even discussion forums) have their place, but I love long correspondence.
Here's what you should know about me. First of all, I'm attached, which comes with it certain requirements of discretion. Details of said attachment can be discussed once we know each other, but suffice to say that there's plenty of love and affection, very little sex. And I am an extremely sexual person. I masturbate daily, sometimes more, and it's starting to lose it's appeal without someone to keep my thoughts fresh and hot. Not even my favorite porn or erotica really inspires me. Other details: 34 years old, intelligent, with an average physique and a slightly eccentric fashion sense. Decently endowed (yes, we can swap pictures sometime), and generally a nice, easy-going guy.
But I need a partner with serious kink. Someone who more than simply enjoys hearing about another person's fetishes, but brings her own to the discussion as well. I want to talk about the men (or women) that make you hot, the places you've always wanted to do it, the names you want to be called, the roles you want to play, the most perverse and dark things you want to have done to you, and those you want to do to someone else.
I'm a little on the dominant side in most of my fantasies, but like to switch every now and then, so someone a bit of a submissive streak is probably the best fit. Ideally, you like the idea of roleplay, and are very comfortable in a range of rolls, including those of a taboo nature. I'm not concerned with age, location, relationship status, or body type. If I find someone who can match my mind, I'll be happy. I want a partner who isn't just listening to my fantasies and telling me hers; ideally we're helping drive each other's fantasies forward. Make me cum to thoughts that are just a little beyond my comfort zone. I'm not looking for any sort of commitment, but when I say I'm looking for long-term, it's because I think the best sexual exploration happens after we have established a bit of trust.
So you know the drill; PM me if interested, and we'll see where things go.
I'm still getting the occasional response to this so I want to clarify some of my main kinks, in no particular order:
breast play / lactation
breeding / pregnancy
religion - nuns, monks, priests, angels & demons etc.
threesomes and more
phone and audio play
cuckolding and infidelity
librarians, writers, and artists
public or risky sex
sex in the wilderness
and probably much more...
Last edited by lagomorphosis : 03-24-2011 at 01:28 AM.