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The Sexless Marriage Hookup Thread

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antiasexual

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So,

How many men and women are out there who are in the painful situation of being in a sexless marriage and looking to hook up? Perhaps we can get a run down on who is out there and where. Seems to me that the online dating community is basically useless for this, and so-called "affairs" sites are a waste of time too.

I am not looking for morality calls on whether it is right or not to have such an affair, but would like to meet someone who is in the same situation and help others connect.
 
guess I don't qualify then, we usualy go for a few hours when we play. Just I'm a horndog and want it all the time. masterbate several times a day (like right now) :D
 
no sex please were British

I've been married for 19 years,our sex life is zero,my wife as gone though the change,I was hoping the hormone pills would have kick started her sex drive,but alas no.
So its solo for me has been for the last 10 years,and I'm only 45.
Love my wife dearly just miss the sex.
HELP ME
 
Talk about the correct thread

Unfortunatley this describes my marriage as well. Been years since any intimacy of any sort. It feels like I have a roommate rather than a partner in the physical/sexual nature of a realtionship.
Its a destructive synergy we have evolved into, seemingly powerelss to change it as well.
It all used to be so effortless. Shakes my head.:confused:
 
My wife and I married very young. We've been married 20 years and I'm not even 40 yet. But we live in a sexless marriage. We have sex a couple times a month if I'm lucky. We went a year one time without sex. She is disinterested and I'm finished. Can't divorce right now because of finances and family issues. I come here to read about couples having great sex and wishing it were me.
 
Vagabond357 said:
My wife and I married very young. We've been married 20 years and I'm not even 40 yet. But we live in a sexless marriage. We have sex a couple times a month if I'm lucky. We went a year one time without sex. She is disinterested and I'm finished. Can't divorce right now because of finances and family issues. I come here to read about couples having great sex and wishing it were me.
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a couple of times a month is not sexless if you listen to most wives. it is normal. i would like it 2 or 3 times a week and masterbate every day but what can you do if they arent up for it!
 
Same isue here, been married 23 years and sex was great before my wife went through the change of life. Now she has zero sex drive. I'm 49, but in good shape and have a very healthy sex drive with no erection issues at all, I get hard easy and stay hard. If there's any ladies that are interested contact me!
 
Chuck43 said:
Same isue here, been married 23 years and sex was great before my wife went through the change of life. Now she has zero sex drive. I'm 49, but in good shape and have a very healthy sex drive with no erection issues at all, I get hard easy and stay hard. If there's any ladies that are interested contact me!
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should we start a Q?

mine hasnt gone through the change yet and i still dont get much so when she does i will be a nonce a weeker i guess.
 
Would be delighted for someone to enjoy my wife - who knows change could be as good as a rest!
 
5 feet 2, UK size 8, small breasts, brunette, brown eyes, 44 but looks younger.

And a long way from the land of the long white cloud lol
 
very true, but now you will have guys stroking their cocks thinking if your sexy lady! is she into sexy, or the not interested type?
 
xxxpaulzzz said:
a couple of times a month is not sexless if you listen to most wives. it is normal. i would like it 2 or 3 times a week and masterbate every day but what can you do if they arent up for it!
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A couple of times a month IF I'm lucky. In a years time we have sex about 14 times. I'm not a sex manaic that needs it everyday but this is just too little sex for someone that is in great shape and isn't even 40 yet.
 
The other side

Ok I have the opposite problems. Been married 12 years been together 17 and I'm the one who complains about not enough sex He is the one who says not tonight honey I have a headache. I'm the one who likes porn and toys. We used to have great sc but now in lucky if it's twice a month. And I'm the one whole plays with my self daily because he never wants too. And no I'm not ugly. I think the problem may have come from I married a virgin and he has no idea how good he has it. Hell, I brought sexy bra and panties and he didn't notice. So anyway, that's from the other side.
 
sweetcheeksgirl said:
Ok I have the opposite problems. Been married 12 years been together 17 and I'm the one who complains about not enough sex He is the one who says not tonight honey I have a headache. I'm the one who likes porn and toys. We used to have great sc but now in lucky if it's twice a month. And I'm the one whole plays with my self daily because he never wants too. And no I'm not ugly. I think the problem may have come from I married a virgin and he has no idea how good he has it. Hell, I brought sexy bra and panties and he didn't notice. So anyway, that's from the other side.
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It appears most relationships are that way. One stays sexually and emotionally involved and the other becomes satisified with life and becomes sexually and emotionally lazy. Just my thought....
 
sweetcheeksgirl said:
Ok I have the opposite problems. Been married 12 years been together 17 and I'm the one who complains about not enough sex He is the one who says not tonight honey I have a headache. I'm the one who likes porn and toys. We used to have great sc but now in lucky if it's twice a month. And I'm the one whole plays with my self daily because he never wants too. And no I'm not ugly. I think the problem may have come from I married a virgin and he has no idea how good he has it. Hell, I brought sexy bra and panties and he didn't notice. So anyway, that's from the other side.
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You will get bombarded with PMs!

add some stockings to the ensemble - he cant fail to notice that
 
sweetcheeksgirl said:
Ok I have the opposite problems. Been married 12 years been together 17 and I'm the one who complains about not enough sex He is the one who says not tonight honey I have a headache. I'm the one who likes porn and toys. We used to have great sc but now in lucky if it's twice a month. And I'm the one whole plays with my self daily because he never wants too. And no I'm not ugly. I think the problem may have come from I married a virgin and he has no idea how good he has it. Hell, I brought sexy bra and panties and he didn't notice. So anyway, that's from the other side.
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i did not think it was possible. you will have plenty of male support here sweet cheeks. you could always PM me if you have more concerns. ;)
 
UKhubby said:
You will get bombarded with PMs!

add some stockings to the ensemble - he cant fail to notice that
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Honestly I do all that. And wear 3 inch heels. Still nothing. Trust be it ain't me. It's him. Like uk said he has gotten lazy and thinks it's fine. Which says I have told me and so have his male friends. At this point it's like roommates
 
sweetcheeksgirl said:
Honestly I do all that. And wear 3 inch heels. Still nothing. Trust be it ain't me. It's him. Like uk said he has gotten lazy and thinks it's fine. Which says I have told me and so have his male friends. At this point it's like roommates
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so, are you looking for a hookup as the thread is titled?
 
sweetcheeksgirl said:
Honestly I do all that. And wear 3 inch heels. Still nothing. Trust be it ain't me. It's him. Like uk said he has gotten lazy and thinks it's fine. Which says I have told me and so have his male friends. At this point it's like roommates
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Time to find fun elsewhere - there's not many guys would resist a sexily dressed, horny girl in heels!

Feel free to post a pic ;)
 
UKhubby said:
Time to find fun elsewhere - there's not many guys would resist a sexily dressed, horny girl in heels!

Feel free to post a pic ;)[/QUOTE


Yes that's what my girl friends says that I'm too sexy not to be played with lol. I have just gotten to the point was I'm thinking it's time to look for fun elsewhere. But I'd be picky. Had to be worth it. As for pic I have tried says my pic is too big :(
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sweetcheeksgirl said:
UKhubby said:
Time to find fun elsewhere - there's not many guys would resist a sexily dressed, horny girl in heels!

Feel free to post a pic ;)[/QUOTE


Yes that's what my girl friends says that I'm too sexy not to be played with lol. I have just gotten to the point was I'm thinking it's time to look for fun elsewhere. But I'd be picky. Had to be worth it. As for pic I have tried says my pic is too big :(
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It sucks to see a woman like you in the same situation. I know how frustrating it is for me and I'm sure you feel the same. However, you being a woman you'll have a much better chance of finding somebody to fullfill your desires. Afterall there's many horny guys out there always looking for a sexy female to play with. Hell I'll offer up my "services" if you're in AZ hun! Oh and would luv to see a pic if you can re-size it!
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