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Old 11-17-2017, 08:01 PM   #1
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So What's Out There To Crank Up The Female Libido?

Of a certainty there is a market for something...
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Old 11-20-2017, 02:34 PM   #2
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I hear that chocolate works pretty good sometimes.
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Old 11-20-2017, 03:08 PM   #3
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Old 11-20-2017, 04:01 PM   #4
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Considering the source (Hi, FGB), I'm going to go out on a limb and assume we are talking helping a female overcome medically reduced libido rather than aphrodisiacs. Menopause. Hysterectomy. That sort of thing where the mind is willing but the flesh just ain't having it so much anymore.

And there is a lot, believe it or not. Female Viagra ("the little pink pill"), Zygestra, Mystique, Feminex (which always made me giggle because it made me think of Terminex Pest Control from the first time I encountered it). The list goes on. A quick search tip; "female libido enhance".

(Sidenote for the young bucks; these aren't something you can drop in a girl's drink at a frat party and have her jump you.)

The only thing I would mention is to approach with caution as most have drawbacks that can exacerbate other medical issues. I would suggest she talk with her OB/GYN and GP before popping enzymes and supplements like after dinner mints. ESPECIALLY if she's either taking medication for Blood Pressure or borderline to needing it.

As for aphrodisiacs, while there is some truth to the scent from the oil released by crushed rose petals, my wife always claimed the smell of food cooking or cleaning supplies when I was the one wielding them did more for her.

Oh, and the chocolate thing? Releases endorphins similar to the afterglow POST orgasm. Which I always thought was coming at the problem from the wrong end (all puns intended).
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Old 11-21-2017, 01:50 PM   #5
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Another thing: if the thing that's blocking the libido road is uptightness, I've found that a little cannabis can go a long way to clearing that roadblock.

This has to be totally consensual, of course. No fair sneaking in edibles unawares!

But once the woman has a little buzz on, she can be more receptive to massage and slow, sensuous stroking. She can zero in on the sensations a bit better.

Pot also works for the guy, by helping to distract him from a premature ejaculation.

Knowledgeable cannabis dealers know the difference between "mind" and "body" pot; the latter is the stuff you want.

Microdoses of LSD can do the same thing, but "micro" is the key word here. You don't want a full-blown acid trip, so some experimentation is called for.
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Old 11-21-2017, 02:26 PM   #6
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Of a certainty there is a market for something...

Is that thriftshop sybian not pulling in the squartin' pooh-nanny like dwarf planets to black holes?


I admire how you are staying true to your vision, yet willing to switch up the strategy.

Godspeed FGB, godspeed.
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Old 11-21-2017, 02:43 PM   #7
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Old 11-22-2017, 05:48 AM   #8
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a different partner may work
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Old 11-23-2017, 10:16 AM   #9
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Actually I was asked to find out by a woman whom was NOT happy about her sex drive sputtering.

IMHO being exhausted daily for weeks in a row and aggravated and stressed out past her normal breaking point, of a certainty HAS to play a major role!

The proper dosage of Patron and TLC temporally relieved the problem.

Dr. FGB has prescribed an extended weekend an early next month at a resort.

She is wishful of being petted and pampered for at least a day and a very long full body massage. I am thinking a trip to a SPA or at least starting off with a manicure and pedicure and going from there.

I can make that happen.
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Old 11-23-2017, 01:32 PM   #10
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I hear that chocolate works pretty good sometimes.
One's mileage will vary. Chocolate doesn't do shit to enhance my libido. Regardless, indulging in chocolate is still a good thing
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Old 11-26-2017, 06:47 PM   #11
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Actually I was asked to find out by a woman whom was NOT happy about her sex drive sputtering.

IMHO being exhausted daily for weeks in a row and aggravated and stressed out past her normal breaking point, of a certainty HAS to play a major role!

The proper dosage of Patron and TLC temporally relieved the problem.

Dr. FGB has prescribed an extended weekend an early next month at a resort.

She is wishful of being petted and pampered for at least a day and a very long full body massage. I am thinking a trip to a SPA or at least starting off with a manicure and pedicure and going from there.

I can make that happen.
It sounds like you have a good handle on the problem. Stress seems to be the main culprit, although she may feel that her partner has somehow become more distant or her love life too humdrum ... which the stress may also contribute to, by distorting her perceptions. I've seen that happen, when adversities in life can be projected onto innocent bystanders.

Dr. Athalia agrees that a day at a spa can do wonders, as does reinforcing the notion that she is a woman who deserves to be treated as the beauty that she is. But let's hope that the stress itself can be reduced, rather than just be compensated for.
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Old 11-26-2017, 06:51 PM   #12
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Did she start any new medication?
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Old 11-27-2017, 09:11 PM   #13
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No she has not.

A certain muscle relaxer has a very amusing effect on her.

She took one and one hour later said, God I can't even describe how good I feel... I have never felt like this before!

I took a good look at her and busted out laughing I had not seen anyone THAT mellow since the eighties!

I immediately made her go use the bathroom. When she stretched out on her couch I kissed her good night, put a light blanket on her and locked the door behind me as I left.

She didn't remember me leaving.
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