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Old 01-01-2018, 10:14 PM   #1
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How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this
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Old 01-01-2018, 10:16 PM   #2
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You're not alone at all in this. Similar feelings are common in those of us that visit here.
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Old 01-01-2018, 10:19 PM   #3
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Old 01-01-2018, 10:44 PM   #4
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Very similar. Only, I'm no longer so paranoid about being outed... It is more the "cheating" thing I can't quite reconcile and have to work through, even though I've had a number of affairs in the past.
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Old 01-01-2018, 10:49 PM   #5
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Still using the "get off and go to sleep" method to stay out of trouble. But I definitely could go on Craigslist right now and find a cock to suck.
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Old 01-01-2018, 10:52 PM   #6
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Same here...the only difference is Ive come out to 3 friends who I know will not only keep my secret, and who are into bi guys. Its 2 girls and 1 guy, he came out to me first, then I swallowed the nerves and told him I was bi.

Lately the urge to tell my wife has gotten stronger, but I cant...I just know she would have issue with it. I want to tell her a partial truth, that I had a couple of encounters when I was younger, but I still dont think she would be okay with it.
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Old 01-01-2018, 11:00 PM   #7
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Still using the "get off and go to sleep" method to stay out of trouble. But I definitely could go on Craigslist right now and find a cock to suck.
The problem I see so many of the same ads over and over. Then the issue of getting out or being out of the house
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Old 01-02-2018, 04:20 AM   #8
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How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this
That's me to a T...
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Old 01-02-2018, 04:42 AM   #9
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How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

I'm bi married....48. the internet is my outlet, and i like it that way. I feel no need to wave a flag or make any demands. I've accepted who i am.
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Old 01-02-2018, 06:21 AM   #10
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Old 01-02-2018, 10:59 AM   #11
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I'm out to my wife, but no one else! Like Klippert, I'm no rainbow flag-waving political activist!

But I AM a devoted, cock-loving man, and I'm perfectly comfortable being openly "out" in an adult bookstore or theater!

A private video booth...with a gloryhole or two through the walls...in a busy ABS video arcade...THAT'S the "closet" I LOVE being in!!! 💞😮
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Old 01-02-2018, 11:57 AM   #12
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Been closeted bi for many years. You are not alone at all. Love my wife but there is that ever present urge to suck a hard a cock that I tried to block for years but now I love that part of me. Only wish there was fwb in my life to act on these urges when they happen.
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Old 01-02-2018, 12:44 PM   #13
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Been closeted bi for many years. You are not alone at all. Love my wife but there is that ever present urge to suck a hard a cock that I tried to block for years but now I love that part of me. Only wish there was fwb in my life to act on these urges when they happen.
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Old 01-02-2018, 12:51 PM   #14
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OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!
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Old 01-02-2018, 12:53 PM   #15
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OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!
Damn...if only I weren't an ocean away!
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Old 01-02-2018, 01:22 PM   #16
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How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this
As you can see by most of the responses you are far from alone! There are tons of us around who have the same urges but are too afraid to act upon them. Family matters, discretion, fear of disease, fear of meeting some wierdo. I was lucky a few years back when I was out of town and met a great younger guy and we discovered we were in the same situation. We hit it off and I rolled around nude for the first time with another guy! I sucked my first cock and the experience exceeded my expectations! It's hard to explain in words but there is absolutely nothing like it!

I haven't had the opportunity since and I am hoping it happens again!
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Old 01-02-2018, 01:52 PM   #17
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58 ORALLY BI mwm....
I can;t be alone in this
Seemed like a pretty specific niche to me....till I read all of the responses.

Similar here, though I want, need, and have had it all...but not in a long time.

That said, looking forward to a trip to San Diego in the next couple of weeks to help a friend with a very technical project. Recent conversations have led me to believe he has more diverse, shall we way "inclinations", than I previously realized. I'll find out. If not, there's always the Hillcrest district.
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Old 01-02-2018, 02:20 PM   #18
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How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this
Guess it's pretty clear that there are a lot of us. Had a FWB years ago and would like to have another but can't quite figure out how to do that
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Old 01-02-2018, 02:33 PM   #19
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Old 01-02-2018, 03:19 PM   #20
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OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!
Oh, wow! That would be so hot! If only I could break away from here...I'd drive down to your place in a New York minute!!! 💝💋
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Old 01-02-2018, 06:45 PM   #21
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not married but had a gf who found my profile here and that didn't end well., she didn't like reading posts about me sucking my big black dildo, or the many others that I had here..
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Old 01-02-2018, 08:31 PM   #22
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Old 01-02-2018, 09:16 PM   #23
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OK, I'm in heat! If any of you guys need a safe place to play together and would be into a mature woman watching you? Let me know, hands off, I'm only a spectator!
If I lived slightly closer I'd adore if you'd host to have you watch me and another man suck off each other. It's been so long for me and I've been craving it so much. I haven't had a nice cock in my hand or mouth since college and I enjoyed it immensely.

Being a 52 yr old bi-mwm that only has sex with his wife maybe once or twice a year it's mind blowing the stress relief on everybody that would be achieved.
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Old 01-02-2018, 09:28 PM   #24
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Oh, wow! That would be so hot! If only I could break away from here...I'd drive down to your place in a New York minute!!! 💝💋
It would be a VERY long drive, I moved from Syracuse, NY to North Carolina 12 years ago.
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