Originally Posted by tahoechunk
My wife has asked me to tie her up and blind fold her like 50 shades Never done it. Any advice ideas on how to get the maximum orgasms outta my wife?? Chunk
In the U.S. Home Depot and now most larger Walmarts have 2 inch wide Velcro packages that have sticky backs. You get about 10-15 feet of both parts of the Velcro.
You peel the plastic cover off of the sticky part and press the two parts together. Make sure you have them lined up straight, because once you get them stuck together, that sticky stuff won't allow you to pull them apart.
It might be best to cut the two parts in equal strips before you do this, to make it easier to work with. The idea behind this is now you have Velcro bindings that work very well as restraints. That one package should be sufficient for both ankle and wrist restraints.
Cut them in maybe 3 feet sections or maybe less, depending on what you need to bind wrists and ankles. The 2 inch width works very well, so you might not need much more than to be able to wrap the Velcro around the wrists or ankles one full time.
You can make two shorter sections for each wrist and put one through the other to hook them together. Use your imagination...you might come up with something better.
You can also use rope and shorter sections of Velcro and tie her to the bed. Tie the rope to the Velcro, but not too tightly, so it causes pinching of her skin. Just tie a loop in the rope and run the Velcro through it. It will keep her secure, trust me.
The idea behind Velcro is it works great and it's easy to get off. It doesn't pinch skin like rope, and it's much less likely to cut off circulation because it's a flat 2 inch surface.
Remember, there is a rough side of loops and a soft side that resembles carpet. Wrap the Velcro around the body so the soft carpet is what touches the skin, leaving the harsher loop side on the outside.
How do you give her orgasms from this? First off, she has either read or seen 50 Shades of Grey, which is far from a good representation of bondage or BDSM or anything close to either. Once she is naked, blindfolded, bound and helpless, it will be up to you to use your imagination. If you don't find this scene erotic, you are going to have a challenge. If you find this scene erotic, go with your erotic thoughts.
She won't be able to stop you or even see what you have coming her way. Start by lightly caressing her body, then slowly get a little more rough with her, maybe pinching her nipples or pinching her clit. Rub her clit while telling her how sexy she looks all tied up and helpless, and keep giving her a visual image of the nasty things you could do to her if you wanted to.
(If you tie her face down, you can spank her, but if you've never spanked her or she's never been spanked, be sure you don't go overboard. I think the first time you do this, face up is best. LOL, you have more sensitive parts of her body to torment, too)
Slowly increase the image you put into her mind as you continue to stimulate her sensitive areas with your hand, maybe nibbling on her nipples and licking her clit while watching her level or arousal. Don't let her climax, but once she gets close, remove all stimulation and let her calm down.
Then, resume the stimulation and whispering into her ear that she's your captive play thing to do with as you wish and she can't do anything to stop you. Repeat the stimulation until she gets close to orgasm again, and again stop just before she can cum.
Do all of this a few times, but not too many times, maybe three times and then the fourth time, don't stop, and she'll have a very powerful orgasm. She will assume you are going to pull all of your stimulation away again, and won't expect to be allowed to cum.
If she's tied to the bed, you might have to hold the bed down, because she is going to thrash around and scream in pleasure. The key to all of this is what you say to her and how you stimulate her body.
Because she is blindfolded, what you say to her about what you'll do to her is what she will visualize in her mind. Make it as real and detailed as possible. She will love it. And if you enjoy this scene, you will drink in all of the power you have over her like this.
Just remember...you still have to watch to make sure she isn't getting hurt in some way by the bindings or any of her limbs going numb from the restraints, etc. This is partly why you shouldn't do this for very long.
You don't know how she is going to react, so the first time, just do it a short time. If that time works out great, you can do it for longer next time, but NEVER do it for a long period of time. This kind of repeated arousal and denied orgasm can be very fun in short doses, but it's kind of like tickling...it gets old very fast.