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Old 12-02-2016, 10:57 AM   #1
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Honestly, as a bi woman, I can see why people don't want to date us

Reading some of the confessions here, and the thoughts and feelings some of these bisexuals harbor I say to myself why would a decent person want to date us?

But on the positive note, I really believe bisexuals should look into relationships with other bisexuals
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Old 12-02-2016, 11:23 AM   #2
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I've dated my share of bi girls/women.

Some of the best relationships I've had have been with them.
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Old 12-02-2016, 10:53 PM   #3
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I've dated my share of bi girls/women.

Some of the best relationships I've had have been with them.
Right why would you discount half of the population from the dating pool?

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Old 12-02-2016, 11:30 PM   #4
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Right why would you discount half of the population from the dating pool?
TBH,I'd rather date,marry a bisexual female.
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Old 12-03-2016, 01:04 AM   #5
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Open bi is a hard road. Not telling the guy is not all that honest, but...
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Old 12-04-2016, 11:28 PM   #6
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I'd be interested in the OP explaining what behavior she sees in bisexuals that don't otherwise happen.
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Old 12-05-2016, 01:32 AM   #7
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There is more at stake than sexual preference. Living up to being openly bi is fundamentally telling prospective partners that they're not going to be enough for you and you're not going to be sexually exclusive with them. Not everybody is ready to sign up for that.
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Old 12-05-2016, 05:36 PM   #8
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There is more at stake than sexual preference. Living up to being openly bi is fundamentally telling prospective partners that they're not going to be enough for you and you're not going to be sexually exclusive with them. Not everybody is ready to sign up for that.
Not so. I know folk who are very open about being bi, but quite happy being exclusive with one partner.

Saying "I'm attracted to both men and women" doesn't mean "I need to sleep with both at the same time", any more than "I'm attracted to women" means "I need to sleep with every woman I meet".
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Old 12-05-2016, 05:53 PM   #9
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Reading some of the confessions here, and the thoughts and feelings some of these bisexuals harbor I say to myself why would a decent person want to date us?

But on the positive note, I really believe bisexuals should look into relationships with other bisexuals
Interesting; I am bisexual, date a dame on weekends. See CD's and sissies when I can, but dont consider myself gay. I have fun with everone I date, and sex is only part of the deal. Thank God, at 72, I have seen the value of a relationship that isnt built around sex.
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Old 12-05-2016, 06:11 PM   #10
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I only date bi women there more fun and willing to explore more sound alot better in bed mmmm
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Old 12-05-2016, 07:57 PM   #11
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I only date bi women there more fun and willing to explore more sound alot better in bed mmmm
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Old 12-05-2016, 08:14 PM   #12
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Reading some of the confessions here, and the thoughts and feelings some of these bisexuals harbor I say to myself why would a decent person want to date us?

But on the positive note, I really believe bisexuals should look into relationships with other bisexuals
I do not have any issue with dating a bi woman why not enjoy the best of both sexes.
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Old 01-14-2017, 10:24 AM   #13
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I would date a bi woman and not see any issues with it myself makes going out and checking people out that much more fun to talk about and flirt then go back home and enjoy each other after all the build-up
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Old 01-14-2017, 11:15 PM   #14
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There is more at stake than sexual preference. Living up to being openly bi is fundamentally telling prospective partners that they're not going to be enough for you and you're not going to be sexually exclusive with them. Not everybody is ready to sign up for that.
That has to be one of the dumbest things I have ever read. Being bisexual doesn't mean that you are more or less prone to being unfaithful than a heterosexual person.....Wow.
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Old 01-15-2017, 03:45 AM   #15
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Smile I would love to date a bi woman again!

I would love to date a bi woman again because I like how open minded they are. Not just in the bedroom, but in life. They are far more open to pleasure and I would celebrate her bisexuality. I find bi women more adventurous and fun! Bi women are also far more accepting of my own bi-curiosity and hopefully, even turned on by it.

If you're a single, bicurious or bi woman in DFW and your at least ok with your guy having a fantasy of sucking cock with you, then send me a PM.
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Old 01-15-2017, 03:31 PM   #17
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I would agree that a bisexual should definitely consider being with other bisexuals, or else you could end up married and always curious and wanting something else...
I would love to be with them, they are tolerant, for sure, in a way nobody else could be.
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Old 01-15-2017, 03:58 PM   #19
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Old 01-16-2017, 10:25 AM   #20
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I think men are far more willing to date a bi woman than a woman would date a bi man.

Amber Rose recently said she would never date a bi man.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/...b02b5f858a030c
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Old 01-16-2017, 03:28 PM   #21
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Reading some of the confessions here, and the thoughts and feelings some of these bisexuals harbor I say to myself why would a decent person want to date us?

But on the positive note, I really believe bisexuals should look into relationships with other bisexuals
It's not whether you are bi or straight, it's the attitude. Probably goes both ways, whether male or female. We have to put up with enough everyday crap already, so nobody wants to put up with a crappy attitude from the person they are involved with. My suggestion, unless you want to buy a cat and live alone, don't take out you anger on the person you want to be with.
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It's not whether you are bi or straight, it's the attitude. Probably goes both ways, whether male or female. We have to put up with enough everyday crap already, so nobody wants to put up with a crappy attitude from the person they are involved with. My suggestion, unless you want to buy a cat and live alone, don't take out you anger on the person you want to be with.
I am a bisexual male, love both sexes, so different! But my homo pals are sissies, CD's, and T girls, and since I think they are femme, they are to me. If I were to be with a lesbian, I would be VERY careful about sex.
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Old 01-19-2017, 03:15 AM   #23
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There is more at stake than sexual preference. Living up to being openly bi is fundamentally telling prospective partners that they're not going to be enough for you and you're not going to be sexually exclusive with them. Not everybody is ready to sign up for that.
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That has to be one of the dumbest things I have ever read. Being bisexual doesn't mean that you are more or less prone to being unfaithful than a heterosexual person.....Wow.
To be fair, tmmmbrrr didn't mention infidelity. And unless one is speaking of a bisexual who is only a bisexual in the mind, his comment rings true. In order to explore/satisfy one's bisexuality it takes both genders. But, I agree with the main point you made that it is whatever moral compass guides us that dictates infidelity whether it is bi,gay, trans or st8.
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I think men are far more willing to date a bi woman than a woman would date a bi man.

Amber Rose recently said she would never date a bi man.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/...b02b5f858a030c
this was so ignorant of her. she's a bisexual woman and i don't get her logic, unless her issue is just that she's an unfaithful person at her core and she's projecting her own shortcomings onto hypothetical bi male partners.

it's dumb as fuck. if you're fine with monogamy than your bisexuality is a non issue, no matter the gender you're dating.
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Old 01-22-2017, 08:24 PM   #25
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To be fair, tmmmbrrr didn't mention infidelity. And unless one is speaking of a bisexual who is only a bisexual in the mind, his comment rings true. In order to explore/satisfy one's bisexuality it takes both genders. But, I agree with the main point you made that it is whatever moral compass guides us that dictates infidelity whether it is bi,gay, trans or st8.
I'm sorry to disagree but tmmmbrr said "being openly bi is fundamentally telling prospective partners that they're not going to be enough for you and you're not going to be sexually exclusive with them". If that is not talking about infidelity then what is it talking about?
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