Old 12-28-2012, 08:38 PM   #53426
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Idle question. Do you think a writer can really write the part of a character of the opposite gender as well as a writer or that same gender? Are you prejudiced in only wanting a writer of the same gender as the character? Or would you be willing to accept a writer of the opposite gender who thinks they could do the role justice?
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Old 12-28-2012, 08:43 PM   #53427
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Idle question. Do you think a writer can really write the part of a character of the opposite gender as well as a writer or that same gender? Are you prejudiced in only wanting a writer of the same gender as the character? Or would you be willing to accept a writer of the opposite gender who thinks they could do the role justice?
I've written a male character a number of times. It's a bit more difficult, to me, in some aspects- especially sexual scenes (hell, I have a hard enough time writing my own gender there...) But as long as no one else is objecting to it, I don't have trouble with it.
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:09 PM   #53428
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Idle question. Do you think a writer can really write the part of a character of the opposite gender as well as a writer or that same gender? Are you prejudiced in only wanting a writer of the same gender as the character? Or would you be willing to accept a writer of the opposite gender who thinks they could do the role justice?
I write women so easily, but I could write a male if I wanted to. I just haven't tried. I am open to a man writing a woman with me, but I have to trust my cowriter, if that make sense. Is he into the character her created? Does he see her as a true individual that has a life of her own, or is he wishing he was her, just trying to fulfill his own little fantasy?

This reminds me, you need to revive your What If thread.
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:13 PM   #53429
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:18 PM   #53430
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I write women so easily, but I could write a male if I wanted to. I just haven't tried. I am open to a man writing a woman with me, but I have to trust my cowriter, if that make sense. Is he into the character her created? Does he see her as a true individual that has a life of her own, or is he wishing he was her, just trying to fulfill his own little fantasy?

This reminds me, you need to revive your What If thread.
Hmm, I'll have to think of a 'what if' that hasn't been discussed yet.
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:24 PM   #53431
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:57 PM   #53432
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:26 PM   #53433
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There's a fucking lady bug on my desk.

A lady bug.

Talk about random thing.....

And I don't know what to do with it.

I mean, it's really cold out so if I put it outside it would probably die.....

How did a lady bug get into my house in the first place?!
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Old 12-28-2012, 11:46 PM   #53434
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There's a fucking lady bug on my desk.

A lady bug.

Talk about random thing.....

And I don't know what to do with it.

I mean, it's really cold out so if I put it outside it would probably die.....

How did a lady bug get into my house in the first place?!
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Old 12-29-2012, 12:30 AM   #53435
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Old 12-29-2012, 12:34 AM   #53436
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Aww, but I don't know if I want to kill it. It's just a widdle thing. But I honestly do not know what to do it keep it alive. Heh, it'll probably die.



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Old 12-29-2012, 12:42 AM   #53437
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Aww, but I don't know if I want to kill it. It's just a widdle thing. But I honestly do not know what to do it keep it alive. Heh, it'll probably die.



LT: All I'm trying to do is find a damn picture of a Greek woman. Not one in a damn costume, something from a movie or something. You can't tell me that there are not any. COME ON! Bleh.
hmmm, I wonder if you squish it, will the colors mix or will the red overpower the black?
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hmmm, I wonder if you squish it, will the colors mix or will the red overpower the black?
I feel if I squish it, it may just go crunch and be smushed.

I feel like I should try and see what exactly does happen but then I would kill it then I would be sad.

It's trapped in a bottle right now.
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Old 12-29-2012, 12:59 AM   #53439
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I feel if I squish it, it may just go crunch and be smushed.

I feel like I should try and see what exactly does happen but then I would kill it then I would be sad.

It's trapped in a bottle right now.
Ooo, fill it water...that way, no squishy squish...just floaty float... then put some glitter in the bottle and tada! Snow Globe Lady Bug!
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Old 12-29-2012, 02:08 AM   #53440
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I feel if I squish it, it may just go crunch and be smushed.

I feel like I should try and see what exactly does happen but then I would kill it then I would be sad.

It's trapped in a bottle right now.
As an expert in crushing bugs, I can tell you that your ladybug will indeed go crunch and then be smooshed. The colors will not mix. Ladybug insides are usually white or clear.

If you feel you will have a sad after killing said ladybug, just remember, they only live for about a week and a half anyway.
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Old 12-29-2012, 02:24 AM   #53441
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Old 12-29-2012, 03:09 AM   #53442
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Old 12-29-2012, 03:18 AM   #53443
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That... May not have been a lady bug.
It may have been an asian lady beetle.

They are EVIL.
They bite and stink if you smoosh.
Here in NY, they start sneaking inside when it gets cold... My cat was playing with one yesterday.
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Old 12-29-2012, 08:58 AM   #53447
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One would hope part of it comes down to the person they're attached to...
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