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09-29-2010, 12:34 AM
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Want to please
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Submitting
It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.
Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly. 
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09-29-2010, 02:50 AM
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Cute Girl Connoisseur
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Feelfreetotouch
It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.
Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly. |
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09-29-2010, 07:45 AM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Originally Posted by Feelfreetotouch
It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.
Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly. |
How true....looking forward to meeting someone new very soon here myself...thanks for this post!! 
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09-29-2010, 02:32 PM
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Want to please
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Good luck to you both.
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09-29-2010, 07:35 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Good luck to you both.
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Thanks it happened today and was HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT......
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09-30-2010, 02:36 PM
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Want to please
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Thanks it happened today and was HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT......
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09-30-2010, 10:25 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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It was mostly vanilla but it was HOT HOT HOT HOT....so was HE!!!!!!!!!! 
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10-02-2010, 06:28 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Do tell. |
Emails, etc are making me think the second meeting will be more about submission.....YIPPEEEE!!!
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10-05-2010, 09:08 PM
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Want to please
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Emails, etc are making me think the second meeting will be more about submission.....YIPPEEEE!!!
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10-05-2010, 09:25 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Lucky you!
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Hope that luck happens for you as well...
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10-05-2010, 09:49 PM
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Well here goes nothing...
Seems like a good thread to throw this on.
Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..
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10-05-2010, 10:36 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Well here goes nothing...
Seems like a good thread to throw this on.
Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..
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Unless you are both willing to pick up the pieces...it is VERY hard.
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10-05-2010, 10:44 PM
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Virgin
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Unless you are both willing to pick up the pieces...it is VERY hard.
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I know, but He is not. So, that's why I mentioned what I did.
Hmm, I feel like I hijacked a thread not meaning to. Still fairly new and would just really like to talk at the moment.
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"...We are not made up only of our light and happiness but also of darkness and sorrow. To deny the darkness of yourself is to deny half of who you are, and when you love, truly love, you need to love the whole person not just the part that smiles and waves, but the part that thinks murderous thoughts and knows that pain is both pleasure and temptation, but still think puppies are cute"
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10-05-2010, 10:47 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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I know, but He is not. So, that's why I mentioned what I did.
Hmm, I feel like I hijacked a thread not meaning to. Still fairly new and would just really like to talk at the moment.
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I tried picking up pieces for a very long time....in hindsight, I should have stopped years earlier...preserve yourself, your dignity, your self esteem and try to move on. Easier said than done I know....but the t-shirt for trying just isn't that cool.
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10-05-2010, 10:51 PM
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Virgin
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Originally Posted by NomadLady
I tried picking up pieces for a very long time....in hindsight, I should have stopped years earlier...preserve yourself, your dignity, your self esteem and try to move on. Easier said than done I know....but the t-shirt for trying just isn't that cool.
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Not really trying to pick up the pieces persay with what I had there with Him. I know trying to pick up the pieces with Him will never happen.
However, what I meant to say was I am trying to pick up the pieces of me. I miss the sub, that part of me, feels very neglected, and yeah.. So, that's what I meant to say. Sorry for the confusion.
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"...We are not made up only of our light and happiness but also of darkness and sorrow. To deny the darkness of yourself is to deny half of who you are, and when you love, truly love, you need to love the whole person not just the part that smiles and waves, but the part that thinks murderous thoughts and knows that pain is both pleasure and temptation, but still think puppies are cute"
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10-05-2010, 10:55 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Originally Posted by Shaetiano
Not really trying to pick up the pieces persay with what I had there with Him. I know trying to pick up the pieces with Him will never happen.
However, what I meant to say was I am trying to pick up the pieces of me. I miss the sub, that part of me, feels very neglected, and yeah.. So, that's what I meant to say. Sorry for the confusion.
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I can sympathize with you there....the last time I saw my Dom was over three months ago....it is agony. Probably won't ever see him again but who knows...nothing either of us did anything to cause the seperation, that makes it even harder to deal with.
Time makes it easier but I do miss the submission...
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10-05-2010, 11:06 PM
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Virgin
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Originally Posted by NomadLady
I can sympathize with you there....the last time I saw my Dom was over three months ago....it is agony. Probably won't ever see him again but who knows...nothing either of us did anything to cause the seperation, that makes it even harder to deal with.
Time makes it easier but I do miss the submission...
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Hmm, me and the whole "time makes it easier" phrase are having disagreements. But, I know what you mean as well. Just don't like that phrase/saying anymore.
So, starting a new would be the right phrase, is where I'm having the issue.
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"...We are not made up only of our light and happiness but also of darkness and sorrow. To deny the darkness of yourself is to deny half of who you are, and when you love, truly love, you need to love the whole person not just the part that smiles and waves, but the part that thinks murderous thoughts and knows that pain is both pleasure and temptation, but still think puppies are cute"
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10-05-2010, 11:17 PM
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Femme Fellatrix
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Hmm, me and the whole "time makes it easier" phrase are having disagreements. But, I know what you mean as well. Just don't like that phrase/saying anymore.
So, starting a new would be the right phrase, is where I'm having the issue.
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Starting anew is hard, I should have said time eases the pain of missing the submission, that isn't necessarily "easier" when you love being a sub.
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10-05-2010, 11:25 PM
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Virgin
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Starting anew is hard, I should have said time eases the pain of missing the submission, that isn't necessarily "easier" when you love being a sub.
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That I can say I agree with. Been finding ways to just help the family members/friends with simple every day tasks hoping it would ease that part of me. But through the last year I've come to realize it only seems to be harboring what I really want.
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"...We are not made up only of our light and happiness but also of darkness and sorrow. To deny the darkness of yourself is to deny half of who you are, and when you love, truly love, you need to love the whole person not just the part that smiles and waves, but the part that thinks murderous thoughts and knows that pain is both pleasure and temptation, but still think puppies are cute"
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10-05-2010, 11:57 PM
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Virgin
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and what do you really want shae?
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10-06-2010, 01:10 AM
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Virgin
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and what do you really want shae?
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Someone who understands that there are things in my life that have changed me, that I have to face on a day to day basis when reality hits. Someone, who wants to be the leading Dom and a lover all in one. A person that will help me and grow with me through the experiences of what we want to explore and try.
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"...We are not made up only of our light and happiness but also of darkness and sorrow. To deny the darkness of yourself is to deny half of who you are, and when you love, truly love, you need to love the whole person not just the part that smiles and waves, but the part that thinks murderous thoughts and knows that pain is both pleasure and temptation, but still think puppies are cute"
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07-01-2012, 01:02 AM
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How are things going for all of you? Any luck?
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07-07-2012, 10:46 AM
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Really new to all of this. Finding the thread helpful Xxx
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07-07-2012, 11:21 AM
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Really Really Experienced
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Originally Posted by Shaetiano
Well here goes nothing...
Seems like a good thread to throw this on.
Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..
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Picking up the pieces is quite hard... I'm coming out of a 10 year (vanilla) relationship looking for so-much more. Finding yourself is where to start, though. Find yourself THEN look to another.
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Ordinary life does not interest me. I seek only the high moments. I am in accord with the surrealists, searching for the marvelous. --Anaïs Nin
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07-07-2012, 02:41 PM
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Amateur Painslut
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Picking up the pieces is quite hard... I'm coming out of a 10 year (vanilla) relationship looking for so-much more. Finding yourself is where to start, though. Find yourself THEN look to another.
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I think this is generally wise but...sometimes it takes another to help you discover yourself. Had Master not found me when he did and basically shown me myself and reminded me of who I had been and who I needed to be, I wouldn't be posting here (or anywhere, for that matter) right now. It's still a hard thing to say, out loud, but it's true. I was so lost, and it was so dark where I was. |
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