Originally Posted by Raging_Bull
If its possible to find such a thing on an erotic literature site, I am a single 27 male with a quite a challenging job longing for some female company.
I am posting this because during the course of past few days I've realized that I am slowly but surely losing my sanity without it. Would like someone to confide in my fears and apprehensions and share a few joys. I can get laid every weekend so thats not a problem or what I am looking for. I just never manage to get into a relationship. Its not that I don't want to, I guess women just don't see me as marriage or long term material. Anyway sometimes you can see for yourself that mindless fucking is not enough, a connection at a deeper emotional level is. Now I am not an idiot expecting to find true love but just, as I said, a female friend.
I live in a mysterious place where people don't speak English but the sun shines just as bright. So if you think talking to someone without the expectation of sex is a good idea, I might be worth a try. And oh yes, in my sex life, I have a dominant and demanding personality but thats not why we are here for, right?
I think it's absolutely possible. Just because the discussion starts on an erotic literature site does not necessarily mean that I want to have virtual fuck (not that those aren't fun!
). To me, it just symbolizes shared interests.
I find myself sharing a similar point of view. I'm 30, and due to a variety of circumstances, don't have male friends. Yet I miss that. I miss sitting with a guy and just talking, hanging out, or watching an action flick. Picking their brains over a particularly fun part of Walking Dead. Or even just talking over the various banal points or generalities of the day.
I've had my fill of mindless fucking, as you put it, but nor am I able to find a meaningful relationship. Not completely sure why, but I think that I just haven't met the right person yet, or maybe I'm not willing to find them just now. But either way, a male friend would certainly be a welcome addition.
As for my sex life, that's fairly nonexistent, again due to the circumstances previous mentioned, but that's by my own design, and not out of a lack of opportunities. Sexually, I may be submissive, but definitely not in personality. I speak my mind and tell it like it is. No point in glossing over the truth. And while I may want to talk about the various BDSM aspects, it will most likely be similar to a matter of asking your opinion or talking about it in general terms, not in practicing or engaging in such activities.
If you're interested, PM me if you're still on or email me. It certainly seems like we may have some things in common.