Hands free Orgasm

[olarmy1997]

Anyone on here ever had a hands free orgasm? If so..how do you do it? I have almost cumm several times while I was going down on my wife and again several times while she was stimulating my nipples, but have never been able to finish without touching my cock. I also almost came one time while she was fingering my ass. Are these ways even possible?

[Cold_Eyes]

Just stroke 'til you're about to cum then stop. It's easy to do in theory, but you might need to tie your hands behind your back. You might not like the effect, though.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_...#Ruined_orgasm

[Christopher2012]

Originally Posted by Cold_Eyes

Just stroke 'til you're about to cum then stop. It's easy to do in theory, but you might need to tie your hands behind your back. You might not like the effect, though.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erotic_...#Ruined_orgasm

THAT. doesn't sound fun.

[little_kid]

see the sample gallaries of a site named robandjill.
she'll jack off his cock but stop touching it at the end time, and he'll cum hands-free.
the advantage is you can regain a hardon very quickly but disadvantage is that its not comfy.

[acynlacy]

My wife has had several hands-free orgasms, the latest from me telling her I showed her nude pics to a friend of mine she had the hots for.

We were riding in the car and I told her I showed Dan one of the pics I took a few weeks before, they were art pics, some graphically nude, some fully dressed. She asked which one? I told her the nude next to the tub, this pic exposed her clit. She moaned and doubled over and said she came just hearing that.

I can only remember once for me. She had to spend the night in a sleep clinic and called me about midnight and said "the other patients canceled and I seduced the young med tech in charge, he went to his car to get a condom, do you want to listen?"

During the next 20 minutes the sex was so loud and intense I came just listening to my wife getting pounded.

[erotica_n_s]

From what I've heard, women can achieve "hands-free" orgasms more easily than men (or at least, some women can).

As for myself... I am a man... well, it's been a while - a few years ago, when I was in much better shape than I'm in right now, I have had a fair number of what you could call "hands-free" orgasms... but they do take some effort... but trust me, if you do it right, the orgasms can be quite powerful!!!

My "technique" used to be -

(i) strip naked.

(ii) stand either in the shower or in front of my WC (as I do when I jerk off)

(iii) Now without using your hands to stimulate yourself, just use your mind - either watch a bit of porn beforehand, or just use mental images of sexual fantasies, to arouse yourself and work up an erection.

(iv) Now, use only your pelvic muscles (if you need to - and I almost always needed to) - rhythmically contract and relax. Use mental fantasies. Work your way towards an orgasm.

One of the fantasies I frequently used was: Me performing cunnilingus on a woman - a woman whose hands were tied behind her back, and I was licking her clitoris with my tongue... so she couldn't stimulate herself, but needed me to give her the stimulation...
I would work slowly but expertly, taking her right to the edge of an orgasm, but then denying it just when she was almost there... and I would do this numerous times... the first few times, she would giggle/laugh, even though she was painfully disappointed... but I would keep doing it so many times that eventually, she would beg me to just "give it to her"... I would still cruelly work her up and then deny her her climax... I would keep doing it until she was in tears... she would plead with me... and even then I would not let her climax... it was only when I had broken her completely, when she surrendered completely, sobbing helplessly, perhaps still pleading weakly, I would then take pity on her, and give her an orgasm... and it would be phenomenally powerful!!!

I would imagine that the physical sensations experienced by a woman who was receiving cunnilingus would be similar to the sensations I would experience, with an erection that I couldn't use my hands on, and thus work my way, fantasizing my way towards orgasm...

Like I said, it's not easy... it can take a fair bit of effort, and indeed, it may well be that not all men are appropriately "wired up"... it may well be that not all men can experience such orgasms... But it worked for me...

[temp256]

I'm not sure if this counts, but I have little near-orgasmic "shivers" dozens of times throughout the day. They come on suddenly and strongly, sometimes making me grab onto something for support. I had several while reading erotica_n_s's little story about the girl.

I have a feeling, given time and experience with others, these "shivers" will develop into full orgasms, easily triggered by a partner.

[silverwhisper]

i've given a few in my time (completely hands-free), but never experienced one myself, so i know it's possible for women for have one. i imagine we guys can, too.

ed

[skate and fuck]

STEP ONE:
tie your hands above the bed

STEP TWO:
tie her hands behind her back

STEP THREE:
proceed to have sex.


RESULTS:
you will cum. she may

[wicked woman]

Originally Posted by skate and fuck

STEP ONE:
tie your hands above the bed

STEP TWO:
tie her hands behind her back

STEP THREE:
proceed to have sex.


RESULTS:
you will cum. she may

It might be easier if you reverse step one and two.


Don't know about a man's hands free orgasm...but as a woman I've had plenty.

[Landon_1980]

have seen my gf have one by watching porn....

[southernsara]

I have had them before, but I guess it's easier for girls, just squeezing my legs together or rubbing against a pillow or a chair. I can cum without touching myself while giving my husband a blow job just because it's so hot.

[hidden_shadow]

You know, this is a topic that has fascinated me for a while. I've tried to do it myself, but my imagination (and cock muscles) aren't quite enough to do it for me. I know I've gotten close, and even had some strange feelings that I guess I would describe as a miniature orgasm, but no ejaculation.

(I had an orgasm during a dream once, but I don't think that really qualifies )

I've also fantasized about being the cause of one. The idea of, say, whispering the hottest things I can to a lady, working her up and watching her get hotter and hotter until she cums without having to lay a finger on her...man, how fucking erotic is that?

Also, the testimonials I've seen say women can do it easier, but you wouldn't know it from the porn sites. The major amateur sites are ripe with tons of men blowing their wads without any physical "help", but I've only ever found a single video of a woman doing it in my shamefully long searches of the free porn sites. Maybe it's just not in demand? Or perhaps too easily faked?

[horgasm]

I've tried using hypnosis to go hands-free, but it hasn't worked for me... yet. I've found a few hypnosis recordings that are very stimulating, but don't send me over the edge, and some that give a feeling that's difficult to describe. I guess the best way to imagine it is to think of all the feelings associated with orgasm EXCEPT the actual orgasm/ejaculation. My whole body twitches, I get a sort of "afterglow" feeling, but I don't really cum. There are hypnotists that have whole series of "hands-free orgasm" recordings, but I've never actually achieved my Jackpot. Of course, it is a nice, relaxing, erotic meditation even without getting off.

[brnblu2003]

One of the hottest things I've ever seen was a guy giving me a blowjob,cumming without ever he or me touching him. I will never forget the sight of the white cream on the polished hardwood.

Makes me hard thinking about it. So cool the pleasure one can get from giving pleasure.

[curiousgeo62]

Get an Aneros prostate massager. You can have hands free and non-ejaculatory orgasms for hours. It took me about 5 months but i got it and it will blow your mind. I can only stand about 90 minutes of it and then I use my hand to cum . It is very intense. I only use it once a week for the maximum results.

[Tmmldr]

Originally Posted by curiousgeo62

Get an Aneros prostate massager. You can have hands free and non-ejaculatory orgasms for hours. It took me about 5 months but i got it and it will blow your mind. I can only stand about 90 minutes of it and then I use my hand to cum . It is very intense. I only use it once a week for the maximum results.

good find!

[Flowerbox]

Does cumming from anal sex alone count?

[HothouseFlower]

When I was in college, I used to have very intense hands free orgasms when time was running out while I was taking exams. Those were some of the best orgasms ever and seemed to come out of nowhere. I'm very lucky I passed my exams.

[VelvetSin]

I just saw a television documentary on TLC last night about "thinking off." Google that for more information.

Here's a link to a news story about the main subject of the documentary.

Edit: She teaches workshops, and in one they filmed, it seemed women and men were equally successful with her technique.

[Naughty_Misty]

Originally Posted by temp256

I'm not sure if this counts, but I have little near-orgasmic "shivers" dozens of times throughout the day. They come on suddenly and strongly, sometimes making me grab onto something for support. I had several while reading erotica_n_s's little story about the girl.

I have a feeling, given time and experience with others, these "shivers" will develop into full orgasms, easily triggered by a partner.

Those are kind of like what I get. I get them frequently while I am writing (especially the sex scenes) or reading erotica. I also get them if I start fantasizing about sex or when I have my neck kissed and ear nibbled. Also, I would get them while listening to audio books at my old job. Stephanie Laurent (I think that is how you spell her name) books usually had me shivering and squirming all shift long.

I'll admit, they don't have the same "pop" as a clitoral orgasm, but I am willing to bet if someone researched it the physiological changes would be just as similar.

[hidden_shadow]

Originally Posted by horgasm

I've tried using hypnosis to go hands-free, but it hasn't worked for me... yet. I've found a few hypnosis recordings that are very stimulating, but don't send me over the edge, and some that give a feeling that's difficult to describe. I guess the best way to imagine it is to think of all the feelings associated with orgasm EXCEPT the actual orgasm/ejaculation. My whole body twitches, I get a sort of "afterglow" feeling, but I don't really cum. There are hypnotists that have whole series of "hands-free orgasm" recordings, but I've never actually achieved my Jackpot. Of course, it is a nice, relaxing, erotic meditation even without getting off.

You tried the Jackpot file too, huh? I never could get that one to work either, even after a few tries. I think it's because it demands a certain amount of submissiveness, and I have great trouble relinquishing control like that in a hypnosis session. I have also gotten fairly close before by deep breathing and thinking erotic thoughts (which I assume is what that other lady is promoting, though it isn't really a new technique), but I could never get all the way there.

I think it's easier for women because for them, orgasm is not tied as strongly to physical sensation as it is for men. Of course, this also means that it's harder to cum when the emotional setting isn't quite right. A worthy tradeoff?

[erotica_n_s]

“Hands-free orgasm”? Well, this happened some time ago.

Had an orgasm while travelling by train (no, I was NOT being fellated).

Was listening to the audio track from a sex scene. I was listening from my mobile phone – through earphones. Yes, I’m just bored of listening to rock/metal all the time. Also, I find that listening to sounds from sex scenes stimulates my imagination, partially helps to ease “writer’s block”…

I had extracted the audio from some sex scenes (I haven’t actually watched these scenes – this is more fun… If I haven’t actually watched the scenes, I can use my imagination to try and paint a mental picture of what sex acts might be going on…). At the time, I was working on a “cuckold” story – specifically, a scene where a husband is forced to sit outside the room and he listens helplessly as his beautiful young wife has sex with another man. So, listening to the sounds without watching the actual video helped me to picture the scene - the impotent husband character, sitting on a little chair just outside the doors of the bedroom, locked from the inside; his face buried in his hands as he tries desperately not to cry – the anguish, the emotional trauma, the sense of utter despair and crushing helplessness he feels as he listens to his virgin wife being thoroughly enjoyed by another man, who makes her climax over and over again.

As it happened, the female vocals sounded like she had had not just one orgasm, but three (or perhaps even four) orgasms in quick succession…

There was a series of gasps and plosive sighs, in a progressively quickening rhythm… followed by shrill, yet sweet-sounding, whimpering… building up to a crescendo in the form of a soaring squeal of ecstasy… followed by full-bodied groaning… sputtering… heavy panting and sighing… and the whole lovely sequence then repeated twice in quick succession… followed by a further repetition several moments later.

It sounded remarkably dramatic, and it sounded like I had just listened to a woman having multiple orgasms.

Yes, I was sexually aroused; I had an erection. Suddenly – to my horror – I became aware that I was so aroused, I was actually approaching the point of orgasm myself.

In desperation, I switched off my phone audio, to try and avoid getting any more aroused.

It was too late. I climaxed, ejaculating heavily. While travelling in a train.

I could feel the warmth of my own hot semen thickly soaking my underwear.

SUPREME EMBARRASSMENT.

Luckily I was alone. There was no-one else seated anywhere near me to witness the episode. I was supremely lucky in that respect.

Although I didn’t use my hands, nonetheless, I was helped by the pressure of my own clothes as my erection strained against my underwear, so in that sense, it wasn’t really a “free orgasm”.

I had to get off at the nearest stop, go to the toilet, wipe off all the semen from down below, then go back home, shower and get changed…

I have never repeated that episode, ever again. In hindsight, it was a very unwise thing to do, an episode of very poor judgement on my part. I don’t intend to ever repeat it, ever again. I definitely would NOT advise anyone else to try anything like this.

It was a funny episode because it's one of the few times when I had an orgasm without quite wanting to.

[KlaytonFrost]

I don't know if this is an area you're likely to be into, but e-stim and electrical stimulation can often lead to a hands-free climax. It's a bit different from a regular orgasm, but still good, and worth a look if hands-free is what you're after.

[olarmy1997]

I appreciate all of the responses. I almost have hands free orgasms with my wife while going down on her or if she is flicking my nipples. I just can't get over the edge.