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Old 03-13-2014, 05:24 PM   #1
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Smile Just wonder why on porn videos

It is always the woman who is moaning & groaning. I would like to hear the guy more. I love to watch it but get tired of the girl going ooohhh oooohhh f, yeah over & over. Love to hear the guys voice as well. Might be because I am a girl & I love to hear guys voices.
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Old 03-13-2014, 06:00 PM   #2
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It is always the woman who is moaning & groaning. I would like to hear the guy more. I love to watch it but get tired of the girl going ooohhh oooohhh f, yeah over & over. Love to hear the guys voice as well. Might be because I am a girl & I love to hear guys voices.
Black guys like to snort and grunt a lot, but it comes across as fake. They sound a lot better when theyre talking to the bitch. White guys don't make any noises but I like to talk to women, and say pretty much what the black guys say...HEY! LOOK AT YOUR HUSBAND AND TELL HIM HOW MUCH YOU LIKE MY SEED IN YOU. LOOK AT HIM!
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Old 03-13-2014, 06:12 PM   #3
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I'm a talker, not so much a moaner.

besides when I'm the top, its the game of "You're not good enough to make me moan, try harder slut.
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Old 03-13-2014, 06:38 PM   #5
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It is always the woman who is moaning & groaning. I would like to hear the guy more. I love to watch it but get tired of the girl going ooohhh oooohhh f, yeah over & over. Love to hear the guys voice as well. Might be because I am a girl & I love to hear guys voices.
Probably because the assumption is made that the audience is male and wants to hear the woman.
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Munky was the first to troll. Query won the war. Putting that much effort into trolling just means you're pathetic in real life.

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Old 03-13-2014, 07:56 PM   #7
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It is always the woman who is moaning & groaning. I would like to hear the guy more. I love to watch it but get tired of the girl going ooohhh oooohhh f, yeah over & over. Love to hear the guys voice as well. Might be because I am a girl & I love to hear guys voices.

I think you'll find that most porn is produced by dudes, with their audience being primarily made up of dudes, who don't want to see or hear some porn mope grunting out monosyllabic dialogue and exclamations of pleasure.

There are a few lines / brands of fap-flicks that are produced with women and / or couples as the intended target audience. These generally have story lines, the sex scenes have some sort of motivation (not just ding-dong, pizza delivery), and the male performers not only have speaking parts, but stuff to say as the schtumpin' is happenin'.

You could also try gay porn, if you have no hang ups about guys knockin' boots with guys. I don't know for certain, but I imagine there would be plenty of man noise contained therein, as there is no female oooohhiing and aaahhhing during the pistoning of the peni.


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It is always the woman who is moaning & groaning. I would like to hear the guy more. I love to watch it but get tired of the girl going ooohhh oooohhh f, yeah over & over. Love to hear the guys voice as well. Might be because I am a girl & I love to hear guys voices.
It seems that in amateur porn there's a little more of a balance. I enjoy hearing a woman when it sounds genuine but the repetitive sound is really annoying. It's great when a guy makes noise...breathe heavy... grunt...ANYTHING. The world needs more female porn directors.
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Old 03-13-2014, 11:27 PM   #9
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I agree, it's really annoying and more often than not the reason I switch porn off. Noises and talking are so sexy but the women are usually ridiculously overdone and the men non-existent vocally. Agree with SunDevilGirl there should be more female porn directors.
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The overwhelming majority of porn consumers are straight men. Straight men don't want to her guys moaning or groaning the want to listen to some plastic boobed girl moan as they sit in their lazy boy strokin their cock imagining they are the one pleasing her.

Not that there's anything wrong with that.
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I agree, it's really annoying and more often than not the reason I switch porn off. Noises and talking are so sexy but the women are usually ridiculously overdone and the men non-existent vocally. Agree with SunDevilGirl there should be more female porn directors.
too true. I always find it super-annoying when the women start moaning even before anyone lays a finger on 'em. I know it's all fake, but really? Moaning like you're going to orgasm before any touchy feely stuff? it's just wrong on so many levels.
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too true. I always find it super-annoying when the women start moaning even before anyone lays a finger on 'em. I know it's all fake, but really? Moaning like you're going to orgasm before any touchy feely stuff? it's just wrong on so many levels.
I have never heard a moan in pleasure while she was licking my pussy or sucking my tits. The same holds true for me. Nor do I moan while sucking a cock.
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I agree, it's really annoying and more often than not the reason I switch porn off. Noises and talking are so sexy but the women are usually ridiculously overdone and the men non-existent vocally. Agree with SunDevilGirl there should be more female porn directors.
Why are most female porn stars loud while most male porn stars quiet? Most porn is made for men, and the male star is just a stand-in for the viewer. The stand-in isn't supposed to draw attention to himself.
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It seems that in amateur porn there's a little more of a balance. I enjoy hearing a woman when it sounds genuine but the repetitive sound is really annoying. It's great when a guy makes noise...breathe heavy... grunt...ANYTHING. The world needs more female porn directors.
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I agree, it's really annoying and more often than not the reason I switch porn off. Noises and talking are so sexy but the women are usually ridiculously overdone and the men non-existent vocally. Agree with SunDevilGirl there should be more female porn directors.

This is what Gandhi was talking about when he said, "Be the change you wish you to see in this world." To be fair, he drank his own urine, so he was probably angling for some female-directed watersports porn.
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This is what Gandhi was talking about when he said, "Be the change you wish you to see in this world." To be fair, he drank his own urine, so he was probably angling for some female-directed watersports porn.
Despite popular assertion, I don't think Gandhi ever said that. However he definitely was into female water sports.

He actually said, "Pee: the change you wish to see in this world".

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too true. I always find it super-annoying when the women start moaning even before anyone lays a finger on 'em. I know it's all fake, but really? Moaning like you're going to orgasm before any touchy feely stuff? it's just wrong on so many levels.
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It seems that in amateur porn there's a little more of a balance. I enjoy hearing a woman when it sounds genuine but the repetitive sound is really annoying. It's great when a guy makes noise...breathe heavy... grunt...ANYTHING. The world needs more female porn directors.
+1 - Agree completely with all these comments.

I, too, find porn a turn-off if the moaning is over the top / fake.

In my real-life experience there is usually talking, panting and some pleasurable "hmm"ing or gasping up to climax. I am all for loud climaxes when they occur in RL (some women climax quietly, some loudly or both) but in porn they are generally fake and over-the-top.

Re: Male noise - I used to be shy many years ago with lovers and would stifle my orgasm (sonically). One of my lovers, this would be in my early 20's, told me she found noise from me to be a turn-on, "don't hold back" sort of thing. So ever since then, when I am not in public or company in the next room or any other circumstances requiring stealth, I do groan openly during climax and always the feedback has been positive from my partners. Women, just like men, at least the ones I have been with, like to know they are giving their partner pleasure. It is a turn-on for both sexes.
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Wait... what? There's a soundtrack on porn?!

Actually, that reminds me of a conversational point I made a long time ago (and got into a lot of trouble over). I pointed out that it would be better to pick an ugly lover with a nice voice than a good looker with an annoying voice because you can always close your eyes while you're going at it, but sticking your thumbs in your ears is gonna be a leetle obvious.

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I'm not all that knowledgeable on porn, but aren't porn blow jobs alot like one-trick ponies? Apart from deep-throating, they pretty much all suck cock the same way and they're pretty unimaginative for being "pros". I've yet to see one where the girl really caresses, gives long licks, nibbles, kisses, etc to a cock. Maybe I'm looking at the wrong videos.
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The very worst thing is dubbed moaning and groaning where you can tell that they're not even really doing it at all. The best porn anymore is computer downloads. Forget the DVD movies. Most of them are pretty worthless.
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I'm not all that knowledgeable on porn, but aren't porn blow jobs alot like one-trick ponies? Apart from deep-throating, they pretty much all suck cock the same way and they're pretty unimaginative for being "pros". I've yet to see one where the girl really caresses, gives long licks, nibbles, kisses, etc to a cock. Maybe I'm looking at the wrong videos.
Maybe we should make a video to show the world how it should be done properly.
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Despite popular assertion, I don't think Gandhi ever said that.
For the record, it was not a direct quote. His nephew or some similar relative (might have been Rajiv) recalled him saying that at one time.

As for the topic of the thread, I agree that the guy is the stand-in for the viewer. That's why the woman orgasms while she's being screwed, orgasms when she's giving head, orgasms as her tits are sucked. That way, if the viewer gets his load off before the money shot, there's still something on the screen he can immediately relate to, and he can fantasize that simultaneous orgasm that is the Holy Grail of porn sex. That's my theory, anyway.
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I hear Erika Lust is producing some good stuff. I can't personally vouch for her, 'cause I've never bought any of her films, but I have to admit that I find her XConfessions project intriguing. Some of the teasers are quite steamy.
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