Man posting in the hope that more women will ...
Here's a finger routine my woman really likes, typically while we french kiss or while I'm sucking her breasts:
With my fingers dry, I gently but rapidly drum with three of them, moving all around the area of her pussy lips.
As her honey oozes I press with the length of my middle finger along the length of her lips, parting them but not pressing in, rubbing the whole length of her slit slowly.
Then I'll bring that finger up to my mouth and she watches as I make a huge thing of enjoying the taste of her honey - I think that makes her feel so sexily womanly. I might do that a couple more times.
Then I'll lather three of my fingers with plenty of my saliva and smear the outside of her lips, and around her clit, so that she's wet with me as well as with her, to take some firmer action.
Time for insertion with one finger, slow first, exploring at different angles, curling it inside too. As she responds, I'll go in with two fingers while my thumb plays at her clit. Those two fingers jerking against each other as I flick them from straight to curly.
Then it tends to go one of three ways:
She gets orgasmic and I have the challenge of keeping that going while she turns into a bucking bronco; We feel all lovey dovey about it and I go down there with my mouth too and she's one wonderful swoon of a woman; She's shouting at me, "I need COCK! Get in there and FUCK me you animal" in which case, well what does a man do?