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Old 07-05-2016, 04:44 AM   #1
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Are there any men left who actually like conversation?

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Old 07-05-2016, 04:51 AM   #2
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Yep, there are still some of us around Don't tend to do unsolicited PM's though, but I always answer any I get, if you ever feel inclined. Otherwise, good luck with your search!

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Old 07-05-2016, 04:52 AM   #3
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Yep, there are still some of us around Don't tend to do unsolicited PM's though, but I always answer any I get, if you ever feel inclined. Otherwise, good lick with your search!

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Old 07-05-2016, 04:55 AM   #4
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Old 07-05-2016, 05:09 AM   #5
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Sassy, I agree with you about the silly generic (and clearly mass) PM that are sent by some. However, I am with Bunny about the fact that there are many here who are genuinely funny and friendly and with whom I have had such wonderful exchanges in the short time I have been here. I am sure there are very many more and I am really glad to have met the people I now call friends.
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Old 07-05-2016, 05:11 AM   #6
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I would ask if there any women left who actually like conversation. I am finding it less likely to spend any length of time actually communicating in any meaningful way these days.
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Old 07-05-2016, 05:13 AM   #7
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Getting to know a person is the best thing in the world. That is what a I love most.
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Old 07-05-2016, 05:16 AM   #8
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Getting to know a person is the best thing in the world. That is what a I love most.
Absolutely spot on. Though I fear that in the modern world taking time over anything seems to be a waste of time.
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Old 07-05-2016, 06:12 AM   #9
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Morning sassy. How are you doing? You know I love a good chat.
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Old 07-05-2016, 06:25 AM   #10
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
I am very happy to have conversations. I always respond to pm's but don't send them out to people without first having had so interaction via a thread or whatever
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:13 AM   #11
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Conversation...

Don't know if I can make a woman laugh and use her brain, but I am always up for a good conversation , especially with ladies. Been told by some that I am a great talker (need to improve listening skills though) and should BE a woman even though I am a male...😁
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:28 AM   #12
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
I see your point, but I'd like to point out that it is not just men who are lacking in the art of a good conversation. It seems that lately I keep coming across women who just want me to tell them "what I would do to them" in detail as the respond with "oohh.. Ahh... Really?!... What next?!?". Or when the conversation isn't a simple transactional exchange of semi erotic (albeit one sided) role play, it's monosyllabic responses to what I would deem as quite insightful questions, and so I'm left thinking to myself - "why bother?"

I don't know. Maybe we are a dying breed. I'm really here to meet and build robust friendships with good and intelligent people.. But it seems harder and harder..
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:34 AM   #13
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
Sorry to hear you have such experiences, there are folk out there who like to chat and challenge in conversation, erotic or otherwise. Am an environmentalist, a cyclist, a walker and an occasional kinky man - take your pick!

Another thread on here is a discussion about lurking or posting, and interestingly many women noted they generally use invisible mode here to avoid the type of PM you hint at getting. Am sorry it has to be that way, drop me a note if you want to chat, but no offence taken if you don't, have fun!
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:35 AM   #14
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Sure Sassy .. do you think you could chat while my cock is in your mouth.
Just joking. Hope you find a lovely funny gentleman.
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:40 AM   #15
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Yes, but they'll only talk to me when I've got my tits out.

Wait......what?
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:48 AM   #16
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Yes, but they'll only talk to me when I've got my tits out.

Wait......what?
You never did that for me..... did you?
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Old 07-05-2016, 07:58 AM   #17
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Er, I meant in my AVs...
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Old 07-05-2016, 08:01 AM   #18
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[quote=SassySheDevil;78649420]I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs[/QU
I love a good conversation would love to connect
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Old 07-05-2016, 09:46 AM   #19
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As a mature (in age) guy... I enjoy chatting. Feel free. As a person raised in the south I tend to be a bit reserved, but i enjoy chatting, Nice or naughty. I enjoy getting to meet (online) and know people. Have a sensual day! Jay
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Old 07-05-2016, 09:50 AM   #20
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Sassy, there are all types here, as I know you know. The main issue with those of us that are here almost entirely for conversation is the same issue you see in the real world when it comes to personalities: the extreme ones tend to be the most vocal, and demand the most attention. The normal, everyday, laid-back folks just blend into the background and get lost in the white noise. =/
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Old 07-05-2016, 10:06 AM   #21
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I would ask if there any women left who actually like conversation. I am finding it less likely to spend any length of time actually communicating in any meaningful way these days.
I concur.

As a man, I have found it difficult to find a good female conversationalist here, myself.
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Old 07-05-2016, 10:28 AM   #22
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
Unfortunately, a lot of men have their razor-sharp wits honed by watching the Three Stooges...which may explain some of those "stupid PMs."

I'd suggest looking among Marx Brothers or Monty Python fans, but you might end up with Zeppo (or, given our current Zeitgeist, someone who insists on dressing up as Mrs. Zambesi.)
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Old 07-05-2016, 10:28 AM   #23
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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Old 07-05-2016, 10:48 AM   #24
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I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
Perhaps pointing out the obvious, but (IMHO) I have yet to see many posts like yours Sassy where the 'intent' is to have a conversation that does not revolve around sexual attention.

I would say your comments are 'true', but then perhaps that is (disappointingly?) expected given the forum subject matter...

Judging by the responses you have received, there are enough guys that would like to 'just talk'. You can include me in that number too.

Good for you for posting and hope you have some success!

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Old 07-05-2016, 11:31 AM   #25
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First, I have to apologize. I am one that likes to respond to each message and I will try and do so. There was a car accident outside my house last night so after I finally got to sleep, I did my usual sleep like shit because I Have insomnia. So I have been up and down a lot. I am awake now though and will slowly try and answer some of these before I have to leave.

This applies to the PMs also. Be patient as I got many.
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