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Old 09-06-2009, 01:18 PM   #1
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Wink Do Straight Men Like To Be Fucked In Asshole, Either By Strap-on Or By Real Cock? And

This thread is for men who are straight and women who have experience with straight men. Please, share your experience and fantasy with us and tell us if the straight men may like to be fucked in asshole
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Old 09-06-2009, 02:27 PM   #2
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Of course some straight men enjoy being fucked by strap-ons.

As for experiences and fantasies, these threads should provide you with plenty of reading and wanking material. BTW, you can search for the other topics you're interested in by replacing "strap-on" in that search field with said topics (e.g. 'vintage porn' and 'anal sex').

You're probably not going to get a ton of responses to your numerous requests for experiences and fantasies here in How To for a variety of reasons. You'll likely get more feedback if you PM LadyG and ask her to move your threads to the Playground, however.

Good luck, and enjoy your time here.
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Old 09-06-2009, 02:54 PM   #3
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Not to get all hung up on labels or anything, but it's a real cock, then it's not exactly "straight" behavior, is it?

Well, maybe on the GLBT board. . .
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Firstly, posting a totally transparent ad for jerk-off material is unlikely to get you many responses.

Secondly, anal sex is not gay. Being attracted exclusively to members of the same sex is gay. Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.
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Firstly, posting a totally transparent ad for jerk-off material is unlikely to get you many responses.

Secondly, anal sex is not gay. Being attracted exclusively to members of the same sex is gay. Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.
Well, part of that could be because you don't need much persuasion to get your ass fucked. I think it's, at least partially, the allure of the unknown thing that so many women don't even want to try.
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Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.
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Old 09-06-2009, 11:12 PM   #7
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Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.
Once I got over that hang up, sex got a lot better. The women I've been with have been just fine with having anal sex once they learn I take it myself too. Maybe I just find women who are already into it.
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Why men have such a huge hang up about receiving anal when they spend countless hours persuading their women to take it up the ass, I'll never understand.
Because it's considered gay by many men. In my experience, most equate anal activity with being homosexual in nature even if their partner is female. Hell, I've heard of women even thinking it's gay. The simple, short answer is that a lot of people are misinformed. Talking about receiving anal sex would most likely result in ridicule from all but the most open minded of men. Straight guys don't want that kind of stigma any more than a straight female would want to be known as a lesbian.
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Firstly, posting a totally transparent ad for jerk-off material is unlikely to get you many responses.
How come?

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To answer the OP question, probably not, but a little butt play with a little toy can be nice.
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I'll second that

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Firstly, posting a totally transparent ad for jerk-off material is unlikely to get you many responses.
This is just NOT that kind of room ... as the responses to your requests clearly show. Sadly for you this is one of the most mature, truly helpful and informative sites on the Net. Morons are usually warned once and then ignored. The question about STRAIGHT men liking anal sex with a REAL COCK makes the above sentence fairly self-evident.
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Old 09-07-2009, 12:01 PM   #11
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the anus is a very sensitive area. I have had several rim jobs where the girl slide her tongue in my ass, and it was the most incredible feeling in the world. This was of course after hours of having my tongue up her ass and having her realize how amazing it is.

I have also enjoyed having a finger up my ass, but that is where my experience ends.
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Because it's considered gay by many men. In my experience, most equate anal activity with being homosexual in nature even if their partner is female. Hell, I've heard of women even thinking it's gay. The simple, short answer is that a lot of people are misinformed. Talking about receiving anal sex would most likely result in ridicule from all but the most open minded of men. Straight guys don't want that kind of stigma any more than a straight female would want to be known as a lesbian.
I understand what you're saying here but I still don't understand how men can decide a certain act can mean they are gay when they don't fancy men at all or have bi tendencies. Confirmed lesbians don't take the occasional random cock for fun so why would a confirmed heterosexual feel his whole sexuality was threatened by ass play? I know many believe these things and that people are less enlightened (and slutty) than I but gay only means being exlcusively attracted to the same sex. Nothing but exclusively fancying your own gender (or chosen gender before the TG/TS brigade verbally rape me) makes you gay.

Plus, if I was a guy and I knew my G spot was up my ass, I'm pretty sure I'd want to find it.

I also dislike the notion that receiving anal play as a man is always a submissve act. My Master is a very dominant guy and completely heterosexual. He also enjoys anal play on occasion. He gets me to rim him, finger him and even insert small toys. None of this detracts from the fact he is a heterosexual, dominant man. If he wanted me to fuck his prostate with a strap-on, he would still be in charge and I would still be in service to him.

So I know that ignorace is out there but that doesn't make it less exasperating.
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Well, part of that could be because you don't need much persuasion to get your ass fucked. I think it's, at least partially, the allure of the unknown thing that so many women don't even want to try.
Yeah but being anally fucked by my guy doesn't make me a lesbian so I fail to comprehend why a guy being fucked by a girl must secretly harbour homo-erotic urges.

Most women think anal will hurt like fuck and unless a lot of prep and lube goes into it, they're proven right. It only takes a few vociferous dissenters to put most women off the idea. Also, many view it as unhygienic and a potentially damaging act that will leave them in nappies (diapers).
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Yeah but being anally fucked by my guy doesn't make me a lesbian so I fail to comprehend why a guy being fucked by a girl must secretly harbour homo-erotic urges.

Most women think anal will hurt like fuck and unless a lot of prep and lube goes into it, they're proven right. It only takes a few vociferous dissenters to put most women off the idea. Also, many view it as unhygienic and a potentially damaging act that will leave them in nappies (diapers).
I can't imagine that "rimming" - asshole licking - is not unhygeinic.
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I can't imagine that "rimming" - asshole licking - is not unhygeinic.
Well there's a time and a place for such things. If we do this, it's fresh from the shower, or even in the shower itself. It does feel rather unique though, the anus is incredibly sensitive.
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I understand what you're saying here but I still don't understand how men can decide a certain act can mean they are gay when they don't fancy men at all or have bi tendencies. Confirmed lesbians don't take the occasional random cock for fun so why would a confirmed heterosexual feel his whole sexuality was threatened by ass play? I know many believe these things and that people are less enlightened (and slutty) than I but gay only means being exlcusively attracted to the same sex. Nothing but exclusively fancying your own gender (or chosen gender before the TG/TS brigade verbally rape me) makes you gay.

Agreed.

I guess they have a narrow minded logic: Wanting something up my ass must mean I'm gay.

Never mind the fact that they wouldn't dream of being sexually interested in another man, it's the thought of something penetrating their ass that automatically instigates this line of thinking. That, and anal play has long been traditionally associated with gay men.



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Plus, if I was a guy and I knew my G spot was up my ass, I'm pretty sure I'd want to find it.
I have discovered there's a wealth of pleasure to be had from one's prostate. If they only knew ...

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I also dislike the notion that receiving anal play as a man is always a submissve act. My Master is a very dominant guy and completely heterosexual. He also enjoys anal play on occasion. He gets me to rim him, finger him and even insert small toys. None of this detracts from the fact he is a heterosexual, dominant man. If he wanted me to fuck his prostate with a strap-on, he would still be in charge and I would still be in service to him.

So I know that ignorace is out there but that doesn't make it less exasperating.
I think when most guys picture anal play, they envision themselves in a receiving position. Or perhaps they watch too much Femdom porn. I haven't given it much thought, but when I do, I tend to think of myself in the submissive/receiving state. I'm not disagreeing with you because I believe you're right; just that the average guy doesn't have your experience or outlook.
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I also dislike the notion that receiving anal play as a man is always a submissve act.
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I think when most guys picture anal play, they envision themselves in a receiving position. Or perhaps they watch too much Femdom porn.
I think because most of the F/m strap on porn is Femdom (which I do like) based that it gives the idea that it can only be a submissive act. Also, the only other porn where a guy gets it in the ass is in gay porn, so a lot of it comes from that too.

Once you do it right, whether from just a few strong orgasms with something in your ass, or a good fucking, you get over it real quick. And don't get me started on the anal orgasm!
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Fingers in ass, yes (I think the middle 3 was the last count by my gf). Just waiting for the right time to by a strap-on. To be fair to both of us and just plain nice, average size preferably, i.e. 6-7 inches.

If that wasn't clear (lol), answer be yes, I do like a bit of ass-play, although admittedly I am slightly bi, gf knows it (also bi) so really there's no discomfort around the subject Good times
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i like to tell you its great haveing my butt filled i am not in to men at all. i wish i found more woman in to it that did not thing i was gay because of my loveing being pegged thanks
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I can't imagine that "rimming" - asshole licking - is not unhygeinic.
A dental damn, its a piece of latex the you can use for cunnlingus and anal rimming, or go with what Velvet had said and do it in the shower. I don't do it very often to my husband, but he does enjoy the once every week strap-on sex I give him. He does not consider himself gay, its just another way we bond to each other.
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Smile Do streight men like to be fucked in the ass.

I consider myself to be a streight man. I have been fucked in the ass 3 times in my life. The last time being many years ago. It was an interesting experience with a transexual. She was really pretty but I am not interested in doing it again. I liked her and we became friends and we did it. I haven't seen her in years and if I ever see her again, it would not be for sex.

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Yeah but being anally fucked by my guy doesn't make me a lesbian so I fail to comprehend why a guy being fucked by a girl must secretly harbour homo-erotic urges.

Most women think anal will hurt like fuck and unless a lot of prep and lube goes into it, they're proven right. It only takes a few vociferous dissenters to put most women off the idea. Also, many view it as unhygienic and a potentially damaging act that will leave them in nappies (diapers).
I think the ass fucking guys thing even dated back to biblical times, thousands of years ago. The reason why Sodom got condemned is because they asserted their dominance over outsiders by raping guys in the ass.
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I understand what you're saying here but I still don't understand how men can decide a certain act can mean they are gay when they don't fancy men at all or have bi tendencies. Confirmed lesbians don't take the occasional random cock for fun so why would a confirmed heterosexual feel his whole sexuality was threatened by ass play? I know many believe these things and that people are less enlightened (and slutty) than I but gay only means being exlcusively attracted to the same sex. Nothing but exclusively fancying your own gender (or chosen gender before the TG/TS brigade verbally rape me) makes you gay.

Plus, if I was a guy and I knew my G spot was up my ass, I'm pretty sure I'd want to find it.

I also dislike the notion that receiving anal play as a man is always a submissve act. My Master is a very dominant guy and completely heterosexual. He also enjoys anal play on occasion. He gets me to rim him, finger him and even insert small toys. None of this detracts from the fact he is a heterosexual, dominant man. If he wanted me to fuck his prostate with a strap-on, he would still be in charge and I would still be in service to him.

So I know that ignorace is out there but that doesn't make it less exasperating.
Honestly, I think how jaded you become from enjoyment of BDSM really just destroys the power of all the urban sex legends.

I remember a debate we had last year on a non kinky sex forum. There was one woman that rivaled me in kinkiness and sluttiness (she even asked questions about things I had to research I learned about things like asshole bleaching and using ice water for necrophilia fantasies) and she wanted to share some of her pictures of her fun weekend. It was a scene she did with a couple of fuck buddies where they ripped her clothes off, tied her up, gagged her, wrote 'slut' on the side of her face, and then, caned her cunt and ass, and fucked her. Of course, I had no real issue with it. It was consentual and handled safely, so it didn't bother me a bit when she posted it. It led to a huge firestorm, though, about how it was extremely offensive, degrading to all women, and would cause other women to get raped.
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I remember a debate we had last year on a non kinky sex forum. There was one woman that rivaled me in kinkiness and sluttiness (she even asked questions about things I had to research I learned about things like asshole bleaching and using ice water for necrophilia fantasies) and she wanted to share some of her pictures of her fun weekend. It was a scene she did with a couple of fuck buddies where they ripped her clothes off, tied her up, gagged her, wrote 'slut' on the side of her face, and then, caned her cunt and ass, and fucked her. Of course, I had no real issue with it. It was consentual and handled safely, so it didn't bother me a bit when she posted it. It led to a huge firestorm, though, about how it was extremely offensive, degrading to all women, and would cause other women to get raped.
Yeah, people do still think this. I'm sure if I was a vanilla woman and/or a rape victim I might think that titillating pics of apparently non-consensual acts is candy to rapists like kiddie porn is to paedos. I suppose it is, but only to a point. Rapists (as opposed to consensually kinky people) have squillions of sites devoted to that stuff to choose from though. The reason there's such a market for genuinely non-consensual images/porn is that guys with a fixation/obsession for rape have little interest in images that clearly state they are consensual. In addition, you can't eradicate material that rapists find arousing. Soap operas and prime time TV shows feature rape storylines. Mainstream movies often do. There are countless pornos and pictures of seemingly non-consensual acts. Just as a paedophile can get turned on by sitting in a park watching kids play innocently, so a man fixated on rape can feed that urge y fantasising about any women he encounters whom he finds attractive. It is ridiculous to imagine that all titillating S&M images can be eradicated by wishing and futile to try.

Porn/images made/distributed without consent should be targeted and their manufacture shut down but adult sites devoted to adult pastimes, freely indulged in my adult individuals should not become a casualty of the over-zealous 'ban everything just in case' brigade. Reasoning like this is how muslim women have been shackled by sharia laws and flowing black burkhas/veils - not because they would be promiscuous but because men simply aren't trusted within feet of a woman of child-bearing age.
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. . . The reason there's such a market for genuinely non-consensual images/porn is that guys with a fixation/obsession for rape have little interest in images that clearly state they are consensual. In addition, you can't eradicate material that rapists find arousing. Soap operas and prime time TV shows feature rape storylines. Mainstream movies often do. There are countless pornos and pictures of seemingly non-consensual acts. Just as a paedophile can get turned on by sitting in a park watching kids play innocently, so a man fixated on rape can feed that urge y fantasising about any women he encounters whom he finds attractive. It is ridiculous to imagine that all titillating S&M images can be eradicated by wishing and futile to try. . .
Non-consent is an interesting and tricky issue in porn. Many healthy people love seeing the fantasy played out in porn where she begins with "No! No!" but is soon moaning "Yes! Yes!" Me included. And yet the notion of real non-consent - rape - could not be more repugnant or more of a turn-off.

So, where does the fantasy end and the real, ugly thing begin? It's a challenge for porn writers and producers, but one that appears to be easily met, since there's a ton of the stuff out there.
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