Shot my load

Im a young guy 21 with an average cock. But i have never been able to shot my fum on my girl friend is there something wrong with me or is it something to learn

uh like you can't cum while looking at her or what?

Does she actually want you to shoot your cum on her, or is it just something you think you're supposed to do because you've seen it in porn?

The size of your cock has nothing to do with it.

If you don't have a problem ejaculating in other situations, the issue (if there even is one) is between your ears. It's very possible that part of your brain sees coming on a woman as degrading, shameful, worrisome, etc., and that's causing enough anxiety to hold you back.

Like the previous posters, I'm not sure if you are saying you have a problem cumming at all when you're with your girlfriend, or if you just can't ejaculate directly ON her. If you can't cum at all, you need to see a doctor right away! It is not at all normal for a healthy, 21 year old male to be able to cum at all. If you are having this problem, something must be up.

If you just can't cum ON her, I would agree with SweetErica and say it's a mental issue. Are you trying to masturbate from start to finish on her, or are you trying to pull out and cum on her? If you are trying to masturbate, perhaps you have some subconscious embarrassment about masturbation, or an embarrassment about the size of your cock (since you mentioned it in your post), and having it so exposed in front of her, and that is what is holding you back. If you are trying to pull out and cum on her, just try waiting a bit longer before you pull out. Wait until that "point of no return," and then pull out and either stimulate your cock with your hand, or have her do it (depending on what your current position is.)

No i just meant that i cant shoot i mean i can com it just runs out all the pll i have ever talked to they shoot and i have never done that

Increase your foreplay time. Get close to cumming but don't. Build it up for awhile. I bet you two do your thing and you cum the first time that tingling starts. Don't

You will ejaculate with more force if you learn to delay your orgasm.

Fowler_golf_10 said:

Im a young guy 21 with an average cock. But i have never been able to shot my fum on my girl friend is there something wrong with me or is it something to learn

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Blow more air into "her". And quit skipping English class.

As everything else to do with genetalia (e.g. size, shape etc) varies from guy to guy I would imagine that the manner in which you ejaculate should also vary. Some guys produce a lot of precum and some don't. Some guys can fire off a load like a gunshot and take their woman's eye out, some probably just can't. While specter170s advice on orgasm control is a good idea to try, you may be forced to accept that you just don't have a spring loaded cock.

Why don't you just stand or kneel over her and cum on her that way?

VelvetDarkness said:

Why don't you just stand or kneel over her and cum on her that way?

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That's hot. I used to love it when my previous partner would stand over me and cum on me. Great advice.

I'll bet you're not the only one who can't shoot. If what spector said doesn't work, you can just add it to the things that make you unique. Also make sure you're cock is aligned comfortably, you're not pointing it a certain direction or something.

Yo, hogjack, look at who you're writing "to."

Blow more air into "her". And quit skipping English class.

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He's obviously skipped most of his hinglieesh classes so too late there although clearly it is badly needed advice.

Blow more air into her? You're liable to get the poor girl killed. If he does do that thinking it'll improve his thrust to drag ratios she's laible to get an embolism. Ya gotta remember when we "joke" in here a percentage of the readers (barely) will take it literally. Be careful what you say.

To the OP. Do your KEGELS. The PC muscle and the series of muscles that squeeze the base of the erection in such a way that the sperm and seminal fluids are shoved out the end O your dick is what appears to be lacking here. Ya got NO muscle tone in there. When you urinate squeeze OFF and then let go, squeeze it off, let go. This is especially effective when you are close to or just after a full erection. When you squeeze the urine will shoot out and then stop. Let go and when the flow resumes SQUEEZE again and the flow will shooot out and then stop. Repeat for as long as you have ammo in your mighty water (pee) cannon. That SHOULD improve your ability to mimic those idiotic porn clips where the guys ALWAYS pull out and shoots all over their faces.

WHY (other than visual "proof" that he's cuming) wouuld a guy pull OUT whn he's cuming is beyond me. The sensations of being buried in all that warm wet tightness is what feels the best. Pulling out is just wrong but what the hell. Maybe it'll reduce the population ... people like the OP thinking that's what ya ave to do cuz that's what the porno studs do ....

Mr.G said:

Yo, hogjack, look at who you're writing "to."



He's obviously skipped most of his hinglieesh classes so too late there although clearly it is badly needed advice.

Blow more air into her? You're liable to get the poor girl killed. If he does do that thinking it'll improve his thrust to drag ratios she's laible to get an embolism. Ya gotta remember when we "joke" in here a percentage of the readers (barely) will take it literally. Be careful what you say.

To the OP. Do your KEGELS. The PC muscle and the series of muscles that squeeze the base of the erection in such a way that the sperm and seminal fluids are shoved out the end O your dick is what appears to be lacking here. Ya got NO muscle tone in there. When you urinate squeeze OFF and then let go, squeeze it off, let go. This is especially effective when you are close to or just after a full erection. When you squeeze the urine will shoot out and then stop. Let go and when the flow resumes SQUEEZE again and the flow will shooot out and then stop. Repeat for as long as you have ammo in your mighty water (pee) cannon. That SHOULD improve your ability to mimic those idiotic porn clips where the guys ALWAYS pull out and shoots all over their faces.

WHY (other than visual "proof" that he's cuming) wouuld a guy pull OUT whn he's cuming is beyond me. The sensations of being buried in all that warm wet tightness is what feels the best. Pulling out is just wrong but what the hell. Maybe it'll reduce the population ... people like the OP thinking that's what ya ave to do cuz that's what the porno studs do ....

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I was going to mention this.. but you beat me to it..

Mr.G said:

WHY (other than visual "proof" that he's cuming) wouuld a guy pull OUT whn he's cuming is beyond me. The sensations of being buried in all that warm wet tightness is what feels the best.

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Different folks, different strokes - recall that not everyone will enjoy the same things that you do to the same degree.

Abstain for a few days and drink plenty of fluids. After that a looooong foreplay period should get you shooting a little bit.

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To the OP. Do your KEGELS.

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Yup! Since it is muscle spasms that sends the semen forth, then muscle tone in that area is what is needed to improve your projectile distance.