Old 02-05-2015, 03:45 PM   #1
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I want to wean off my fave vibe and cum with just my hands. It's just that it's just so easy when you just need to get off. Any tips?
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Old 02-05-2015, 03:48 PM   #2
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my ex girlfriend started using vibrators and found that she couldn't orgasm with just her hands anymore
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Old 02-05-2015, 04:00 PM   #3
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Ok, you gotta re-train that clit! First thing you do is put those toys away where they are hard to get to. And then any time you find yourself reaching for a toy, you need to STOP IT.



Recognize that it might be a while before you cum with just your hands, and that's ok. Eventually your body will figure it out. But certainly when you're in the early days you'll be lying there all rub-a-dub-dub and thinking about how oh if only you pulled out the vibe you could cum. When you start thinking like that, you need to STOP IT.



Give yourself permission not to cum. Concentrate on enjoying the feelings you are getting from your fingers, and lose yourself in whatever you're fantasizing about. Go back to exploring different ways to touch yourself and the different sensations you get. Even if it doesn't make you cum right away, it's going to be fun to play around like that. And then one day, wham-oh! You'll start cumming and you won't be able to STOP IT!

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Old 02-05-2015, 04:04 PM   #4
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Love the stop signs ! Very effective
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Old 02-05-2015, 04:09 PM   #5
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Love the stop signs ! Very effective
Look at him every time you're about to vibe it.
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Old 03-15-2015, 08:33 PM   #6
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I use my fingers mostly anyway, but why give up your toys? You must have a reason to give them up Arielsdream my love? Batteries don't cost that much and good quality toys are water proof.

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Old 03-27-2015, 08:37 PM   #7
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So much for the weaning-off-toys crowd, Ms. A, or so it would appear.
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Old 03-27-2015, 08:43 PM   #8
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my ex girlfriend started using vibrators and found that she couldn't orgasm with just her hands anymore
This is why I've never bought any toys. I prefer flesh anyway and toys just feel fake to me and take me out of it.
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