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Old 02-08-2009, 12:29 AM   #1
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so the wife wants me to swallow

so my wife thinks it woud be hot if i swallowed my own cum. basically she wants me to cum on her tits and lick it off or cum on her ass/crack and lick it off. whats the opinion and if youve done it how do you get past the fact that your swallowing cum. ive seen the porns and i think its really hot when chicks catch a load in ther mouth and another swallows it. i get hot thinking about it but when it comes time i just cant make myself follow thru.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:07 AM   #2
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It's not the fact that you're swallowing cum that's the problem. It's the fact that you're swallowing cum after you've already cum.

This has been mentioned a number of times in various threads, and it's always come up that the guy loses interest in doing something like this after orgasm.

There have been various suggested solutions:

1. The woman forces the guy to do it.
2. It just doesn't happen.
3. Wait a few minutes, getting turned on again, and do it then.
4. Make it some other guy's cum, so you're still turned on after he's cum.

Which one you choose will depend on you and your wife.

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Old 02-08-2009, 01:25 AM   #3
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yeah ive tried many times a good cream pie makes me hot. ive came in the crack of her ass, pussy, tits, back and just cant make myself do it. ive watched porn and masterbated to women swallowing caught it in my hand and just cant do it. i looked at this site last night and caught 3 nuts the third was just begging to be swallowed and i couldnt do it. usually my first and second are pretty thick so i would have to lick them off but last night i forced a third and it was thinner.

are there any women willing to describe the taste. maybe i can accept it. maybe someone can send me an inspirational vid
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:30 AM   #4
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ive actually almost been forced she got off of me and i shot a load and got myself on the chin i almost wish it would have made it so i could just find out if i can accept it or not. as far as another guys cum i dont see that happening i just cant see me accepting another guy now i do have a fantasy of another guy watching me hammer his wife.
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Old 02-08-2009, 02:06 AM   #5
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Old 02-08-2009, 03:31 AM   #6
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My boyfriend actually suggested this to ME first, and it's quite enjoyable on occasion, though it's not something we do often. The way in which we do it is I will go down on him and instead of swallowing when he is finished, we will deeply kiss and exchange it. It's more intimate and less porn-y, which makes it more realistic and easier to approach.

My advice would be to ease into it this way. Have her swallow most of it then have only a small amount pass between you two. If you don't like it, say as much, but if you enjoy it, then you know it won't be something you are opposed to in more kinky situations!
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Old 02-08-2009, 03:47 AM   #7
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yeah ive tried many times a good cream pie makes me hot. ive came in the crack of her ass, pussy, tits, back and just cant make myself do it. ive watched porn and masterbated to women swallowing caught it in my hand and just cant do it. i looked at this site last night and caught 3 nuts the third was just begging to be swallowed and i couldnt do it. usually my first and second are pretty thick so i would have to lick them off but last night i forced a third and it was thinner.

are there any women willing to describe the taste. maybe i can accept it. maybe someone can send me an inspirational vid
I can't never seem to do it after I cum either!
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Old 02-08-2009, 03:57 AM   #8
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I know I've wanted to try my own (just becasue if I expect a woman to taste it its only fair that I have at least once) but after I cum am totally grossed out by the idea even though it seems incredibly hot before I do. I think I'd be ok with getting a mouthful while kissing her though.
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Old 02-08-2009, 04:10 AM   #9
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are there any women willing to describe the taste. maybe i can accept it.
To be honest, unless you smoke like a chimney and drink neat bourbon all day, it doesn't taste of much at all. It's more the warm, viscous texture of it that people don't like.

Eat pineapple (so I've heard), lay off the caffeine/cigs/booze, keep yourself well hydrated and it's as yummy as it's ever going to get. I don't really get why men expect women to be perfectly happy with tasting themselves (although, why wouldn't we?) and yet see tasting their own semen as some taboo and distasteful activity.
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Old 02-08-2009, 05:56 AM   #10
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What you can do is ejaculate without actually orgasming (and hence avoide the come down). It takes a bit of practice and self control, but just as you're about to reach orgasm stop what you're doing and kind of flex yourself, as if you're squirting out the last dregs of a pee, and you can squirt some of your cum out, and you'll still be hot and may be able to do it then. You don't even have to tell your wife that you're not orgasming. You could win brownie points by showing her what you're prepared to do for her pleasure.
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Old 02-08-2009, 06:01 AM   #11
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so my wife thinks it woud be hot if i swallowed my own cum. basically she wants me to cum on her tits and lick it off or cum on her ass/crack and lick it off. whats the opinion and if youve done it how do you get past the fact that your swallowing cum. ive seen the porns and i think its really hot when chicks catch a load in ther mouth and another swallows it. i get hot thinking about it but when it comes time i just cant make myself follow thru.
May I suggest you to visit the thread my girlfriend and I have created?
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Old 02-08-2009, 11:46 AM   #12
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start by tasting precum
thats tastier anyways
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:43 PM   #13
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If you expect your wife to swallow, you shouldn't have any problems with tasting your own load. Hell, tasting it might even prompt you to make a few dietary changes!

Like the Nike ads say, "Just do it." I don't always feel like continuing with what my husband and I are doing after I have an orgasm (or several), but I want him to enjoy himself. Just keep the mindset that you're doing something that you know she'll enjoy.
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Old 02-08-2009, 02:42 PM   #14
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You dont know what your missing. Like human said it works I have gotten a few good shots out then licked it all up.Boy dose she get hot from that
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Old 02-08-2009, 06:31 PM   #15
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Licking it up

I enjoy doing this. There's no question it sounds very, very hot until you cum, and then you lose interest . . .

While I don't mind licking up after myself if I spurt on her breasts, legs, tush, etc . . .but my favorite is to have my wife ride me cowgirl style then let me bring her to another oral orgasm after I've cum. This usually creates a hightened orgasm for my wife . . .which gives me a great deal of pleasure to see her so satisfied.

This has been discussed a great deal on the GLBT thread, but the consensus seems to be that since this is a sex act between a man and a woman, it is a hetro act . . .not that we need to get hung up on what's straight and what's not.
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Old 02-09-2009, 03:37 AM   #16
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I'm not exactly sure what to say since I like cum.
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Old 02-09-2009, 03:55 PM   #17
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Not a big deal dude, just do it. Its not that bad.
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Old 02-09-2009, 05:25 PM   #18
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well..I have a suggestion here...I dont know if you could do this,,,but if you jack once in a while...if it hits your hand in anyway...just lick that little bit...my first wife wanted to see me do that..so that was how i did it.
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Old 02-09-2009, 05:48 PM   #19
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Try "ruining" your orgasm first. Meaning stopping right when some ejaculate comes out, but not after that "finished" feeling.
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Old 02-09-2009, 10:53 PM   #20
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to be honest, unless you smoke like a chimney and drink neat bourbon all day, it doesn't taste of much at all
with all due respect, MLH, that simply isn't true for all men. indeed, i've compared the scent of my own essence to bean sprouts.

and no, i don't particularly a lot of bean sprouts.

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Old 02-10-2009, 11:49 PM   #21
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Chevy, this is something that has turned me on for years. It is extremely hot while I am horny and I often think of it while not horny, but, immediately after orgasm it is kind of a disgusting turnoff. Since I find it such a huge turn on at other times I have instructed my wife to force me to do it, whether I want to or not after orgasm. I explain to her that it turns me on so much that it would no longer turn me on if I knew ahead of time she wasn't going to make me go through with it. So, I guess you have to decide if you really want to do it or not. If you do you have a couple of options. One is saving your cum in a container and freezing it. You can either save one load or several. Then, when you are really horny she can have you eat it while you are still horny. The second method is to just force you to do it. For me it is such a huge turn on thinking about it and knowing you are going to have to do it. You could accomplish the task by having her tie you up and then make you eat it in some fashion, such as she could feed it to you. This has been an obsession for me for years and still to this day I don't really like to do it after orgasm, so, in my case anyway, I don't know if it is ever possible that I would get used to it enough where I would actually want to do it after orgasm. Good luck and have fun.
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Old 02-11-2009, 03:58 AM   #22
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Chevy, this is something that has turned me on for years. It is extremely hot while I am horny and I often think of it while not horny, but, immediately after orgasm it is kind of a disgusting turnoff. Since I find it such a huge turn on at other times I have instructed my wife to force me to do it, whether I want to or not after orgasm. I explain to her that it turns me on so much that it would no longer turn me on if I knew ahead of time she wasn't going to make me go through with it. So, I guess you have to decide if you really want to do it or not. If you do you have a couple of options. One is saving your cum in a container and freezing it. You can either save one load or several. Then, when you are really horny she can have you eat it while you are still horny. The second method is to just force you to do it. For me it is such a huge turn on thinking about it and knowing you are going to have to do it. You could accomplish the task by having her tie you up and then make you eat it in some fashion, such as she could feed it to you. This has been an obsession for me for years and still to this day I don't really like to do it after orgasm, so, in my case anyway, I don't know if it is ever possible that I would get used to it enough where I would actually want to do it after orgasm. Good luck and have fun.
I never dared to do it either, because of the way-down of a guy's libido once he has cummed. But my girlfriend knew that it was a turn on for me, and seeing me eat my own cum and clean her up was also one of her fantasies.
We have a long-distance relationship, and still, one little at a time, she made me go through steps, she forced me to do some things, and now, each time I masturbate, I have to eat my cum, and I do it gladly.
By forcing me, by telling me that never again am I allowed to waste a single drop of cum, she helped me going beyond my 'psychological' limits, and it's easier and easier each time. Once you get used to it, once you know you don't have the choice, it becomes natural.
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Old 02-11-2009, 02:15 PM   #23
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Wink I don't get the negative

Apart from the relationship, whether dom/sub or something else, what's the big deal? And, if you want your SO to swallow, you better be ready to do likewise.
'Sides, it's not like it will hurt you, and it actually tastes ok.

Not like a good merlot or Pinoit Griggio, but.....
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Old 02-11-2009, 08:18 PM   #24
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I'm another one that can't wait to dive into the creampie...but at the finish...interest is lost. Bummer.
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:23 PM   #25
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Swallowing your own cum

Dont think about it,just do it .You will be glad you did,it tastes so yummy and is good for you
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