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Old 12-08-2008, 12:26 PM   #26
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i.... dont remember my first time being spanked.

how odd.
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Old 12-08-2008, 02:33 PM   #27
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mmmm i would love to spanked ..... maybe one day
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Old 12-08-2008, 04:02 PM   #28
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It hurt, quite a bit, but I enjoyed it.
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Old 12-08-2008, 08:12 PM   #29
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Old 12-09-2008, 01:26 AM   #30
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Uneventful, mildly irritating to wildly irritating.

Being belted or caned on the other hand, invigorating and kind of erotic.
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Old 12-11-2008, 10:26 AM   #31
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Old 12-11-2008, 11:01 AM   #32
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I hope if we get what we wish for, that we do not regret it!
If you really wish for it..perhaps you won't regret it..at least I didn't.

My first spanking hurt but I loved the anticipation and it was energizing. Just being bent over one's lap or desk made me hot. Then I wanted more...hairbrush, paddle, cane..

I feel bad for those who had less than memorable first experiences
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Old 12-11-2008, 08:05 PM   #33
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First time: ex-wife, not very into it, but I liked it.

First time by someone that was into it: Awesome, I came far to soon, and she beat my as for that...

I loved it!
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Old 12-12-2008, 12:24 AM   #34
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I was caught by surprise, actually. My s.o. clipped me a few while we were having sex. I was shocked at first, but loved it. Spankings are still reserved for during sex though. We haven't done the "tie me up and spank me" thing.
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Old 12-12-2008, 10:05 PM   #35
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:34 PM   #36
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Old 12-19-2008, 05:43 PM   #37
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I was spanked as a child on occassion (hand and belt), probably where these thoughts come from. My partner was never spanked so she has zero interest in the subject.
I was spanked as a child, too, and now my mom constantly curses herself for it because of my love of kink (I live with her, so it's kind of hard to hide things like my sex life. Besides, we're open with each other and I like to gross her out), but I don't think my enjoyment of being spanked is a result of being spanked as a kid.

That being said, I love being spanked and I don't mind spanking on occasion. It's one of those things that is fairly easy to control (i.e. it's easy for the person doing the hitting to control the force behind it) and I consider it pretty basic kink, so if someone who's not used to something like BDSM wanted to get into it spanking might not be a huge issue (I even know vanilla folks who enjoy a good slap to the ass every now and then).

I say you go for it, absolutely. It's fun, it more than likely won't leave any permanent damage, and if you or your partner doesn't like it, you don't have to do it anymore.
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Old 12-19-2008, 05:48 PM   #38
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Aaaannndddd.... I just realized I didn't actually answer the original question about my first time. Damn my rambling!

My first time being spanked was by my parents, so not too fond of a memory there.

But, my first time being spanked that wasn't by my parents as punishment for something I did happened when I was about 14 or 15 at school, by one of my friends. We were always smacking each other's asses like that (we were a very close group). A guy friend of mine came up and gave me a good, solid whack on the ass out of nowhere and I actually thought it was really fun and affectionate, like a hug, almost.
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Old 12-21-2008, 06:41 PM   #39
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Old 12-21-2008, 06:54 PM   #40
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Old 12-22-2008, 12:30 AM   #42
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Ah, I didn't realize we were including spankings given by parents as children. In that case, I don't remember my first spanking. I'm sure it happened before I can even remember. My mom's #1 favorite activity seemed to have been wailing on her kids.
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Old 12-22-2008, 02:52 AM   #43
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I've actually never been spanked...not even as a child. I find myself thinking about it lately. Oddly though, I imagine his hand while many of your posts indicate you prefer an object over a hand. I wonder why...anyone care to share?
I prefer my boyfriend's hand over an object mostly because he'll rub the spot where he's smacking sometimes and the increased sensitivity from the spanking makes it feel that much more arousing. Plus, there is something about the feeling and sound of skin on skin contact that really does it for me.
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Old 12-22-2008, 06:47 AM   #44
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I think my thrill started out from when I was little.. I enjoyed so my Mom had to figure out a way I didnt enjoy it.. So she devised after being spanked she would make me sit on the cold linoluem floor.. OWWWIIEE

Fast forward to when my interest started in this lifestyle..

I tried floggers, crops and I prefer my Sirs hand on HIS ass, it is something he will do and he enjoys but he does enjoy flogging to a point but mostly he likes the skin on skin contact.
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Old 12-26-2008, 12:07 AM   #45
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Everyone has their own personal likes and dislikes. I think a hand is a good place to start but if it is really punishment you are craving and a bdsm type scene, I don't believe a hand is good enough.
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Old 12-26-2008, 07:32 AM   #46
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Everyone has their own personal likes and dislikes. I think a hand is a good place to start but if it is really punishment you are craving and a bdsm type scene, I don't believe a hand is good enough.
I'd disagree on that one. I think it depends what you're going for.

All I know is Sir can use his hand and it hurt like sweet hell. He had me in tears from using his hand the other week.
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Old 12-26-2008, 07:38 AM   #47
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i did not enjoy it but after it was over i realised i wanted it again
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Old 12-26-2008, 06:27 PM   #48
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I realized....

My pussy seems to enjoy it most
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Old 12-26-2008, 06:44 PM   #49
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I'd disagree on that one. I think it depends what you're going for.

All I know is Sir can use his hand and it hurt like sweet hell. He had me in tears from using his hand the other week.
Exactly. At times there can be some serious power wielded through a hand spanking. It's one of those abilities that I find some have..not all.

And even though I love more..it usually always starts with the hand.
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